Show FOR ENGAGED GIRLS A we woman tells them eow to treat their future husbands Hus banda you havo a lettla band around tho third finger of your loft hand in which is set a turquoise says the ladies homo journal and when it was put there yoa remembered that tho hindu sail iio who hath a turquoise bath a friend now what you have in the man you lovo best and whose wife you are going to become a friend lie is your sweetheart your lover it is true but because to you his heart seems best worth having his love tho richest gift you can possess you will not vulgarize as many girls do the tie that binds it is true you go with him alono to hear some wonderful music or look at somo fine pictures but I 1 hope it ia not true that when you are at a party or in your own home you two pair off and make yourselves the objects for silly chatter and idiotic jesting he can love you with his whole heart but ho must not make you subject to ridicule he can thinh you tho most unselfish girl in the world but ho must not show his own selfishness by expecting you to devote your evenings exclusively clu to him ignoring those who are at home let him come in and bo one of them theres minutes when ho can speak to you when ho can kiss you on the lips that he knows aro only the gates to sweet pure speech and when he can whisper the lovely nothings that mean so much to you both then too dont lot him feel that he must give up all his friends for you dont accept valuable presents from him and dont assume an air of proprietor ship with him tell him nothing about your family affairs for tho secrets of j the household do not oven belong to the man you are going to marry guard yourself in word and deed hold hia levu lovu j in the best way possible tie it firmly to i you with the blue ribbon of hope and i never let it be eaten away by that little fox who destroys so many loving ties and who is called familiarity i |