OCR Text |
Show page 6 Friday, Davis County Dipper September 8, 1995 0 0 In most disputes there iS room for Compromise Growing up, my older sister Kathy and I were about as close which as two fingers in a fist is precisely the condition our First Birthday ci hands were often in whenever we were around each other. Dont get me wrong: we loved each other Its just that when we diswe which was often agreed made Cain and Abel look like poster children for The Sibling Unity Society. For example, there was the time we spent a rainy fall afternoon to records. We were having a great time spin- ning through our 45s. using brooms for guitars and Lincoln Logs for drumsticks in our attempt to imitate what we had seen on Ed Sullivan and American Bandstand. Kathy had Paul McCartney down cold, and I did a pretty groovy Brian Wilson, if I do say so myself. Mom, who had little tolerance for music sung by anyone younger than Bing Crosby, quickly tired of our activity. Thats it, she announced after a particularly stunning interpretation of I Wanna Hold Your One more song and the concerts over. Which was OK, because we Hand. Aubree Rose Moore celebrated her first birthday on Sept , 1995. She is the daughter of Rick 1 and Kristi Moore of Bountiful were down to our last two records Surfin Safari by the Beach Boys and Michelle by the Beatles. All we had to do was decide which one would be our closer, and that was going to be easy because: (A) "Surfin Safari was the better song; (B) the Beach Boys were the better group; and (C) it was my turn to choose, which made (A) and (B) irrelevant. Kathy countered that: (A) was a soft, beautiful was and therefore more song, a as closer; (B) the appropriate Beach Boys were declining in popularity and probably wouldnt Michelle last the decade; and (C) it didnt matter if it was my turn because she was older, smarter, taller and stronger than me. Yeah, I responded, and uglier, too! youre Negotiations pretty much broke down at that point. As I weddings i Goalen - Fuelling Mr. and Mrs. Stephen L. Goalen announce the marriage of their daughter. Melissa to Preston Dale Fuelling, son of Mr. and Mrs. Dale L. Fuelling of Murray. They will be married on September 12, 1995 in the Salt Lake Temple. A recetpion will be held that evening at the home of the grooms parents. The bride is a 992 graduate of Bountiful High and a student at the University of Utah. She participated in the BYU Study Abroad Program to Jerusalem, Israel. The groom is a 1989 graduate of South Summit High and a 1995 graduate of the University of Utah in business management. He a LDS mission to Qubec, Canada. recall, the episode ended with Kathy locked in her room and me pounding on her door with a although can't for the life of me remember whose crutch it was or if we fixed the hole I put in the door. Oh, and one other thing we never did do a closing song. We were so busy being disagreeable that we forgot about the point of our dispute, and we both ended up losing out. In retrospect. I think there was room for compromise. Im pretty sure I would have given in on Michelle if Kathy would have allowed me to be Paul. But we never really talked about it. We just fought to protect our own ideological turf. The same thing could be said for many disputes between people. How often do we argue and complain without first making an attempt at thoughtful, reasoned communication? While it would be simplistic to suggest that talking through our troubles will help us arrive at crutch 1 1 full-fill- PRESTON DALE FUELLING Rappleye-For- d cipled nation, and one of the most important principles we Monica Rappleye and Ruston Ford are being married Friday, Sept. 8 in the Salt Lake Temple. They will be honored at a reception that night at the Bountiful 24th Ward and also on Saturday at the Delta Stake C.nter. Monica is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Chad J. Rappleye of Delta. She graduated from Della High School and has been attending Snow College. Ruston is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Duane R. Ford of Bountiful. He graduated from Viewmont High School and served an LDS mission in the Chile Vina del Mar Mission. He then returned to Snow College and received his associate's degree. believe what they choose to they will live in Salt Lake City, where they will continue their happy consensus on every issue, maybe consensus isnt always what were looking for. a Sometimes its enough to just hear and understand another point of view. That doesnt mean we necessarily embrace the other persons position. But it does mean that we embrace the right of that individual to have a position that is contrary to ours. Our greatness as a nation isnt based upon the notion of perpetual agreement. Rather, we have created a system wherein there is room to disagree. We are a prin- espouse is the right of all people to think their own thoughts and Following their honeymoon, MONICA RAPPLEYE RUSTON FORD believe. To a great extent, our mutual success depends upon our ability to live together in harmony despite our deepest differences. Even if that means someone else gets to be Paul McCartney. riot) Do (Dun four-liDD- l How Do You DU Want Your Room.. .Plain or Padded? ,, V Sanity-Preservin- g Tactics for Todays Woman. Tyrol Joe Morse celebrated his first birthday on Aug 10, 1995 He is the son of Ronald and Penney Morse of Bountiful Jo Ann Larsen, a doctor of social work, teams up with veteran cartoonist Artemus Cole to offer a lively prescription for stress and guilt. In text and Tudkji School of Dofkd Under the direction of Juli Tueller Hadlock Registration 1 995-9- 6 v Tap Ballet Jazz for preschool and up Tumbling for boys and girls 9 years Competition dance teams for all ages Master classes in ballet and pointe Emphasis on technique - 4-- Qoi be, pQfi of OltL ui'Mu'hg jLQdiiiO'h! Register Today!!! 11:00 a.m. to 5.00 p.m. J f t' cartoons, the authors present a therapeutic mix of quotations and thoughts designed to amuse, inspire, and uplift Paper. $13.95 I - J (FffiB Available wherever Deseret Book products are sold. mBXDWS 483 West 325 South Bountiful .Come & . - - in or call 296-127- 6 or 268-062- Deseret Book 7 t t I M I I 4 I I I I 11 I t 4 1 |