Show COURT COURTESY ESY IN THE FAMILY from the los angeles times there ought to be a movement to improve family relationship through the payment of family obligations nobody treats the members of his family with the courtesy that he shows to strangers you telephone a member of your family to bring your glasses or your umbrella downtown and you never think of so much as returning their car fare but if a stranger so much as lifts a little finger for you your profuse thanks are expressed by taking him to lunch you borrow a quarter from a man and the next day ride six blocks out of your way to return it when you know that you would meet the man casually an hour later but you borrow 5 from a member of your fam family and the chances are that you are weeks returning it if ever you pay it back you condone yourself by saying that it is s all in the family which is all right as long as you are the debtor member |