Show r V i c No Such Thing as Good rey Husband for Any Girl T 3 Must Be Suited D DEAR EAR F EAR MISS 1155 DENE I should like to know what you consider Is Isa Isa Isn a n good husband for any girl My daughter has a chance chanec to marry a afine afine fine young man and so far as her father rather an and I can sec see he is about as asgood asgood asgood good a type for marriage as ns any she Is likely to meet But she says that he would not make malte her a good husband and she treats him so badly badly bad bad- ly Iy I won wonder cr that he stays around I want wayt to help her but I need an outsiders outsider's opinion to help me first W. W. W Va ANSWER There ANSWER There Is no such thing as a good husband for ANY girL There are plenty of at good husbands In the world but their efficiency is founded on the fact that they found the women best suited to them and that tha t their wives' wives love and adoration help to make them good husbands But a m man can be honorable and fine and a good provider and a tender tender ten ten- der loving companion yet companion yet bore his w wife e to death and make her restless restless rest rest- i 1 less and dissatisfied for the remainder remainder remainder remain remain- der of her life lite Its It's not that he does anything wrong Its It's just that he cant can't possibly do anything right for the woman who doesn't love him If II he is generous and sweet and kind she despises him for being being be be- ing an easy mark mark and and longs for the primitive caveman type A man may be thrillingly romantic passionate and possessive enough to watts satisfy f y any maidens maiden's dream but i if f he doesn't find the right woman he will win willbe willbe I be le a loss on th the matrimonial market pr rr the wife who loho doesn't love him will awn vann in the face of his most dramatic i and will yearn earn for a quiet plad plad-d existence with a nice calm life life- partner Mothers and fathers of course look rook over their heir possible son law with p practical t e e. e i If f hes he's a good provider and an honest steady teady worker they are ft least relieved o of f any worry about their daughters daughter's future ture and it is quite natural that they should 0 OK K the court- court hip chip But they must not forget that Mary will manage to 10 make herself desperately unhappy even in a ten ten- room house with a garage and a smart car and two new frocks a week week week-it if the man she marries isn't her idea of a good husband True she will not know the suffering and despair of utter poverty but if she has an imagination and the will to use it in the wrong direction she will arrange to have a special sort of suffering which will cast a blight blighton on her marriage Very often we see a young man pointed out as a splendid candidate for marriage because he neither smokes nor drinks nor fools around with women Yet letters come to tome tome tome me from girls who have married these exemplary characters letters characters letters which complain bitterly He doesn't seem to be human I wish he had a few faults so that hed he'd be more like other people He never never never nev nev- er wants to go out and frowns at atthe atthe atthe the slightest suggestion of frivolity I feel that I am nm getting to be an anold anold anold old woman without ever having had any fun And that other perfect candidate for marriage The good steady worker can be just as unsuccessful ful as his shiftless brother it if he chooses the wrong ma mate te For his industry and his untiring energy energy and his preoccupation with his job will get on the nerves of the woman who has no ambition for him and who would rather live simply on very little money than be a business business business busi busi- ness widow D EAR DEAR EAR MISS 1155 DENE DENS I have been U going with a boy for tor a year yer now t and while be he says he hc likes me he hc j has never sho shown sn any signs of or love I however have fallen faUe ver very much Inlove in ini inlove love and want to do anything 1 I I Ican can to win him You have helped I others will others will you help me me Bobbie ANSWER ANSWER Im Im I'm afraid I cant can't work any magic Bobbie which will make your lukewarm suitor a helpless victim victim victim vic vic- tim o of love And unfortunately tely there are no active steps you can take without upsetting the romance en en- It is certainly tough to be a mere woman under circumstances of this sort since it has always been w woman's womans womans woman's wom wom- omans om I ans an's lot to wait patiently and meekly meek meek- ly until some gre great brute has made up his mind that she will do No use kicking against the facts Better Better Better Bet Bet- ter to face ace them However woman is a more complex complex complex com com- plex creature than man and for that reason the tricks she plays on him are apt to work Whereas few men are quick and clever enough to fool any woman with their artful dodges Therefore Bobbie you might give your our hero something to think about by inventing another beau Stop Slop being being be be- ing the steady steady girl friend ar and l begin to show signs of being clu elusive ve Dont Don't be so almighty easy to date Talk vaguely about other plans Keep a memo book around in which to ta jot down dales instead dates instead of being eagerly ready to say yes whenever your our true love suggests an evening Its It's just possible that this years year's friendship has been too easy and matter fact to strike a romantic note with the man in the tho case Throw a little around yourself yourself your your- self sell and build up a n few illusions to convince e the boy friend that his dear old pal Is after all an extremely extremely extremely ex ex- attractive and rather rater mysterious mysterious mys mys- feminine being A very little judicious feminine deception can work wonders with the tempo of a n mans man's heart heartbeat heart beat 0 Bell BeU Syndicate Service |