BY rBY AMY ADAMS ft i r THE HAND KISSER Dear Amy Please tell me what to do In a 11 situation like this We have known a certain married couple for fat 25 years AU All these years we have Just be been n friends When the couple comes over to our house her ber husband always shakes hands with us But lately he has gotten Into the ilie habit of kissing my I hand and that's where the I trouble started My husband Just simply went wild and he accused me of every every- everything everything thing under the sun His tirade made me feel awfully cheap I dont don't like the Idea of hIs kissing my hand either Should I tell his wile wife to stop him or should I Just Ignore the ilie whole hole thing I never gave him any encouragement Innocent Victim Dear Innocent The kissing of n a womans woman's hand band Is a common tom and ami quite continental in Europe But Dut your friend sounds like an American Yokel who resorts to kissing hand be- be because because cause Its It's better than nothing Dont Don't Involve his wife she probably cant cant can't stomach hIs an tics either Its It's your hand so souse souse use your own mouth e a e e eDear Dear Amy Last summer I wrote to a man mall order house for forr a free catalogue Which I had seen advertised on television It was one of those things that say lf you want one write write- and they gave an address In October I received a card to fill out to start an account with their company I filled It r fully lly I told them was only 16 10 and that my weekly income was four dollars my allowance Perhaps I haven't received a reply because I am ager a and some ups grown dont don't feel that we count Would it be all right for me to write the company and ask why J C haven't received a catalogue or orI I even a reply Left at the Man Mail Box Dear Lefts By aU all means write to the fhe corn com pany and it wouldn't hurt to inform them that cash registers jingle Ingle from froni teen age purchases which total more than 3 13 of all alJ retail sales In the U 1 S At A I I I thought every smart business businessman man knew that Mr Sears a Dear Amy My love for my God and my family has bas been my life Now in my sunset years my husband wont won't accept the fact that if you live you get old For years I lived In content content- contentment ment and bliss Then I found out that Grand pa It was having af af- af affairs fairs with other women and that over the years he had been un- un unfaithful unfaithful faithful at times with a certain girl out our own daughters daughter's age I cant can't forget lie He says he is 15 through with her but how can I believe him He has never asked for forgiveness Amy I would give aU all that I own If this had never r I almost died be- be because because cause of his unfaithfulness I pray What else can I do A Faithful Wife Dear Wife You Yon can get off your rocking chair dear Maybe you feel old but grand pa doesn't Its It's In- In InevItable Inevitable evItable that your gay blade bade will wUl slow down In the meantime keep perpetually young and keep kee up UI with him At any rate stick slid with him You need each other and hes he's probably had bad Ills his last fling e Dear Amy The only way I can find help Is through your column I am Hi 16 years old and I am going with witha a 17 year old boy whom I love Jove very much We have had nn an argument a- a about about bout his going on his Senior Class trip Although I object to his going he wont won't listen and says he Is going anyway I trust him very much and wonder if Im I'm Just being selfish I Wondering I D Dear nt Wondering You are possessive domineer domineer- domineering Ing distrustful dismal and sel- sel ad- ad fishl fish U If its Us YO YOU U or his trip rm for tb the trip Ca all letters to tot AMY ADAMS do NEWSPAPER I For a personal reply enclose a stamped self addressed envelope