| Show 1 II I I I A Leslie Conder Community Reporter My brother Aaron is years old and single Girls if you want his number email me he is a definite looker Anyway he is always struggling with the ladies He goes goeson on a lot of first dates In my humble opinion it is because he tries too hard He brings them a dozen roses Takes them to a nice restaurant and then does something usually because he doesn't like doing the same old dinner and a movie thing Now to toa toa toa a lot of guys reading this you are probably saying aying wrong with that Girls like flowers and not always going to a movie On the same note a lot lotof lotof of girls are reading this saying Oh my gosh red roses on a first date This guy is crazy Hes He's not crazy just a terrible romantic who wants to find the ONE He doesn't know why it hasn't happened yet and also where is she Always having the same conversation with my brother led me to wonder In a world filled with guys thinking are just being romantic and girls thinking he wants a wife and six kids when does the nice guy get the girl girl girl- First off miscommunication When a nice guy is getting ready to go on a date with a girl the first thought that goes through his head is I will buy her flowers Girls always like flowers and this will be a good in for me me e. e When the girl sees I the flowers a lot of things could be going through her herI I head I t thought ought we were just friends A dozen roses already this is moving way too fast You get the point Although the mans man's heart was in the right place he needs need's to think about his audience Many girls arc not used to chivalrous gestures Play it cool the first date It is okay to do dinner and a movie In short dont don't blow all of your steam on the first date A girl doesn't like tha that t. t The second problem is too needy Guys lets let's be behonest behonest behonest honest here You dont don't like girls that are arc too needy When you are talking to toa toa toa a girl you dont don't like her herto herto herto to come off too needy Like you arc are the person she has waited for all her life and now that you have arrived arrived she can pull that wedding dress out of her closet that she bought last year Heres Here's a news flash Men and women may be bea a different in numerous ways but not wanting someone that is too needy too oo dependent is not one of them We Ve want a man that seems confident and gives a little bit of a challenge If you are are too easy to get getright getright getright right away then we get bored and move on The last problem is being too nice Dont Don't get me wrong I am not saying that you have to tobe tobe tobe be a bad boy to get the lady Although most girls if not all do go through a bad boy stage Most of us smarten up really fast and crave a nice guy Sadly we are not used to chivalry We VVe are not used to romance You might have to ease us into it When you are too nice you let people walk over you like a door mat I have a worker co-worker Hairball who is the perfect example of that He will have dates treat him like crap and he will still go over to their house and fix their car or help them move their furniture This is too nice This will let women treat you badly and not have any respect for you because you are not respecting yourself If you are a man reading this thinking you are just being nice that is partially true The part of it is you think she will see see how nice you are despite her poor manners and she will fallin fall fallin fallin in love with you You are sorely mis mistaken aken my friend And at t best that is all you will be to her a friend The way to find a relationship is to not look for one I know it sounds stupid and simplistic but it is true Just live your they do be yourself minus the above abovementioned abovementioned abovementioned mentioned of course |
