Show The Wall Dating 0 Doctor IDS Helps Students at J. J 0 1 1 j l' l A Aimee B Bell ell Contributing Writer David D. D Coleman known professionally as The Dating Doctor presented his Making Relationships Work at the Salt Lake Community College Tuesday Oct and Wednesday Oct This 9 time National Speaker of the Year was honest direct and humorous while giving students lessons in inlove inlove inlove love He invited the audience to participate in the program and have their own questions answered about love or love gone bad The warning given at the beginning said I Imay Imay Imay may offend some of you and someone may break up today Colemans Coleman's goal is to change your life today He made it clear that his interest was each person in the audi audi- ence and their love needs The lesson was begun with a question that had for the most part of the audience a surprising surprising surprising ing answer Who of the two involved in a relationship controls controls controls con con- it The person that has the least invested in the relationship relationship relationship relation relation- ship will be the one who controls controls controls con con- it Coleman said He added that the person who is the most interested is left to work 2 10 2 10 times harder than the other Coleman discussed the basic differences between men and women The difference of sexual sexual sexual sex sex- ual primes was first Men are in the sexual prime from the age of 18 to 35 and women are in their prime from 26 to 45 This could be an explanation tion for large gaps in age in relationships why things See Dating Doctor continued on page 2 Z 4 T. T N rZ M 4 b 4 4 J o 3 C 4 I y o Dating Doctor David Coleman gave lessons of love to students Dating Doctor continued from front might not be working out The next differences were the views of the word commitment Men tend to view commitment as loss of freedom while women see it as a positive addition to toI I life something that is wonderful The Dating Doctor pointed out the difference between what men and women typically say when they first meet He will tell her what he does or what his is good goodat at while a woman will tell him how she feels Men measure their worth self-worth by what they do Coleman emphasized to the women Why men can be morons Coleman announced is because men are stimulated through their eyes They take a walking DNA inventory which is commonly known as the toe to check out Colman added that while men are stimulated by sight women are aroused through their ears and through touch He explained to men that women respond to something something something some some- thing said by their partner They also respond to touch but he explained that it didn't mean grop grop- ing Romance is performing an ordinary act of love and kindness at an unexpected time said Jason McDaniel a student This is a revelation for most men But as Coleman continued Women like to know you are thinking about her when she is not around This is another opener eye-opener for fora a lot of men McDaniel said But these could be two keys that could score me a lot of points You never get a wasted dayback day dayback dayback back every day that you hesitate letting someone know how you feel about them gives them a day dayto to meet someone else and never know you and that's a shame Coleman said According to Coleman there are four characteristics that identify what a True Friend is 1 they are rare 2 time spent together is effortless 3 no one keeps score and 4 there is no jealously between the two of you For some relations lUP w en enthey they are true friends one usually has feelings for the other and doesn't doesn't doesn't does does- nt know how to tell them Coleman explained that the only up pick-up line that a woman ever has hasto hasto hasto to use is a smile and hello Colman said that guys will definitely definitely definitely get the hint Inevitably in all relationships there will be times of argument or at least disagreements or misun misun- It is important to remember you are not angry at atthe atthe atthe the person you are angry because you cant can't reach your goal There are going to be obstacles while trying trying trying try try- ing to solve problems within a relationship but be careful to be mindful of the person you love when things go wrong Colemans Coleman's advice and honest hope for everyone in relationships is to never mistake infatuation for love To learn more about The Dating Doctor and to have questions questions questions ques ques- answered by him his is He has also recently written a book entitled entitled entitled Making Relationships Matter |