Show Aunt Ds Bs Weel Weekly y Advice Making Mistakes Learning and Moving on with your life Dear Aunt B I did a real really stupid thing today I don don't t really know what to do about it I have ha this friend that I flirt with and we weve we've ve kissed before but we weve we've ve never gotten gol so physically close before Today I went over to his house and we ended up doing some things that I don I 1 think we should have done I Im I'm n having regrets I liked it at the time but now I 1 feel sleazy y and guilty over the situation I still want to have this person as a friend and even kiss this person now and again but Im I'm worried ed about the situation and my role in it I have never ne done anything like this before in my life am I just being paranoid or should I 1 really be concerned Eventfully Confused Dear Confused It sounds like you made a mis mis- take Mistakes happen all the time however when they involve physical if r- r intimacy they can sometimes be detrimental Please be careful of your future actions I do not know exactly what happened nor do I need to know but your regret is a common thing If you are facing a regret now then there is probably a avery avery avery very good reason for the nagging of your conscience Follow your heart Do you really care for this person as much as you came across at the the time Do you want to continue this relationship as it is Or vere were you feeling lonely and this person temporarily temporarily temporarily tem tem- solved the problem for you Think about your answer carefully and then take the proper actions involved with your reply Most importantly dont don't spend all your time crying over spilt milk Face the facts you are human and humans make mistakes Learn from your mistake so that next time you can make a decision that you vou will feel comfortable with even after the fact I If f its it's something that you feel comfortable comfortable com com- fo able admitting to then its it's probably probably probably ably okay If it isn't for whatever reason then maybe you need to take a closer look at the situation Aunt B Letters can be mailed e-mailed to or left in Aunt Bs B's box at the Horizon in Authors may remain anonymous i i. i iII |