| Show young couple require a home of their own for happiness daive PEAR EAR MISS DENE I 1 am twenty five years old and the girl I 1 love is very anxious to get married her people have money and we can go to live with them after our marriage but I 1 am against this however no my fiancee insists and says she will not wait to marry me if I 1 dont agree actually I 1 give her a home of her own for two or three years and she knows this but she is keen on my living with her parents and for some reason I 1 cannot look to the future with any enjoyment joy ment I 1 am worried and upset about this affair give me your opinion D R K ANSWER when a maiden is is so determined to marry that she actually forces her young man to the altar against his wishes and against all rules of common sense she is demonstrating on clearly the fa fact that she is more in love lave with the idea of marriage than with her future husband and she is also showing a lack of character which bodes ill for her matrimonial future it is sheer weakness to rush into marriage when there sufficient capital to finance the undertaking it argues that the impatient lady is over acx ious to attain to the dignity of being a mrs that she is perhaps too much concerned with showing her friends that ashes captured her man or that she fears ridicule if she sticks too long to a suitor who is unable to offer her an engagement ring and a smart little apartment on t the he right side of town her cry is therefore give me marriage ria ge at any price even at the cost of my husbands self respect what kind of love is this which demands such a sacrifice from the beloved 9 and ithac kind of woman is this who welcomes the prospect of living in somebody alses home show me a woman who want a home of her own who long to be mistress of her own domain and ill show you a lazy little bride who pra prefers to have hare mother do all the working and worrying once this type of damsel becomes snugly ensconced in mothers nice comfortable home it will ivill take more than a mere mans wish to pry her out let her get used to hating somebody else do the planning and budgeting and shell refuse to change the state of affairs so long as she lives her family and her husband suffer the consequences A too indulgent father and mother let their declining years be burdened with an extra family around the house and a patient long suffering husband has to get used to being a permanent guest in the home of his cifes people Q bell syndicate service |
