Show GRANDMAS PART IN CHILD arf LIFE E her influence important if she avoids worry some one asked me what part grandmothers should play piny in a childs life what I 1 thought about interference nil did I 1 think they the should bo be unhappy about the mistakes or what they think are mistakes of young parents in regard to train training ng and mann management gement A grandma grandi Is a necessary person in a childs life and the child who one misses something very sweet and fine after bringing up tip her own she has done tier her duty as far as responsibility and training go she wont bother about a dirty face or rumpled clothes she wont shudder at a slang word she wont run and got get the wax can every time a too toe or a wagon wheel scores the best chair or sofa if joan getti getting tig enough spinach or jimmy should be drinking more milk she might say a mild word to her laughter daughter but site she worry about it there are more things to worry grandma than to upset a mother it she permits it this Is natural enough for as we age we grog grow m mare r e susceptible to worry this very fact Is the answer to it all and the very reason why women of an older generation would do well to cultivate philosophy about their grandchildren the best woy way to enjoy grandc grandchildren hll la Is to malte make fine friends with them I 1 know one set 0 of grandchildren who call their grandmother ti liable able ll 11 she la Is still belll a young woman and they love her to death she plays jokes or on them and they on her she takes thern them everywhere and sneaks them sodas and balloons and movies to her they ore not problems but real pals and friends perhaps her way Is not every grandmothers idea of enjoying tile the you youngsters g but even so there Is a lesson 0 n in it I 1 think A grandmother hns has more influence ns as n friend than as a worrier olive It llo herts barton in the new york world telegram |