Show proprieties TV EAR BAR mrs post the other day dat at the tennis club a boy who had been playing in the next court asked me very eagerly if I 1 would play with him some day soon poon would it be improper for me to call him up answer I 1 certainly would not telephone him not because of any especial impropriety but because you would seem overeager to see him again but if you see him at the club some day there is no reason why you might not ask him casu ally would you like to play piny 0 dear mrs post Is it essential in this day of unsettled living to have an address on a maws mans visiting card if there is no address on the card should one be written on in pencil when necessary I 1 answer the address on a cardi cardl Is so BO convenient that it is best to have it put on especially as several successive addresses can be cut on the same plate ot of course 11 you have no address on it and the person for whom you leave it does not cot know where you live lire write in pencil sly my dear mrs post I 1 am plan j ining to be married this month and anda must have a very simple lind and small wedding several weeks ago a friend of mine had a shower party and invited almost every one of rny my friends I 1 feel as though I 1 should invite to my wedding all these kandi kand people who gave me lovely gifts but buts how can I 1 when scant I 1 cant even ln in 1 elude clude my own relations outside of 0 our immediate families how does one draw the line in making up such a list answer I 1 dont think that you can very well accept the shower presents and then not invite the givers let alone the friends who give the shower parties to the wedding you would better have said bald thank you mary but dont have a shower show erit tor for me because I 1 cant ask it any ali one but the family to my wedding it Is quite possible to cut as you please so long as you are consistent ask aunts and uncles and stop at first cret cousins 0 of ask cousins you know well and omit those thosa you never see sec ask really intimate friends aud and no others oth e 0 by kintly post |