Show JUDGING OTHERS it is trite to say that in judg ing the character and motives of another person we should try to imagine ourselves in his place but how many of us do it how many of us make a conscious and determined effort to be fair in our estimate of the other fellow an unknown author has set forth some thoughts in this connection which are worth repeating as follows when the other fellow acts that way he be is ugly when you do it it is nerves when the other fellow Is set in I 1 his way hes obstinate when you are Ws its firmness when the other fellow treats someone especially well he is toadying when you do it its tact when the other fellow takes his t fmc me he hc is dead slow when you do you are deliberate when the other fellow picks a flaw hes bes cranky when you do you are discriminating when the other fellow says what lie he thinks he is spiteful when you do you are frank and so on it is really hard to apply to ourselves the same yardstick which we use in measuring our neighbors but we ought to try to do it |