| Show uncommon sensis benso ili j joi john blake C bell I 1 service I 1 fin dany any person of good senie sense sibie save those who disagree with 1 US w this quotation lg Is aes ts men men porn mr y 1 I could who also said that we all anve bave sufficient i i strength to endure the misfortunes of others I 1 the i add acid old philosopher sopher spent much of tits his time in kidding his species but too often he be was right it Is natural for members orthe of the I 1 hu bu man race to td be yes men it you youash ask ai a friend to tell you exactly what he 6 thinks of I 1 you have been doing and he comenout comei comes out with t an in adverse opinion of it you arit are r not t likely to re regard 9 a rd his friendship very ill highly ehly i the too candid friend la Is never nev ervery very popular but unless he ha li Is merely mai helous clous ll his opinion Is we worth rth hee heeding dirig self elf satisfaction is one of the curses of ahls rac race of ours and if 1 l if I 1 Is too widely indulged it will destroy the prospect that most peocla have of 0 making their way dont think thia a man Is your enem enemy Y if does not always assure you that you are rapidly acquiring greatness you asked him film what lie he thought and hebold he told you cateron La teron you find out that he was right look to your friends only for praise and by and get the idea that you deserve deserie it and then in the th lah 0 of f tile the d day ay yoa louwill you iwillie will be through 1 dont seek constant agreement the minute you begin to think that you tire are misunderstood and that the world passes you by because it Is jealous or afraid of you 1 boil you stand ni no further chance of bettering your self you would not think much of a music teacher who just to please his pupils told ill all of them that they were bound to be great opera singers if they believed him they would soon be enlightened by some more honest person and he would sag rapt rapidly adly in their estimation if you ask aska a frank opinion add anait it doean doesn happen to agree with yours it Is silly to toge get jt mad it you are afraid of criticism you have no business to ask for it the only people it Is safe to praise are bables babies they are so young that flattery passes ahm hv bv a i it Is my that it to Is better to ilea eltha to to quote a line efrom from a aIn which alch blanche rates bates achieved a great success to go through life trying to 16 tell all anns sundry the exact auttin rut tin is to seiyo ursell cordially hated and thatis that is never pleas int ant I 1 do not lavor favor lying as a general thing but it is some sometimes timis wiser avise r tha th bithe anthe kind ol 01 candor which makes makei others zour your imp implacable Wable a enemies ner nies I 1 i the word essentials linsco lias come melto to mean elmost anything and everything A amna with the essentials of I 1 ed M i I 1 an nonessentials Non essentials atlon u e et a 0 oi lon in may ay be ranked as a post irs donte in learning A ninn man possessing essing the essentials als of bodily health Is ai RR nearly thi the perfect man mail as we can find Aft after erthe the essentials come the iambi and outward flourishes e rut but it Is cheering to know thit that we cari get considerable fun out of f the non essentials 1 l t under that head comes sport reading for pleasure outdoor exercises motoring and dozens dozen of things which we do no not actually tactually need but which na wp I 1 extremely tr enjoy aj nina man cannot 11 live v e by bready alone corcan lieI he lve by work alone ut amusement life would be veri very dreary F plan yours sours coasto so as to include funa fun and ild quite if a bit of it als fish h h hunt 11 i nt go to baah bali games and races it if you ion are ath athletic letle engage in athletic co contests tests if you are not hot go go to see them cultivate friendships with pa people bille who enjoy the same things that you do headlight fiction hs as well nell a asa serious boaks hunt flunt for congenial friends jand and when you prid find them 11 grapple them to your soul out with hoops of steel 11 j abbl ambition Is ig a one fine thing until it reaches the afie point of dogged selfishness tha then I 1 t must be or you will become sour and crl self seeking dont ever entirely en grow up 11 J 7 ne never verget so to so 0 one eo ahe of the great mod crit amusement parks that I 1 do 0 not nos feel houi much happier tile life must be today than in in the old time when 0 only a circus a of r some outdoor entertainment provid edl ah hop hap finest that people really need I 1 i you dont don want twant to grow grouchy and crabbed in your old age you want y your 0 i ur last years to be a pleasant as your earlier days you can do that if you yon demon de mandof of the increasing yours lint they lit let sou on gain gambol hoi a little now and then you will have cares enough comat no anat ter what your worldly be I 1 f lighten them as much its as no lite life Is ii well spent u nies there Is 8 P a g good ind of edukas edns 1 in ait I 1 t k v keep hiir and sou ou will tofit lit life Is well mi hi the ihli |