Show w bu by lydia liidia le barot baron walk walker wa WORDS 0 1 1 DS spoken in anger are generally ar 1 lly regretted when the temper passes this should be remembered in a home do not harbor the words said by one whom you know loves you and believe a hard and disagreeable truth lies back 0 of the things which were said sometimes angry words do strike homp home because you realize they are true although spoken in the heat beat of an argument or in midst of a dispute even so it G Is the part of ivis dom to remembert also the balance of pleasant pae a sa n t things said to you by the very same person and to remember them allem as clearly as the disagreeable ones the clever person knows that words of anger often fall on those at hand to hear andin and in a way these words have nothing to do with the one toward whom they are directed inanimate things are a cause for many an angry word unless the listener listene dior realizes this a disagreeable situation in may arise and feelings be wounded unnecessarily I 1 instance you may ask a question deserving an agreeable reply but if you ask it just when the other person has knocked over a glass of water or barked his shins on an offending chair the soft answer does not come or if you want information on a matter of mutual interest and all unwittingly ask for it when the other person Is puzzling tornow what she abe has had done with an article of immediate need an annoyed inflection creeps into the answer it if not actually an angry word there Is no trace of a hard feeling toward you yon but it sounds so the annoyance Is for herself Per self that she should not know what she hiti has done with the wanted article since it takes two to make a a quarrel it Is the part of wisdom and happiness not to give an angry retort without knowing what Is behind the cross words spoken there are two who will have cause for regrets if angry words are met with angry words and in the interim between the dispute and the recovery each person Is miserable you can spare yourself the discomfort of bitter reflections by giving the angry person the benefit of the doubt that you were the person responsible n sible for the others burst of temper drop leaf and tip tallies tables tables many and diverse in type have drop leaves in pembroke style or tip as do some of the old time card tables these last may act its as screens when tipped or merely prove decorative taking up the smallest space possible for the size of the surfnee surface when turned for table ae use whatever the model it Is well for the homemaker to realize that a perfect adjustment must be made when the table Is open or there Is IB danger of imperfect balance anca when articles tire are bisp disposed ased on the top the styled of tables that are not influenced fluen ced by the arrangement of the things they hold are those with legs tit at ench each corner and center legs when tables are large and pedestal tables tn in which the spread of feet from the base of the pedestal Is wide enough to cou n derbala balance rice surface a arrangements of weight tablet tables that tip the type of tables that overturn easiest when the weight Is not evenly distributed on top are butterfly Putter fly tables and all those that have hae the leaves upheld when open by any swinging or oc hinged support t that hat does not extend to the floor drop leaf pembroke tables even when they have swing owing legs require a certain of care about distill distribution of weight on leaves the movable legs work diagonally from one another and must be pushed to be it at right angles with their standard to insure correct support even so disaster results when there Is an overbalance of weight on either side where the distance is greatest between legs small tea stands and coffee tables frequently are in dainty butterfly style the homemaker must use caution to have the heaviest articles in the center which Is always well supported the tip table style must always have the catch perfectly adjusted when this la Is right the spread of legs from the pedestal Is generally sufficient to insure stability 0 bell syndicate service |