Show DO 00 WE appreciate one of the contemptible cardinal ato in of life to that we do da not net appreciate cpr the efforts effort of them whom we are re associated with or have in our employ in the first place the fathers fa thra or many 4 them at least would rather criticize critis ize its and ridicule the bays than attempt to express press kindness and encouragement and the moral can be said aid of many mothers in their attitude towards the kirli girls this attitude of these theae fathers and mother is one of the tha treat reasons why by th the boys boya and am girls girl are slid glad to ret get away from home and make their owa awo way all in 10 the world by working for wine one who at least will appreciate their efforts effort and we wonder if the sm im ol of the tha young vows people appreciate their labors u they should it to 11 a not able fact the averie man wha ban baa worked out for other men a number dumber of yew of hr his life eventually get tinz but ahead enough to be an employer himself is generally Rene rally the hardest to suit bait he will get fet alone fairly well with his men man for a time but soon boon something and imagination at that will crop j up and he will begin to show chow a Is larbre ego sized trench grouch become unbearable in ID 11 hla attitude showing but hi beat at character at t I 1 baat t with the result that discontent din content begins to play an important part art in the everyday action of the hired help under his jurisdiction it ii has hae been closely observed that not one employer in fifty will ever take the trouble to give ollive oneff one bif his men a word of encourage rne tit ht or tell them their work is satisfactory some employers employ era take a pro profound fou joy in harboring a drouth and OR ex hibi tine it on every awry occasion thu thou mm causes trouble to come among the empl iveas vee and the discontent is the more manifested when it I 1 h noticed which to la the cue case to many in instances that the employer is IN afraid that he in going to be it tile himself to in the eyes of the hired help if he expresses kindal kia doess at times or will lama lose a part of his assumed dignity towards a servant there in in an old saying baying and 8 true one that he who never can be a good servant will never be a 2 good master and this thia is in very noti cable in this part of the country where a number of employers employ era were at one time employees and me confounded poor ones at that even if an employer is not thoroughly satisfied with a piece of work it would be far better to tell the workman in a kindly manner about it rather than show anger and contempt lie he would gain cam far more by showing in a kindly way where the work could have been improved and encourage with kind words the workman to do better in future by this letter latter method the employer would at met least let bit the workman see that he wan wae considered to be a human being beine with ordinary intelligence |