Show Second Child Poses Problems Contrary to popular notions the second child does not seem to fit into the family more easily than the first At least that's what the tiie study of American couples shows according to Cornell University sociologist Harold Feldman Ph D D. D who reported his findings findings findings find find- ings at the recent Groves Conference Conference Conference Con Con- ference on Marriage and the Family held In San SanJuan Juan Puerto Rico IF ANYTHING G things look worse the second time round Husbands and wives reported that with the second child marital marital mari marital mari mari- tal satisfaction seemed to dim dim- j finish Both husbands and wives felt that they were getting less attention from their spouses and sad to say there seemed tobe less laughter in the home Not so surprisingly both felt less I romantic about marriage after the birth of the second child On the plus side however husbands said that they felt more needed by the wife and both spouses were more self- self confident about caring for their children AND IN THE TilE grass always looks greener depart outside the home seemed more attractive to women after they had two children to tend thin than when they had only one |