Show Dear Louisa What do you do when some of oC your relatives who live in another state write you that they will visit you ou some time next week They fail to say what day or what time of the theda da day they will arrive Are we expected to stay home all nIl week looking for them We cant can't leave the house housea a without locking the doors but we hate to think that they may arrive and not be able to get in They say they wont won't tell tellus tellus tellus us because they like to surprise surprise surprise sur sur- prise us COl Confused used Answer In m my book that kind of surprise surprise surprise sur sur- prise can be done without Your relatives should let you know approximately w what h hat a t time they expect to arrive If II they wont won't do that you can arrange to put your key in a secret place and write to them telling where they can find itin it itin itin in case you are arc away Louisa Dear Louisa My niece has been visiting me and a young man has been very attentive to her We like him hum with one exception and this is the fad fact that he makes himself too loo much at home He lie comes in and without asking any leave goes to the refrigerator refrigerator and md helps himself to food or drink I have had food intended for the next meal mealand mealand mealand and find that half of it is gone when I get ready to put it on the ilie table I What can I do about 11 this s My niece seems distracted over the young man and I hate to hurt her feelings I Ito Auntie Answer The young man seems to have found himself a free lunch counter Your niece mete should tell him to stop his foraging foraging foraging for for- aging for food in your our kitchen and md if she fails to do so you ou should tell him yourself It should be done in a nice manner manner manner man man- ner but so that he understands understands understands under under- stands that you m mean an what you ou say Lousa |