Show 4 Dear Marce I am 28 years ears old and still single The older I get the harder it seems to find a girl that I would like to marry many I have dated since I was in my last year of high school and then Ulen at college There is something about each girl I have ever dated th that 1 after a awhile awhile awhile while annoys me to the point that I stop dating her I am quite contented the way I am but I am continually being pushed into marriage by my friends and family I WORRY about one one What will I have to look for for- ward to when I reach an older age and my parents are arc both gone I used to think of having havinga a home of my own 11 and children chil chil- children dren but the older I get and the longer Im I'm free the harder it seems for me to go in and take the responsibility of or parenthood par par- In your honest opinion do you think a man can have a full life in his work club civic activities without being married married married mar mar- ried Happy Bachelor Dear Happy Bachelor Benjamin Franklin o 0 once nee n c e wrote A single man resembles resembles bles the odd half of oC a pair of or sc scissors This is true and your our life will be very different if iC you OU are afraid of the responsibility responsibility responsibility re re- re- re of a family Camily You will be held back in every ery aspect aspect aspect as as- of your our life Single men present a real problem to a hostess and arc are often excluded from social events both in bus business ness clubs and civic organization or or- You can have a busy life liCe doing as you please if you stay single BUT nUT YOUR life liCe will be far happier if U you ou overlook the weaknesses of or others Look yourself straight in the mirror mirror mir mirror mir mir- and if you see perfection then you ou have a right fight in feeling feeling feel feel- ing you would be unhappy with imperfection If you ou see imperfection in the mirror you would be a very tolerant person and would not need ad ad- vice ce A couple needs each other to help overcome some of oC their major weaknesses Thi n k again l |