Show 1111 to 0 PLEASE THE ale MEN N NEED NOT BE UNPOPULAR A WOMAN WITH HER OWN SEX j X tt the opinion of ella Arli wheeler etier ilton alco and site gated Reas arile vr ile carport ifer er theory liuo a corti TO ant e Y right Is by american press ion all rights reserved I 1 V 1 I I 1 1 I 1 1 I 1 I 1 4 N 11 1 I 1 I 1 11 1 i 4 11 I 1 I 1 I 1 I 1 I 1 I 1 I 1 i J I 1 A 1 I 1 I 1 every author I 1 sl I 1 known and every scrib i bler ler who ho hag has dipped his pen in ink somo some time or other h is given i ent to comments upon or descriptions of tho the omen women men like me and she is invariably pronounced to bo be unpopular with her own BOX sex I 1 I 1 used to reid read re id these wise and witty gaucys and accept them as facts I 1 supposed up posed of course coin so that to be popular with men a woman must bo be hated by t her own sex over an and d over I 1 have w e heard 1 bashi dashing I 1 lelle belle surrounded by b a crowd of aamir ing la men inen boast of her unpopularity with women I 1 girls never like mo ins and old ladies I 1 1001 coolon on me with mith disapproval I 1 oie one sav say with a proud air 1 I am sure I 1 dont know why vly then the men all cried oh we 0 o adow why it is because wo we all find you ou so charming women neer never forgive another woman for that you ou know you cant lo 10 popular with both sexes vv pw no more fallacious and threadbare theory every s cry existed A few years ears close acquaintance w with ith bu humanity manity taught ino ins the utter untruth of this prevalent idea I 1 know women a number of them who are adored by men and worshiped by their own r sex cx women whose conquests and triumphs seem to bo be regarded by their girl companions and their friends as a matter of course I 1 also know other omen women in in a greater number who aro are greatly sought after by the sterner sex admired and praised while their lady acquaintances find them disagreeable and ablo in tho the ox I 1 have studied these women with great care and I 1 find them anvari ably selfish cruel and thoughtless toward their own sex all their sweet aw beet arts aro are saved for men inen but you will never find a man who believes such a lall can bo be disagree disagreeable ablo to her own sei sex iio ill take sides with her a against ainest the EV sweetest and best omen women of his ac ae and ho lie will ill accuse them ri nf r jealousy and envy and tell the liand handsome belle that she must not expect to bd bit popular with ith both sexes that the tiling thing u n impossible yet he has only to look about him i a uto vitto find that it is not impossible As I 1 ad sit before it is quite common to find it voa ronan in adored by both sexes but when a man comes across a case of this kind be he attributes it to some subtle chan cha n some occult spell which the wollar possesses I 1 have observed that this subtle spell is is usually thoughtfulness thoughtful noss and unselfish I 1 ness and tact tills this sounds founds trite maybe ma be but it is is true the woman who talks of others othere charms and relates others conquests quests swill will bo be immensely popular with her ber own BOX sex no matter how much she is admired by men inen the girl who w ho sits down and tells her lady friends of the compliments men paid her of the proposals she has had of the admiration she has received to he neglect of others and then straightway expresses pity for their dull ines lives 0 I 1 paws some disagreeable comment upon their personal appearance that girl will be hated and disliked very naturally yet her male admirers will construe her ber unpopularity with her lady acquaint ancas to jealousy lei lousy and you cannot con vince them of their error ono one of the most fascinating women I 1 ever knew before whom wliam men fell like blades of grass before the scythe alic pos 1 jessed remarkable tact with her own sex she invariably I related elated to her lady friends the sweet things she had heard ail said of them since tho the last meeting and tho the admiration epich certain gentlemen had expressed for them she praised their costumes and showed them a I thousand delicate attentions and it was not at all to be wondered at that women understood and forga forgave e her conquests of mn men were I 1 a man 1 should loo love her they often used to say I 1 men spoke of her subtle power boft cr over her own ot n sex that subtle power w was u and tact ELLA Wit rELER WILCOX |