Show I SOCIAL AMENITIES TIES T FOR FORTHE THE SCHOOL L GIRL I III H should yo not the be practice of o coin i I Will W puny pany manners II begin nt at home hom Hi III IIII would bo be e a tremendous surprise of I I course to the rest of oC n family should I all the tim little courtesies and attentions j i that It is taught must be shown toward strangers he be suddenly exhibited toward I ones parents parentis but what n a delight it would be to them too Just JUil at nt first perhaps lan any such Buch display of good cool manners in the home where the tho habits of all nil are looked upon as quite finite free and independent might cause no small wonder won er and amid even ceu mirth but It is safe to predict that ft I stern perseverance per is shown the good manners will vill be bound board to have hac nu au effect upon the entire household A tired father might lIt cen mention I his quiet enjoyment when he be finds Gads his great armchair drawn 11 up before the time fire with book bool paper Asper and ami spectacles close el nt at atLand Land hand but ho lie will appreciate the lire attention just Int the snare and return it with an na added ded depth depths of love loe What mother r will not smile smite wore more happily hap hop happily pil all 1111 through I the day should her family never forget to pay pa to hur her the thu little of respect t and reverence which are her er duet Tire The daughter who always stands ds bj by b to lo allow her bier wr mother to enter a n room before her bier who pulls out the thc chair for her it Il table before seating herself who in full Cull never fails lIil to show any rIU little appreciation a of all sly that thit the de devoted dej devoted j voted ted mother has gi cn her bier through tho years this gu girl irl i will win a n firm place Illuce ina in III inu u n heart that Is IR s always 8 longing bonging foral for al nho sho never speaks of it every cry lit little the tle mark of affection from rein her bier children j I I It would never occur oc ur to n a girl when nt at atla la In In friends luncheon table tuble to cuter enter into n a ni nI i I violent argument B so sir violent that the tho dross cross arOMI I tones nr aro j heard about shout the entire hoard land aid at it once create an unpleasant atmos J I in the lie room Yet how many family fam illy ily ill meals are made wretched through the quarrelling of two or more amore of the younger oun r members of the ho tho family who wino have ba 0 not cut suf sufficient su t consideration liou for others oth ers to curb their ill feelings rind so make mako all about them miserable It would never occur to n a girl irl when nt at n a friends luncheon table to complain of oC the food that lint Is ly put before her ber yet Jot how Jaw many happy family meals ore are made wretched because there is h s always alwa B one oue member who is sure Wre to complain either lof of the good food that she is given or the ilie way war in which it is served The rhe mother that all complaints complaint are repeated iu in the Is he rendered miserable for slit she knows the upheaval II that will ensue cuau in the servants quartets quarters and once the head mead of oC the horse bouse is robbed ot or her cheer happiness is sure auro to 10 forsake for DJ that roof When visiting n a guest naturally tries to please her hur hostess boater I iu in every way pos possible po possible sible sibl She strives not never or to bo be Into late that others shall hall not be kept waiting she Bhe docs does her best to io to dross dr 88 well nud and look pretty aud and attractive o lit ill all times nail aud the she even cen takes the trouble to be especially polite I to all older oIlier Persons in the house hou for forI I those these nrc me the tb principles upon which she shei Jims i has been brought up Why Wh too loo why should not every one of these little CM ci of or good breeding be II kept up tip at home hove This The effort will ill be bc well repaid by love amid appreciation that is ill given J n in return for them besides good manners manner soon coon come conic by second nature and anti there will be bv no effort involved at nt all When grandmother Is visiting in the house she is shown pretty little attentions but lint If she he cornea comes there to live Ith the null and courtesies surely should riot fall fail I I That anything at all is good enough for home is a It queer idea indeed Why Wh l should not tho the place where one spends most time ho bo made ma e the and why should one not strive hardest har est to please and lo get et on well with the people one sees se most ost often What Is 18 put down as crossness cros l ess and excused d at home borne Is he known by b the harsher name namo of rude and disagreeable in tho time outside world worM und and why should it be bc excusable to be he disagree disagreeable disagreeable able ble among a mon the people who lore lovo one olle most and who most acutely acut l affected by b bones ones ill humor I The influence of one sweet sweet un elfish anti and consequently well yell Mannered girl rl in ill a n household is extraordinary The whole family Is 18 dependent upon her and her place seems empty empt Indeed whenever the she Is away awu It Is surely worth the trying try trying ing nl times limes at nt first when ben the thc small brothers laugh perhaps grow roV sarcastic and the lh puzzled parents know not exactly what attitude altitude td Id take lake to try to win such a place in tho the home by time tile simple dimple practice of good manners at all nil times lines I To 10 think first of the others never to com corn I not even elD of the weather for every i little complaint starts ts a 11 ball of discon I In motion never to let lot go 10 by b an un opportunity for Cor a n bit of courtesy to those older than oneself and then to keep kecil oneself always aa ns neat nelt and prettily pre IJ gowned ns as though one were visiting and not just at nt home borne where anything Is I good I B Is 18 practising good manners I ut at u t home I Good like every cery other trait i ilof lof of character that is worth possessing can bo be acquired only by constant practice I jand rind a u close care n Must the Ibe little loons i Only by IW a constant exhibition of good In every net act at nt home can I Ione lone one hope hOllo never to make a slip ship UlI outside ithe the home holU J q WI 7 |