Show I Dorothy orothy Dix Talks THE LADY KILLER THE SIGHT LOVE ARTIST TH SYMPATHETIC FLIRT THE MISUNDERSTOOD BACHELOR ARE ALL PHILANDERERS WHOSE ATTENTIONS ARE WITHOUT INTENTIONS WHEN INTENTIONS WHEN HE URGES A SPEEDY WEDDING DAY HES HE'S IN INLOVE INLOVE INLOVE LOVE FOR KEEPS A GREAT many girls ask me sue bow bo they can tell teU when a man Is In In ia Inlove love with them Well daughter about the only reliable way of ascertain ascertaIn- ascertaining ing the state of a m mans man's n affections affection It Is a the wedding ring te test teat t. t Unless he ho voluntarily cornea come acre acro with that be certain that I you may hi his attentions are without Intentions Intention L Dont Don't conclude that a man I Is I. In Inlove Inlove love with you because he monopolize ize Izea your time and drivel drive every other t S t man away and camp campi upon your be but best t parlor chair HE HEIA MAY IA Y like you and find you OU an inter interesting k L I esting companion whose company he lie can always alwa's get without having to pay for it or orbe S be he may like your our mothers mother's cooking but that thatIs l Is no indication whatever that you have even scratched his bis heart to say uy nothing of ot having made a a. dent in it p Dont Don't delude yourself Into belle bellev believing ing that you can gauge gaugl the tho state of a aDOROTHY aDOROTHY aDOROTHY DOROTHY DIX mans man's affection by the thi th expression In hi his eye eyes It Ita the look 1001 that He lies Ilea and lies liec II e and lies THAT THAT T HAT deep tender soulful gaze may mean undying devotion but it Itis 1 is b Just as likely to be the result of or a few tew drop of Latin blood Or It may be a carefully cultivated trick II Dont Don't fool yourself Into thinking that some tome man I Is cher cher- a great silent ellent passion for you and that the reason he doesn't speak is because he I Is too bashful and timid NO 0 MAN A ever hesitates about asking s for the thing he be wants Dont Don't take making love too seriously MANY flANY men hand out soft talk to every girl they meet because they think that the poor little sweeties s expect it of ot them and that they have au ass insatiable sweet s' s tooth Oher Ober men make love to every girl they are ace thrown with because they fancy tancy themselves in the role of ot Romeo and believe that they carry a romantic and poetic line that no female can resist And every man will pet with any fairly good good- looking young joung oun woman oman who will stand for tor it As you go through life life daughter you will meet with many men whose chief diversion is the pursuit of women It flatters their vanity to see lee ee their image mirrored In a womans woman's eyes They get a kick out of using every overy art and subtlety to capture her wild little heart And then when they can cars feel it beat In their hand they poof poof they throw It away The chase is over The excitement gone and they move on to fresh hunting grounds CHIEF C HIEF among these hunters of a women Is what may mar be called the e. e universal flirt He is a lady killer and nothing in petticoats be be- between b tween t the cradle and the grave escapes him He would make love love- loveto to his grandmother if there were no other woman in sight He lIe has a a. caressing way with him and a soft voice and he be Is strong for Cor the tho love sIght theory He lie tells you OU that the instant he be beheld you jou OU he was taken taken with strange qualms and quivers and realized hat you were his predestined mate Its It's an alluring romantic cocktail he offers to you daugh daughter ter but dont don't take more than one sip of it it If you do do It will go to your head and cause you to do foolish thing Because the love at man only asks for your heart Not for your hand He wants you to love 1011 him but he ha has baa no Idea whatever of permitting you to marry him He kisses and rides ride away to tell some other girl the same ame tory story THEN T HEN there is the sympathetic flirt the man who has hu somehow found Cound out that women adore just wallowing in pity His star star- play is to bend over you ou with a yearning look and murmur Oh why did dide we e not meet in time in a cracked Ice cracked ice voice rolce that almost dis dissolves dis- dis dissolves solves in tears but that never runs into a proposal to elope He has made Innumerable young married women feel f I that they were married to dull insensate clods clod who could not appreciate them and that he was the only man who ever really realty understood them He has made dozens dozen of business girls believe he Is the fairy prince that might some day come along and rescue them from drudgery and take them to live in a golden palace But he never will He has moved on and andIs andIs andIs Is disporting himself In fresh pastures pasture AND A ND there Is he luck hard story luck story flirt the flirt the man manbo who bo wins a 8 womans woman's heart by appealing to her ber tenderness to her maternal instinct Generally he Is a married man and couldn't marry the girl If he wanted to And he wouldn't marry her if he lie could Now Its It's silly enough to borrow trouble but only a fool tool takes it as a gift gilt So stuff cotton In your ears daughter so co that thit you rou ou will willbe willbe be ho as deaf deaf a as the proverbial adder ef of the scriptures when a married man begins begin telling you how lonely he I Is and that his isis wife does not appreciate him and Is no companion to him and that the only sunshine he finds In hi his blighted life Is la In you AND A ND turn a cold shoulder houlder to the bachelor who ho wants to weep upon It while hll lie he relates r lates to you all the particulars of ot how the world is banded against him and sobs sOPS out that but for tor you ou he would com corn commit commit mit suicide You dont don't hold the office of public comforter Betide Besides It ItIs itis Is It no sign th a man loves you because he comet comes to te you with all au of his hit troubles Generally its it's just Jutt the other way around for a man likes like to strut before his hi love ladylove not net thaw show him him- himself self eel a whipped fowl HOW H then can a girl tell when a man is lain in love lo with her or not How can she tell when he lie Is flirting and when he means busl busi business ness peas Only by what he says In the tho end she has hat to take his word for It and his hie words word v vare are nothing but hot air until he ho tries te to sell el her matri matri- matrimony matrimony mony and urges urge a speedy wedding day DOROTHY DIX 1 V Public Ledger Copyright by |