| Show Dorothy Dix Talks ANY MAN WHO IS WILLING TO TAKE THE TROUBLE CAN BE I POPULAR WITH WOMEN SAYS DOROTHY DIX BUT NO NOMAN NOMAN NOMAN MAN CAN WIN A WOMANS WOMAN'S LOVE ALONE SHe MUST GIVE HER HEART AS AN OFFER OFFER- OFFERING OR iNC ING OR IT IS NEVER HIS How can caR a man be fascinating and popular ular with women Can CanJA any man win the love of any woman a correspondent asks aska ot or mc There Is II a wide wido difference be be- be tween being popular and being o The one can be bo achieved by thought effort and intelligence Th The Theother other lies tiu lie beyond human power to ac acquire quire A man cannot be b fascinating unless he ho was born that way Faa Fas Fa Fascination Is II a gift pitt of the tho gods godl be- be bete be bestowed te I- I stowed as os capriciously as aa a a II tenor y j voice or a Greek pose pOle It I Is II founded on that inexplicable thing we ws call per per- personal personal dr magnetism and ha no connection w tion whatever with those thole things j i 05 which a man does dou 0 or leaves leavea undone THERE HERE are arc handsome scapegraces wh who have C but to whistle and anti every woman t s r A AA A t heating hearing p gets geu up and follows follow a them There are DOROTHY D other men who are grotesquely ugly yet tt who cut cut a wide swath In ill feminine hearts There Ther are arl others who seem du dull l land and commonplace and others othera who are actually boorish in n their treatment of women yet women fall Call over each other running after afler them Most bigamists are singularly Insularly un unattractive unattractive unattractive attractive men yet they Marry pot only unwisely but too often orten Probably the man who fascinates doesn't know how 11 he It It He Just turns that Irresistible something on any woman from his hll landlady to a II and he gets geh the best part of the chicken or the heiress and her money mOMY ban No son lon there Is la no school of correspondence that can teach you ou the art of being fascinating ON O V f N THE THE other hand hanel any man who Is willing to take the chance can caa an make mako himself popular with women Women are mostly tim pie pIe Ie creatures and easily pleased where men are concerned If you want to be popular with women begin by dressing drelling as well as aa your Income will permit and at all events keep yourself neat and clean A CARELESS woman Is 19 not so revolting to a man as aa a man Is la witha with A i a two clays days stubble stub of beard soiled linen and arid rumpled ba bag baegy gy clothes is to a a woman Having made yourself presentable cultivate the good wilt will of your women acquaintances by showing them thorn some attention by taking them to places of amusement and laying sweet of offerings at their feet YOU can still further boom yourself In th the feminine maric mar mar- mart market t by ac ac- ac ac- ac acQuiring Y Quiring a reputation for being always agreeable not the tho sulk sulky or the grouchy sort not nor the pea green-pea brand nor the kind that has haa to tobe tobe tobe be handled with gloves If It you want to be popular with women try to make yourself In in to them Just bear in mind that unless unidas a woman is going to marry you ou she doesn't care about the petty details of ot your busi busl business ness floss what you said to the boss and what the boss said to you ou Dont Don't dwelt dwell on the little details of your our life lICe that cannot possibly be or of Interest to any one but yourself Avoid the monologues about yourself with which the majority of ot men try to entertain women It Is II so easy eny to be popular with women women It is as simple as the A B Ct CI Just display a keen interest in them Talk to te them about themselves and their affairs give them a II few boxes of candy take them to the theatre occasionally send them flowers upon an anniversary and the trick I Is done doneThey They will chant your praises and with them you will be pop popular lIar ular It is no trouble to make women like you BUT B OUT UT love Is a miracle th that t happens No man can tell how It does not come through great efforts of his is Just occurs and when It does he couldn't ever tell just how It happened what he be did or didn't do Somehow his blundering hands handl touched the secret springs of a v omans heart and lol lo Its treasures treasure were emptied at his hll feet But he hasn't any diagram that he ho could pass pan on to an- an another an another other man that would show him the combination to some lome woman womans woman's heart we see a woman who ho allows a man that has baa been her SOMETIMES S 3 slave shae alafe for tor years to persuade her Into marrying him The man Is Isso Isso isso so good and kind so faithful and patient that the woman will wll surelY learn to love lo him when he Is her husband but she never uever does She may be filled Shed with gratitude with appreciation of ot him with deep liking hiking for him but she knows and he knows that the divine spark is missing and that the best she can give him is only the husks of affection No man can win a 3 womans woman's love alone IF If she gives It Itla to you she gives It as al a will free offering and If she doesn't she ahe and doesn't-and doesn't and that Is II all there Is la to It There can be no rules to the love game They are all ex exceptions DOROTHY DIX Copyright by Public Ledger |