Show I Dorothy Dixs Dix's Dix s 's Letter Box I WHY THE WHAT ONE WOMAN LEARNED ABOUT BUT NO IO HU HUG GIRLS WHO 90 GO THE PACE HAVE BEAUX FAMILY ELIMINATING BANDS BAND and ana had a n nice homo 1 om DEAn D MISS DIX I was marri to a good man I was fool enough and II a car but because we argued and quarreled living living- and I my Y own O ande to leave him Since then I have havo had to through to ke keet II has his to toso go what a man roan realize now wonder that be Is up a ft home born and I dont don't cross and Irritable back would tak take me husband Believe one me It If my overlook a lot of o his be willing to I would aboUt I have bave har harmy had fuss such a logs Ings that I made and as aek for an- an another another my lesson Would YOU ou tell him so 90 JENNIE other trial Answer he e ehas 3 would Jennie Jenne Perhaps I certainly will has had his lesson too And you OU both things n over have learned the folly of arguing 8 and you make how to and know and work w into y try LS 1 will put as 01 a much thought you a success a as marriage Ing to make your of any making a would Into trying DIX other It ThIt Job can you yo always alway tackled be 1 done you knoW n Th There ero would try to few divorces If I the husband would bo be mighty and nd best beet customer lomer sell 11 himself to t his hi wife wite as a I he don does doe to his hi tactfully and put husband as If the wife would handle her she does hIm as aa In crankiness up with as much nerves and from her boss bos In an n office or store tore making your own living that You sa say now that you have tried with nr 1 bow when be becomes becomes realize what a man has ball to go through you he has s simply that night i home homo tired and nd wracked nerve at i comes comes little mis- mis misadventure word or reached reached the limit ot of o his endurance and any ny chance ready to ready camels camel's camel back lIe He Is I reay adventure Is the th straw that breaks the thi light fight at the drop of a bat and likely to drop It If YOU ou dont don't of the world d I often think that the th old o proverb verb matrimony doesn't know how the other half lives la Is truer In than anywhere else If husbands husband and wives could only change the th trials trial and ana difficulties a- a places place now and then and know and an of each other others lot they would have much more sympathY would correct sO 50 patience with each other and the exchange many enany of the th abuses of matrimony unreasonable patrons or wrestled all day dllY with unreasonable If a woman had bad with soul oui had bad been torn stupid and employee tr if her ber very the face If she was ruin staring her In anxiety and she had seen onlY not scared blue when when she thought of what the future might bold If a aman aman wonder wouldn't for her ber but for dependent upon Iter hI she ShO would silent of an evening nor man situated wants to sit she shi mistake this silence Hence for or grouchiness Touchiness and nd surliness or going the round o bad had the experience And tr If any man ever and sewing and washing and of the domestic treadmill of cooking s tending baby day after day ho he would never wonder onder that a woman needs a bit of ot gayety to cheer her up and take her thou Into new channels A fellow fetlow feeling failing makes us u wondrous kind and if only hu hus hut band bands and wives could swap wap places occasionally It would bring about a domestic DOROTHY DIX S 5 S SD SEAR r EAR DOROTHY DIX We DIX Wi are ar two modern We believe ill III inU DEAR D petting parties mugging drinking smoking every think that the date to up date flapper dapper does docs doe We have hilve plenty of o beaux but amon among amont them who to our Ideal or whom we all we cannot find any man comes come up consider worthy of our love Why Is 19 this TWO EYED DROWN BEAUTIES Answer I I should say lay that there Is It a very simpie explanation to your problem It is this That no worthwhile man min wants want to marry a girl who pets pet and drinks and smokes You cant can't Imagine Sir Galahad being allured by a cheap little can you Nor can you think of any good reason why a clean living man who has fastidious Ideals of feminine purity would desire to kiss a girl whose lips had been a free lurch coun coun- coun counter counter ter to every Tom Dick and Harry and who had been pawed over by every store drug sheik who took her to the th movies Nor can you ou fancy an any serious minded man the sor sort sort of ot a man who marries mariles for fol or keeps and who Intends to love honor and cherish his wife deliberately picking out for a wife and the mother of ot his children an alcoholic whom he had seen disgustingly drunk Nor would the tha fact that she was a elgart fiend particularly commend her herto herto to him The girls eirls who po go the pace who drink and smoke and pet will always have hav plenty of beaux beau beau They probably will always be able to find nd men of oC o their own class who want wat to marry them But Dut when it comes to the men who are ar worth marrying i it Is a different story For the men who have real stamina the men who have brains and heart and high purposes the men who are art going to be tle tr big men mn ten and twenty years from now have hav also alo their ideals of what they want In a wife and the qualities they look for are not the ability to drink ln d-ln hooch and smoke like a furnace and to have hav done away ay with all maidenly ro re- re r arve They want their peaches still with the down on them not the bruised fruit has been too much manhandled S S S S S SD SEAR DEAR D EAR T EAR MISS DIX I DIX I have ha been married eleven en years ears have ha a husband r love a II pretty home two beau beautiful mill babies and my happiness would be bo complete except that my husband doesn't set get along alone with my mother No real quarrel they just cant can't agree airee I always go eo to my mothers mother's once one a week to spend the da day and she always Insists that I stay for Cor supper I call my husband t to co come e out and there Is always a row about It Dont Don't you you think for Cor mO my y BI sake e that he ought to be bc b willing to come What shall I do ELVIRA Answer Of cour course e your husband should be willing to make this slight sacrifice l of going to your mother mothers mother's and making akl hi him himself self agreeable If it pleases you and makes you h happy b t he wont won't he wont won't and It Is up to you not to make maka too to much UCh of a mountain out of a very small mall molehill A woman of intelligence soon find finds o out t that she ha has to take her husband a as he is and not as he should b be e and d w when en she accepts him on this basis and makes the besta a beste best nf af him 1 m her er troubles are ar simplified because then hen she sh ItO stops battering celt her self against a stone wall wail which only bruises her an and docs OCI no good So In your particular cure care eliminate ate the cr very f fruitful I Ul subject or of argument ani by frankly telling your our Il r that your or bus hus- hush band hus is it I tire tirel I efter fter his la 13 work and wanti to n com coma 10 la hi hig own h linie Quit him h to ro o t to your o Do our vIsiting In the daytime Go twice a week week It if yo you want ant to but dont don't don your stay to WIper supper and dont don't coerce hubby 0 olne I ng aga against Ito his will wilt I i If you will do this and leave him fre free fr e t tas to come corn me and as goas he ha h likes he will probably like to go now nw ean and then en Ono One On go gothe of the reasons why husbands have hav SU such a fer their wives families I Is because their wives es art are always alway ramming rim i ithem them down th thir lr throats DOROTHY DOROTHY DIX Copyright Copyright by Public |