Show I I DOROTHY DUX i TAluS ALliS Fly 7 nil the til worlds World Worlds World's raid Woman Slitter THERE CAN BE NO HAPPINESS IN THE LIVES OF MEN AND WOMEN WHO MARRY EASY THEY MONEY MONEY FIND IT HARDEST OF ALLA ALL ALLA A CORRESPONDENT ASKS A A What do Sou vou OU think of or a woman om for or money money What hat W hat do you OU think of ot a man marrying for lor moneys money 3 I I think It is both wicked and foolish It Is wicked v because love Is the tho th only thing that thata l sanctifies marriage The woman who marries is r j Just st to pet oct a lifetime of oC f luxury has no n right ors aye to draw her skirt skirts away from the woman or of s 1 the streets Both have sold told themselves and the old difference between them is i that one i made a better bargain and got Jot a higher price t t 1 for herself than the other ther one on did man marl who ho 10 marries m lea for tor or mone money is an even cven more y Tim 1 contemptible creature than a woman Is and has less excuse for or his bis sin ln because he ho Is 15 better belter able ands and s has bas more opportunities to achieve fortune for himself him l than she ha has And the male ale Ial al always 0 s sInks amr a 8 i i little 10 lower er than the female parasite I mr 9 Aside from the th sin of o It marr vine marrying Ing for mone money Is Isu I It is bartering a away ones one's birthright u 1 tt i v foolish because for a 8 mess ms mc s of ol pottage It is bad had business because It never pays payi Those who ho give lve up un love for tor gold cold ne never neer er get happiness out of the trade The Tho poor young oung man and the th poor girl cirl who have bno hungered after Ur tile fleshpots think that If it they could have hive a n fine fIDe house to lh use e in smart clothes a luxurious car rich food all the things that th money bu buys s which they have been den denied It'd all their thir lives and which they hay hate ha e pined toi fm they the would be pel blissful But if they sell tell their souls soul coul to t get them they soon find out that the purchasing power of money Is very limited and that the things that give the real Joy to living loving are pot ot for fop sale ale over to surfeited on rich din dinners the counter It doesn't take long get ners or or to get sick and tired of being a lallor's dummy or a a- a dressmakers dressmaker's makers maker's or to be bored stiff with rolling roiling around f in limousines Nor does It take long Ing to t find out that archi archi- architects architects I and Interior decorators cannot make a real home It Is that the man and woman who married for tor money realize reaUze I ITHE I THE THEN th l that thit with all their getting they base lav bm e not pot got happiness b They ha hase hae e not oot got cot love They The hiv have not got gol companionship They ha have base e not Dot got They The base bae hav ba e not got peace They must endure all the ills of matrimony without any of or Its com eom- compensations com They must mut make mak the s that marriage demands without the love that s sweetens them They must mut endure the IO caresses of one from whom their flesh shrinks They must gaze cue p er at faces they come In time lime to loathe They must munt tolerate the society of those with lIh whom hom the they hive he nothing In common and who ho weary them almost to They must give the kisses that are bought and paid for tor pretend to tho the tenderness they do not Dot feel spend their lives Jives trying tring tr Ing to gl gle e a lifelike portrayal of ot a 8 de devoted husband or wife Ife to the women and men who ho have base Invested In their money money mone In themis thorn them Is there ther happiness in n that sort of life for any human he be- be ing Think of the men and women you have known who have not made of the altar a springboard from poverty into rIches and you will not recall one face among them that registers real contentment For nature has hae so ordained it that we cannot sat sat- satisfy sat satisfy ourselves Just with material things We must have the spiritual things even more than the material things You wIll r find many shabby young couples couples s who married on nothing a e year but love Ive who are but no man Iwan man or woman who wh mar mar- married married ried just for money is happy TH woman who maples manies for tor money does not Dot make maLe quite so fatal a mistake as the Ur man does because women case caie cal e more for tor softness md and nd ea eaGo o than men do and because women omen C can come nearer to smother lag Ing their souls soul's under chiffons than men can cin and also because a woman oman somehow seems more as a piece of household brie brie- a I a 0 brae brac than a man roan docs does But nut there is nothing on earth or In heaven en that can make the poor hu husband band o of a rich wife Ho seem like anything am thine else than a lapdog who ho Is trained to fetch nod carry and jump through the th hoop at her bid bidding bidding ding And any man who ho has to endure knowing that Is ll the wa he ap- ap appears appears ap appear pears pear to 10 the public earns cams every Cry eser cents he gets gels even esen Cn though it is mil millions lions People sa say that the woman s a man gets by marrying a rIch woman Is easy money On the contrary it Is la the th that t a man ever gets sets and the dearest for he has to tn earn It over and over again every day that he loves lives and he pays for it wIth every aspiration and ambition of his manhood I f fALL ALL ALL ALL of o us know brilliant young oung chaps hustling young oung business men to talented young oung lawyers gifted young oung doctors who ho had just begun o o 0 make mako a name for themselves es and who ere were on tiptoe so eager and interested were el e the they In lu their career They would have bave gonn far If ith hp hey y had bad not married rich ell gh Is but with their hands suddenly filled t with money with lib wives h es who demanded to be b Entertained and amused and nd who had the price they had no nn further e to struggle and attain and they sunk down 0 Into being beine nothing but rich women's vy omens omen's hus bus husbands I bands I Do you belle believe bellee e for a n moment hat hat these men get set the thrill and fun out of strings of polo 1010 ponies and yachts that the they would ba have hate e out of I pulling oft off b bi deals I an winning big bis cases and finding new germs It is doing doine things not basing haIng hav ha ins Ing them that gives zest to life lire and the Ole only money money mone that has any fia flavor or to Ills it ft is that which Is wet with our sweat And that's what makes ke marrying for money a bad business What you get Isn't worth the price you pay DOROTHY DIS Copyright 1921 bv by Public Ledger Comp Company ny |