Show DOROTHY DIX MX TALKS r ALKS I ts I II KIT C the tie Wt World ni l i c-i Ihl Woman Write rile IF IP ANY OTHER BUSINESS WERE CARRIED ON AS CROOKEDLY AND WITH AS MANY LIES AS COURTSHIP THE PARTNERS CONCERNED WOULD BE IN JAIL HONESTY BE BEFORE BEFORE BEFORE FORE MARRIAGE MAKES FOR HAPPINESS Tl TI E and nud er cle I tr man roan hose hos tv twenty ent eais eBIS o ot of married life lile has hat been A nothing but a heroic endurance tet SAid raid to me the other oth r da d di If the th facts In the cue case ca e were brought out half of fr tie marriages could be invalidated on the th grounds that the wedding rings were goods got get under false falee f l e pretenses IN N ORDER to let got a IL girl tirl for 01 a wife or capture a aman I Iman man for or a s men into and omen nomen camouflage C ci cry ery taste thought and nd feeling and pretend to be what they thoy think the other one want them nt to be bo until they make the ceremony nothing but a gold goldbrick brick transaction tran a Under such uch pledging a couple to 3 4 love lore honor bonor and nd cherish each cach ach other is like A signed blank check to a stranger who rno ma bankrupt Ar VI the trustinG gh h er Instead of trying to hide their thear real rul na na- na na turo ture tur from each other before marriage t it DOROThY DIX should be a time of the fullest fulle t self revelatIon s for people If there thero exl t Incompatibility of temperament f they hold different beliefs belief and look at life lit fro fron from II I different angle if they have different Ideale ideala ideal and aspirations a If they even have different tastes In cooking and a different God Instead of con con- concealing It dont don't they turn the spotlight on It and see tee that they were never destined for each eath other and that they could never live hive together in n peace and harmony Before marriage Is II 1 the time for people to lay all of the their cards on the table and call the game off before they have gam gambled gambled gambled bled away the their U are re 1 true Hue ne nords and nd o of serious Esp T do do I 1 commend them to the young oung for tor it is true that moat are contracted on a 8 basis bals of or that would I lend nd the In to jail i if thc carried on any other business as e Take hose basis basic is a propaganda of lies hOi The young man who tells telle a II girl that she ie is the most ost mo t beau beau- beautiful beautiful creature in n the world and that she the has ha eyes cye like violets aid that the she IS i so different from fron all other woman doesn't be lieve a word vord of what he r is saying lying He hu ha h l seen een dozens dozen of prettier girls goris girl and ahe the Is twin utter sister to a II score of other girls he h knows but he knows know it t makes a hit with her hor to make her t believe that she has liat hypnotized him So the she marries him un- un under un under der dee the deluded belief that she ahe h hae has cast ca t a spell pell pell over him hint that makes him see her as al she would like to be Instead of as al she Is B Dl rORE w men lum ae are reckless about the va i n It the spend money D on a It girl tirl The la lavish Ish presents on her The Tho I ilde Ide her around In and cars They take her to high pi Iced An and cabal ct Often Orten they Wend 1 tar far ar mole moie mOl e than Ihan the can afford alord Alwa Always VB the 31 are aio c lib lib- liberal lib liberal eral and generous ith the ho result that after marriage mans mn a woman gets els the shock of her life b finding that she tins baa married a ad of o a n spender and that the man lUan she sue thought had ample means Jq Ic is ga pool poor a as Jobs Job s lurke I Then what is a proposal but a fraudulent rich get qUick propositIon with nothing but hot air to back it Probably no nonan noman noman nan man ever made an honest marriage proposal to a girl I In n FP f sas Mar ilari I have hare got n II mean and dispo- dispo disposition J I pus fim selfish and nd and ooh onh trust worth I don dont t make wake much mone money and o ha rao 0 no brilliant prospects prospect and If you rou marty me ou 11 halo hale to put up WIth ra m crankiness and work hard and 1 ear ear hi bb clothes and ou nih need the Die forbearance nce of or Xo No o Ito 1 paint lI a Claude picture of or love lov ind de demotion ollon and andine ue ine cottages collates and billing and cooing and Ond that Ibal Iq Ic i hal the pool 1001 strop simp Imp o or of a It gIrl eirl falls rails fori for forU or i U 4 t I Nor are women any more honest with men Why the aver average averi I age man has never really seen the real woman he marries until the honeymoon begins begin to wane wan and the she takes off her hand made macit complexion and he finds that the face that launched a thou thou- thousand thousand sand ships for him is often enough to stop atop the clock ALSO A A he finds out about the same time that the matrimonial bargain ho he baa ha got Is not nol as ns Mas as represented In roan mani respects He Ht had led t to believe beltcH for or one thing thinK t O the girl he Ire led to the UtO altar looked upon him as B an nn oracle and asked nothing better belter of file than to sit sll cit at hit h feel fOci and burn Incense before him blur Likewise the girl had sold herself to h him m commercial commercially ly speaking by being beng so 10 sweet swett and that butter wouldn't melt in n her mouth and by looking so soft and pliable that he never doubted that he could mold her to his hs taste tate BL B r L r be he has hab lID been bein married a month ho lie has bail found out out that she I I had au an l temper tamper concealed about her Iler person that she I Is as lIS set in her liei ways wa s as a n piece of or granite and that so tar far ar from think thinking I ing lug him perfection she the has set about to change everything about him om his Ms and religion re to his necktie necktie- i I I Certainly no other one thing in n the world would do so I much to make happy marriage as a for men and women to be behonest beI beI I honest with each other before m But there would be bc I mighty few marriages if they knew beforehand what they were getting DOROTHY DI DU Cop Dt right 1921 b Public Ledger Compani I I II I |