| Show S DIX TAIlS TALIS I r r A ni 1 te orld l orld BIbe t 1111 WHEN YOU GO HUSBAND PICKING CHOOSE A HEALTHY AMBITIOUS AMBITIOUS YOUNG MAN WITH A GOOD DISPOSITION AND A Ap Af p 1 KINDLY WORD FOR EVERY SEE ONE ONE SEE THAT HE HAS HIS HEAD IN HIS WORK AND HIS HEART IN YOUR KEEPING A lOU G woman oman asks me to tell II hei IeL how bow to choose a good food hU A Alai Aln daughter there th re are rt no n earmark by which you can tell beforehand whether a man will make mak the th tort Sort of ofa ofa fa a husband who keep ke p his hi wife on her knee thanking God for her luck In getting him or make makes her pend spend the time tim from her wedding day to her funeral what the tho th fool killer WI Wa w doing the th day the she was wa married thAt j It didn't get her when a woman chooses her life lito partner she the almost uses her ber heart In n k stead lead of ot her bet head and sod this causes cause her to be deaf deat deaf deaf- 4 4 B F dumb and blind to an that her b r common sense en o mIght offer her lne 1 women out of ot ten Len marry K r a man 1 because he looks liko like a sheik 01 ot Is h a glib talker tulker 1 and a good dancer rather than because he possesses t yoke yok f the qualities that to go to make a 11 good goad mate mate- m t Now if I were young woman Di II DI plating matrimony I I should choose none buta but buta a strong trong healthy husky hu ky man for a husband No lean cadaverous dyspeptIc would get me nor would I I under under- undertake undertake tAke the lob of being a human n buffer between the world and the nerves of any neurotic and temperamental gentleman no matter how poetic and he h was wn WOULDN'T want ant a husband whose WhOM thoughts thou were ere so o centered d on hl bic I 0 that he forgot ho had a II heart art and who was ao so bilious and pessimistic that he he- kept the whole hole atmosphere the color coor of indigo Nor would I 1 want not to always ays be walking on eggs for tor tear fear of at or doing tc that would auld jangle janile the raw of an man who ilio ho via IS was about as an soothing to hae ha e on the thi promises premises as f a headed tore bear It ft is onI anI in stories that sick tick people are an angelic In real life lit the grumpy and unreasonable So I foil felt a II calto cai call cal to mart marts I t choose an In Invalid did for tor a husband Next I J should give o a mAns mAn's busin business ability the careful over over once I would not expect a young man to support me mo n in inthe inthe the way in which 1 I had been accustomed to live I If my father was a man I would not demand a 1 cAr r and a fins fine establIShment nor imported frock But I I would not marry any man who had not proved that he could stand and on n hit hIs feet by hi his own efforts effort support a I wo would ld rather marry a man roan who ft u could make 2500 a year himself than an on Idle rich mans man's son whose hose father made him hum an allowance of a year yar SHOULD know kno that love bye an and romance naif to ha e a substantial I financial backing it Jt the aro to endure ind that while I might pit pita a pool husband who ho ho make a living I could not re- re re respect him and I Id d haic hae a mighty might strong hunch that the nOIse none ot of o the bill beating on all the door would auld dro drown dron II out the billing and tIll the cooing in au SU home e 0 I t e t I would pick out a man who wai as 86 a a hard bard worker and ener energetic getic nn nu tip and coming conting man roan who ho wa as keenly interested In his bl or profession A number of at rea reasons ons would enter Into Ibis selection First I would want a husband of whom I could be proud In whose career I could t ke au an II interest and In whose hose success I could share for a wife invest her all of braIns brame and talent and nd hopes for the future in her husbandS husband SECO S SECONDLY DI I should want a husband who cibo was as too bus but with nth his hit own J affairs t to meddle with mine for I should bould loathe the th sort ort ot of a man luau 1 sho ho ass w SS s was HIS ah alwa a s snooping around th the Ice bo box bin and who picks out lila ICes wife clothes And lastly I should know that there 1 Ia 1 no better chaperone for fr a man than for him to be too busy bucy with occupation hit his occupation to have time to philander It is 1 the idle Hie men nen and the n men loan who re going nowhere In particular who have time toI to I notice what perfectly wonderful hair hall their ther s haveN have NEXT N EXT I should 1 pi Vt attention to a mans man's man dIsposItion If he be heas s as wa aa jealous suspicious and it If ho he too took offen l lly It fl Le was WaG ao moody and sullen If it he was high tempered and said Bald cruel truel things when he was Vas I should have hase none of ot him though heRS he was RS as liS lIch sich ai al a croesus Croesus a ak ab handsome as aa t Rodolph Valentino as moral i a as Sir Galahad For it is i a mans man's man disposition with th which his hie S wife has hac to lIve every y d-y Hit His virtues tre re mere outside ornamentations ornamentation for SundaY weal So I should hould pick mo mc m a husband huband who was waa wa good good- good natured who was wat Jolly who turned an optImistic eye cy on me along with the rest of the world and believed that I 1 was trying to do tho the decent thing Instead 0 of the tho th wrong thing know now kind of o man who is alwag 81 humorous and kind and YOU Y who ho ho has a pleasant word Kord tor for fT a kiss kles for tor tora fora fora a child and a pot pt tor for a II dog doe who makes wakes the best beat of at e m eer eel el er and ho aho makes 0 sol voi 1 fel feI 1 b his hiB presence that Gods God's la In his heaven beaven and alt AI 11 a 5 right l with Inc Uie th arId v orid Thit Is i the sort of o man I i would auld pick out outto to foi a l I I would pick a generous man for a husband a Just jutt man mana a man who would not expect roe me m to run a hOU house houte e on air I would wouldn never vr marry a an who always alwy rowed with a waiter over aver a bill billand billand billand and who carried hie hiG change cInge in n a purse pune that he had to undo three I clasps asps to get into nto F T Y I T would pick out tor for a a husband what hat the tle old fashioned novels used to call caU a a mail mad ot of sentiment ut I j would want taut a man ho 1 ho as as understanding who ho was 8 on whose hose tenderness I 1 could tin thion 0 myself as ati of at comfort as at on the pit pity ot of God Thero are arc plenty pl n y cf ef wen who measure up tip to all of these th r standard I and if girls would select their husband with as rare jre as 5 they do Jo their hats hat there would be he mighty few unhappy marriage DOROTHY DIX COli 13 b Public Ledger Compan Compau |
