Show human nature in wedlock there are many causes for discord in married life one of the causes is that some who are pronounced husband and wife are not adapted to each other mentally or temperamentally in such cases the most sacred marriage ceremony does not nob produce harmony of natures alteo they thay may be pronounced one by the person who officiates at the wedding his words do not make them one if their aims desires and tendencies are so opposed that they can not be harmonized if as much common sense were used in mating human beings inen mentally tally and temperamentally fis as in the mating of domestic animals for the pu purpose of prop orating their species there would be more happiness than under present conditions mental alap adaptation tation is of as great importance imp ortence as the physical A refined orderly person can not jive happily with ith a coarse disorderly one two persons who are very positive in their natures do not harmonize as well as where one is is somewhat deficient in that power when both parents have a combative nature matui that tendency is likely to be exa exaggerated eratus in the children and the same with any other strong characteristic mental or physical as well as weakness or oi deficiency A religiously inclined person should not marry an irreligious L scoffer and it is always best for religious people tn marry those thos e 0 of f their own faith and let un believers this is a to topic p ic worth the most serious consideration in order that young men and women may understand these important prin principles caples before they take the step that means eternal happiness or perpetual perpetua misery to them in considering marital adaptability it is necessary necess arf to keep in mind the welfare of both husband and wife and future generations erat ions there is a law haw of heredity that wll assert itself and wis itis a ti ue doctrine that the sins of the parents will revisited be visited up on oil the children in the third and fourth generation it t is proper that there shaula be a differ difference once in the characteristics of husband and wife but it should bo be a harmonious difference like the different voices in a welt well or organized anizel choir the blending of two minds and souls into one does not take place unless there is a similarity in their ambitions the numerous divorces granted in courts and many unhappy homes jestly that the results of the haphazard nuptials of the past and present are far from ideal |