Show WHY Marriage Is Bad Medicine For Willful Spirits In most revues ues and musical comedies a n young oung couple meet In some hotel garden fall Call In love and are married In the last act writes V. W. L. L George In Harpers Charge me not with witt lack of humor if I suggest that man many marriages marriages marriages mar mar- are so made In m my note notebook ooK are ire several confessions Among them themIs Is that of a young joung girl who pledged her hand on board a liner because there was nothing else to do She She was wrong she could ha have ve jumped overboard o People do marry as casually casually casu casu- ally as they loam learn to play golf but they take more pains with golf gott In Ia that negligence hides the nightmare that shall haunt them the they blunder Into marriage they think to conduct It without travail or diplomacy into iato the detachment of mature years ears Therein the they go astray for marriage Is a tool with many edges and amI none shall use it with Impunity that treat It without regard For It may close as us ninny doors doon as It can ean open That marriage can close doors none should den deny and It is folly to overlook overlook over over- look its limitations notably those which hear bear an Individual freedom No skill or tolerance can make of marriage mar a state akin to celibacy and It ItIs ItIs itis Is well to agree that the married are not free people In the sense of at the unwed this Is not a reflection on the conjugal condition for freedom Is a word and Pellico In the Spielberg Spielberg Spiel Spiel- i ber berg found wings wIngs- for his spirit that tha no Austrian peasant could fasten to toils his ils shoulders To be free is sometimes to be derelict and as In marriage such seldom arises the loss Is to the state But nut the married married mar mar- ried must after the ceremony realize this lit candle that they have day a I which cannot be put out accepting a anew anew anew new condition they must be ready to adopt new manners which Is not easy when creatures are arc adult differently bred and nurtured perhaps rooted out of dissimilar social strata even brought together across continents They must abandon the the- idea that they I may mar unchecked change their dwelling their occupation the circles of their friendships all nil these things they may I still do but anI only In la consultation Or if tier they do not consult t If it one Imposes upon the other his will or the thrall of ot a nagging tongue then shall victory turn as ns dust and ashes In his mouth |