Show A SECRET r f p OF r I Good Grooming Very Different From Painful Neatness Self Forgetfulness After Aftel Making Sure One Is Well Dressed Adds to I Attractiveness Are you well-groomed well or are you Just painfully neat There Is a world of ot difference between the two you know v although not a few seem unaware unaware un un- aware of the distinction Mayhap Its It's an attitude rather than a fault In the grooming that makes some people fastidious while others m must st remain prim says a woman writer Again It ItIs Itis Itis is undoubtedly an Ignorance or worse still n a deliberate disregard for the dicta dictates tes of fashion and particularly In the uie little things Most of or all It Is the Inability to carry curry things off with an air of smartness that gives the Impression of painful neatness II Quite the best vest way to overcome this unpleasant stiffness In dress Is to first see that every single feature of the costume Is above reproach the groomIng groomIng grooming groom- groom Ing of Qt ones one's person not by any means excepted and then to forget all about ones one's self To lo be continually smoothIng smooth smooth- Ing tag ones one's dress tucking In stray ends endsor of or hair mauling the hands straightening straighten straighten- ing the collar and doing a hundred other othel meaningless things that prim people do Is to give a most unpleasant Impression of Self forgetfulness you OU know Is one of the big secrets behind charm Perhaps Per Per- haps laps you have often wondered why careful Sally Jones proves so much I less attractive than less careful Peggy Brown Sally Is too careful too mindful mindful mind mind- I ful of her appearance of herself Peggy straightway forgets all about herself so Interested Is she In the other fel fel- low Of Ot COUl course e there Is nothing commendable commendable commendable com com- In carelessness as regards ones one's person but It Is certainly to be preferred to un undue ue carefulness resulting resulting result result- In ing In squeamishness There I Is no limIt limit limit lim lim- it to the charm of a person who Is carefully groomed yet who manages to forget that she Is so once she leaves her boudoir |