Show VIEWS OF 31 ARRIAGE 1 WE ADLER UPHOLDS SOME OLD FASHIONED IDEAS equality of the bi be to i one of the tho ferll that threaten th the of the bt 11 arriage state wo an wot wants to kale the tb House household holI A RECENT talk on marite arlage I 1 portia perils and its safeguards prof ad ler bald there are ahr three ee different waye ways of regarding the marriage relation there la Is the rigid conservative view that looked upon the old form of marriage ae as perfect there Is the radical view that favors even elven greater facility of divorce than exists at present pree ent and there la Is a 8 moderate position between these two extremes a position which azes the value of 0 the monog amlo deal ideal and looks forward to the development of that ideal which Is aa as yet only partially accepted d and understood one of the chief perils that threat en marriage la is due tire to the freedom permitted to tho tile parties entering the marriage lention in former fornier days the marr lige of the sons song and of the daughters was controlled and arranged by the tile parents but now flow restraints ants of that kind vil lb bye r e almost entirely passed away and find numbers of unions are mido without proper cire care an 1 prudence prudenco it Is impossible nt at tills this d ly to have haie recourse to coercive legislation t to 0 secure thie this end call but moral restraint should be ile marched to prevent young people from f aming ill 11 mar marringer N second peril re stilt from the growing gro hing recognition of tho tile equally of the betho bethe bees equality Is a 1 blessing but bilt it Is also aenlle from the hit that it Is birder li arder to secure hermony where exists under the old theory tint thit the tile was Rs necessarily superior mid tint thit th it it was the ih ire s duty as a 4 list resort to beld to her 1 hug bind s lylia it N 19 fisler iIer I to bring about n 11 degma of thin in a cise where two minds ind two ta 0 wills N ills of erml authority atit horio ire re eli relishing shing in ili ill attel vise it requires much higher attributes of ch ameter to i hippy 11 appy ind ina union 1 I belle believe e ill tint it these theae to perils peril tha peril perit cinoc I 1 b greater freedom an till t the peril cinser c b greater edtl alf e led to the great lucre fri creise ise in tho cymber of divorces in recent fira the of dior divorces ces is not no a local matter latter Ift it ft Is present in brince germany and 1 england ri gland but more than anywhere else it Is present in the unite 1 states ard I 1 believe tint 1 is bec luse of the ses s es Is more recognized here the high ideal of marrit marritte marr lige ge that we in this country are boiking towards Is very hard to attain we wo arc are in n transition period and transitions ore are otten often unsatisfactory in our critical situation several se eral safeguards sate guardi are needed ceded n wu wo need that young men and young woe should have a clearer idea of the areat of th the 0 marriage relation ard that they should have greater tui ittes of making each other a acquaintance at lit other times time than at balls and aillar lesti titles we also need a hichar ideal of marriage itself as a reli relation tion of which the duties are tire more important than the pleasures and a relation in which each party to should seek beek to foster and cherish all that Is best bet in the character of the other the happ relation of courtship should be continued as much after madriago mar rIago as it was before |