Show HEADED FOR MISERY A A woman with a powerful per personality sodality can make a 4 success ess of any marriage says miss aliss norris orals in article such women are rare however she goes on the tha 19 year old girl who asks for advice in the letter quoted does not seem to be orte one of thern them francoline is madly in love with a man 38 years old he has been married before but is divorced the two sons 8 ind and 19 10 years old are in his care what francoline finds in paul is a deep s companionship a similarity of 01 tastes and ideals this thi s is the first tto time she he has ever been in love francoline says paul claims that he is feeling the tender lender passion for or the first time too and that he never really loved his wife miss aliss norris cautions fran coline cowe that cheis she is headed for a lot of shocks and disillusionment if she enters this mari marf ariage there just the proper basis for a happy marriage here A young woman must give zip up too many pleasures that are normal at her ago age she must put up with too many difficulties in this particular case case the children the for former wife e the earning power of the husband alli all present problems that will mill probably grow wor worsens seas time advances L may marry anaman any man she pleases please and win through all the dangers and whirlpools and pitfalls of matri mony to a serene and happy middle age but possibly francoline the necessary qualities to get into that class many sacrifices ahead the responsibility of supporting another woman and two boys does doe not grow easier as the months of 0 themselves into years francoline Francol lne will have to make many sacrifices will have to be ready for grave decisions I 1 the shortage of 0 money will cramp her from the first and unless I 1 t ehe he Is of a really generous na ture she will resent that constant drain on pauls resources one boy will need dental work another may come home for long nursing after paul may crush hereby her by hinting that as he already has children he be Is h none nona too eager to we welcome coefie more this mar marriage rInge robs her of the dancing the house parties the new frocks and now new friend friendships that are natural at her age it means that she grows grow s mature before hertice her time truly a girl of 19 may havea have a wonderful companionship with tt a man of 38 even as his wife but only when he can pet her herspool spoil her treat her as a doll to francoline Francol lne none of these pleasant flattering things wl will come she will be at once the second wife stepmother housekeeper e cook oo kand and manager in the I 1 house of this much older man it there Is any spoiling done she will ul have to io do it it there are any concessions ces she will have to make them lots of trying details will have to bo be settled before you can come to companionship with your husband iFranco francoline luie this particular setup seem to promise much hope ot of their settlement |