Show AIg TWO SIDES At one of the ward vard meeting hous houses the other night Dr Dt Gowans ju Judge gc of at the juvenile COUt court gave some excellent ex cx- x- x advice to parents In th s 5 course of or his remarks he made the lit mate rather attractive statement that a n aman n man didn't quit playing because he lit grew old olt but he ho gre grew old because I he quit playing Tho inference I is Ic I that if It he kept close to his children chil dren close to their various various' in- in 1 remained fellow with them theta themas L Las as the they grew up he hc would hold to ta tolis his lis youth In thought and even If Jt his frame did get stumbling and weak weale But there Is another side of or the question queston Many a time a n parent feels S that hat his children loving children loving loving him and all al that would hat would be Just n a little more inert comfortable without him Ho lie realIzes realizes real real- Izes zes the differences in years ears and ant has hasa a sense of or unfairness to them when he insists that the they continue to give I him place with wih them He lie knows the they hey will wl do to It I that their mini filial regard re regard re- re gard sard will wil prevent even the suggestion I of unwelcome from Crom them But h hcan hl I Ican can harl hardly help help in help il In a majority majority of of 01 cases realizing cases realizing that they think Jn ti n na S Sa a language which he has forgotten that hat he lie thinks s In a n language wh h I the they hey have hae not yet et learned And that I he can make them tem happier b by recognizing recognizing the frontiers that divide him I from rom them Maybe it is less lets so with wih tho the mother Women romen are usually so adaptable that thai they hey can keep closer to their daugh- daugh ers There is a bond fn In femininity p that hat docs does not exist among amons men We Ve b by no means desire desho to destroy the he lesson which Dr Gowans tried I to o impress He wanted the parents parent to o keep so close to their children that thI b bad ad influences would never intrude And A nd that Is the good soot result to be al- al at- at t It I is not always cas easy But the results re re- re s are so tremendous Tho rho he bless l Ing ng ag of or reflecting on the correct habit habil t a and nd tho the happy happ life Ure of the child repays repay 5 al a ill ll sacrifice and what and what is more difficult tJ- tJ dif f ahl all effort effort- And the pain of ot the tIme disappointment disappoint disappoint- ment mont for the contrary course Is the tho thene tc o one ne thing which the parent much forever for for- e ever ver avoid I |