Show r f I IN N TH THE REALM OF WOMAN I i TilE THE SECOND WIfE IFE Tho Tto second trifo like Ilko tho the second book bool may bo be merely a manuscript of or onos ono's r y youth llono dono over after afier the success of or une n H first venture for tot the memory of or a a. rejected romance mn in may may- tho the rosy jig light ht of ot u assume now life lire and attractiveness More roro often orten however howo she sho is Js a 8 siren unseen and unsung during his late Jato domestic durance Thackeray was responsible for tor tho the quoted much assertion that any any woman not PO possessing a hump huml can become the wife of ot any man she chooses I bellevo believe this to bo be actually true of or becominG ills il second wife it takes en energy erg and i finesse to bridle a colt for fot the tho first time but once ho has Ijas boon been broken brokon to I rJ IS you u need only display a a. lump f of or sugar Bug to sec eo him cat eat out of or your youri I band and anti slip his noso nose under tho tiro bridle I The second wHo Is apt alt to be any any I woman who ho holds out a lump of or sugar i in the of or agreeable flattery to i the tho frisking widower Sometimes to I ho he finds rinds quite an embarrassing number Humber of lumps offered him and this may occasion a a. slight alight dela delay In his I choice s H The Tho process s which brings about Ms his Is i j doom is so 50 familiar that even he may reco while ho succumbs to It I How pleasant to know when whon ho con con- elders conferring an idle evening upon Ulon 1 her liei that thero is an eye will mark his coming and grow brighter when he comas How astonishing to find his favorite books hooks and magazines spread out for foi him hint on her library table How won- won to have o his favorite sweetbreads I prepared ared b by her on tho chafing dish I How woma womanly how conservative and yet ot inspiring all nil her views How sweetly sho she takes the tho spot off his hie coat lapel the delicate perfume of ot the attention deadening deadening- his no nostril to the fumes of ot nal naphtha dispensed by tho process And nd how tender how artless her suggestion that It t would bo be co sweet if it they could always ny be bo cosy and comfortable com com- together Women omen of or romantic dispositions have rather rathor an objection to being second wives l How foolish The fact that a aman aman man has bas been married for tor ton or fit nt- teen years their meeting is Just ao Jo much of or a n. guaranty that ho has hns bo- bo I hayed haved moderately well during luring all nil that period For has ho not had a a. for lor Just so long A Veil cn Dinc Moreover he ho has had all the advantages ont ant ages agos cs of or family discipline and has at attained attained attained at- at at nt least to the third reader In Inthe Inthe Inthe the wifely codo code of ot morals and deport deport- ment nt A Al second wife too has this tremendous ous ou advantage over hor her predecessor nT She Sho c can n affect quite openly and publicly publicly pub pub- to havo a n. mind It Pt usually takes one ona marriage not marriage o not I alwa always s 's tho the first one b by the way way-tr u teach a man tho the practical disadvantages ut of a brainless wife But Dut tho the most re re- re markab e of or all aU the vagaries of or progressive pro pro- I matrimony Is the strange un unconscious unconscious un- un i conscious adherence to one t typo po on the pa part t of tho h man n. n A first husband may moy bo be and red headed while the second mo may be bea bea a a. dark darle and sleek and oily giant slant But Dut thero there is s always was a n certain res resemblance em blanco between first and second wives wl Their eyes may not be bo alike nor their noses Ono One may be five lve feet teet tall the other six Ix lx but they will bo be found to possess nev nevertheless certain qualities or attractions n at attractions t- t tractions in common Perhaps it is Js merely a certain childish helplessness But whatever it may bo ho tho the lure luro persists persists per por- surviving surviving- the Individual woman and bringing him whenever ho bo meets it it nearer to tho haunting Helen of ot his dreams that strange combination of ot priestess prattler and valet do tb c hIs hla J i- i m Ca n j v 4 s. s UI T. T Physicians tell us that If It f at tho the close clos of at Its Us third y year t a no child possesses a n. ro robust roust and perfect bod body it Is likely to light down the tho disease common to childhood and continue its development development development develop develop- ment without any ony serIous setback This tells us plainly plain then that tho the first 1 three thero years of ot a childs child's life lire bold hold the most t dangerous for tor It lu The mother should havo her hor ph physician prepare a adaily dally daily proGram for the tho child and al although although although al- al though this program will need changing changing chang chang- ing from irom time to time as tho the child STOWS grows older it should no never noyer er bo be changed chang chang- ed cd except on the tho advice of ot her bor own awn I physician I There ere are aro a no great m many n mothers who listen Usten to their well meaning friends friends' advice and und give Sho the child different foods and medicines that are aro recommended recommended mended to them theta This is 19 a great mistake mistake mis mis- take and mothers should remember never to change chango a 8 childs child's diet without first consulting tho the doctor No food should over be given Riven a baby except that prepared in its own homo home and no except that t preset prescribed by its own physician should be given to itA it A change chang in food cakes and crackers given it by friends when visiting l loften is 18 often the beginning of or weeks n of ot Intestinal intestinal intes Intes- trouble A safe saCe rule for Cor tho tho mother molher I la is nothing to eat out of or t tho o I baby's nursery and no medicine given on th the advice of ot friends |