Show yo IN THE REALM OF WOMAN I THE PAN mm t til tild J OR d THE TIlE FIRE BE I lY IT Ja ELLA L. JI Witco WILCOX Divorce orce h hRs has become such uch an nn ever evor lay day iA affair that every 1 Vl JT men and atHI women of or It as a loophole from tho coma common common- on- on o ot ost t ills fIls of ot marital life Ute In days those thole daR 1 Where here once a woman would o hl shown n Indignation at the tho mere mention of or divorce orco as a n possibility for tor nn any friends of or hers sho now talks nt ot it It as un nn incident liable to occur In her own career It may come como to bo be regarded I very verv much in the light of or a n trip to Europe I and Is frequently th the sequel to on ono one where hero the tho haS tak taken the I alone I Meanwhile there I aro arc real ills fils and real tragedies for which separation or dit dl dl- t orce vorce is the only cure But before you resort to dl divorce voice my dear clear madam would it not be wise to think tho whole holo subject over o In ht de- de tall Scores yes hundreds of or wives wJ will read these words who have ha ce to love lovo their hu husbands and who have havo become be- be como come entangled in the slIver silver web Weh of t sympathetic friendship or the golden net of affinity Chinle n lc Well Before You Yon set Act t I You aro this tills moment thinkIng thinking think think- Ing how happy happ you ou could be were y jou ou free freo to marr marry the tho man who has shown you ou such kindness and amI delicate re regard arll during your our unhappy time of marital disillusionment Tour Your husband Iran has been untrue to you or ho has hat been unkind or Jr you ou have o drifted apart through various arlous causes All tho the romance of ilfe has hasT T vanished 3 Rn and you OU feel that to go o on lo Indefinitely 1 In your present situation 11 bo be Insupportable The ate be visits or letters of ot the tho sympathetic th tte friend are tho the anI only bright spots Hi in your your oUr dull and antI dreary dl d days s 's and IId you believe a life lito pa passed parsed with him would be ones One of or unalloyed delight delle Now ow ow in order to enjoy enjoy that life Uto you pass pasa th through rough tho the divorce court cort Have 6 you ou Oll realized all that that means ns i And do O you know the man who has infatuated In Infatuated In- In I you well n 11 to b bit certain tale tain of ot the position he will take in phi tho the matter I loth Ho Ito 0 tb the Kin inal li rest Tc There are arc scores j of or men who WIlD are aro adorable lovers ers of or wom women n why are not I Iob ob ts of or public scan scandal al but who pus pos p I I sees no lio qualities of ot the moral mo and who shrink from the shot and shell of or I scornful words and glances a as a ft timid soldier shrinks from tho the tiro of tho thoen en enemy em So Fo long along as a n woman is received n and 1 accepted by society su such h men do de not mind mina having hating their nam- nam names s associated with watt hers gallantly gallant and even evon tike a pride In posing as h her hor r friend and tam plon Ion But when sho is dropped by Mine 1 I and when the newspapers feature feature fea fea- ture turo her hel domestic troubles these men mon find a sudden Journey to foreign 11 lands necessary for their health Is your friend one of or these Even If It ho lie is not are aro you ou sure ho he possessor possesses character and independence independence- ono enough to tobe tobo tobo I bo be happy hapl with you when ou you both are avo coldly recel received ed among old friends or heu your advent into a hotel notel or theater theater the the- ater ter excites unpleasant attention the the-I Men Ien are extremely to public pub pub- I Ito lic opinion They care caro moro more for tor the thel I respect of ot the outside world than women wo wo- I men ulon do The They feel the slights of ot club cub and business associates and In spite of or their reasoning powers which ar are supposed sup- sup posed to be he greater r g-r than man womans they thoy frequently blamo the woman who has I boon been the causo cause causo o of their lable position position po po- In these matters matter Before you ou give up lip your OU 1 present n t mis mi- mi 10 fortunes for foi another mant mana love lo th think nc carefully of ot all these facts regarding the theas ways as of or a mans man's mind Tho rho r mo bo a II moat molt unpleasant n dw d lIn r pan au T buG the r bps nO m noi l r rJ J ap c t rf ah rh 1 11 U J 1 form before X you ou Jump i it In f wr loho I t L oll JV on Il fJ 1 mi Ir d people I believe o In divorce U U orco for tov tho the people people who have substituted 8 d bate bato for tOT lovo lo T havo known a n. woman to 10 be huppy with a a. L good OI man after leaving a 0 dissipated and faithless brute Don't Dont L K tet timi m. m But I havo have also known i a of or f unhappy wives to follow tono ono one unhappy i marrIage with wilh a 8 second and ond to ni 1 d dIho expected existed existed exist exist- the Iho jO Joy and peace they c ed ell only in Imagination I have havo known a e. df divorced o ced woman women to disillusioned with the h become utterly hs k man for tor whom she gave av o up the worlds world's s h esteem And when ch a a. woman rea reah r reaches aches that experIence she b a and men Nothing can canever jest to gods cods true win winever ever cr restore the dignity of tr WO manhood to her again 0 o ridiculous Better b be unhappy than I I. I LA A DAILY FASHION HINT I I II I II I I V ii W j ia g v j AY Jr A Ri 4 r tj 1 li r. r x y r v- v i Y r r yh i e 1 x j h M A Y jr sN 11 f r r r s y r l 1 r h hUSE MODISH USE USE a cOF F EXQUISITE HAND WORK A j r Tj r h T The re veness of f this thi calling calling- costume of or fawn colored 1 l broadcloth is largely due to the amount of hand work put into it The bodice ice is is a a. really very plain straight little affair opening opening opening open open- ing over over a square yoke oke of tucked but it is made distinctive distinctive dis dis- distinctive by the honeycombing of embroidered ered motifs which almost c vel the surface The big flower r patterns first ca carefully carefully care care- ebig e- e fully eyelet stitched around the edges are cut out and under under- laid with coarse filet net in matching b color This net serves serves serves' to hold the blouse in shape and is very effective over the soft slip The rhe sleeves are of tucked the tucks hicks running out ont to form a little fringe along the edge of the arm on which is arranged a panel of buttons and loops The marabou neckpiece and muff shade into a darker tone of the fawn color |