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Many able up date Uj-t Uj date guardians guar su guardians and und arguing are arc now theorizing disappointments disappointment to the noble means ol of or- or their thell character char char- character educating children forming self acter and teaching is perhaps a great deal of meaning to tobo tobe bo be found in such theories and also benefit to u a limited extent However doctrine find per and per perhaps it Il it is ly a very ery dreary haps Imps likely to 1 hu be over indulged In I by those inclined o to pessimism Just pessimism Just at as atmore as' as snore more can be by hy and anil forbearance arance than luau b by frequently correcting So also is encouragement nt rather than limn disappointment a more satisfactory satisfactory sat sat- means o of influencing child hood for youth Is s not in Itself always hopeful To it each euch disappointment appears doubly final because it is new of or outlived outlived out out- remembrances anI and there tin arc are no lived BOrows J and an victories gamed aired to encourage future futuro effort erroll OverIndulgence Over equal equally harmful for forby forby forby once ence Is Is o of course by it children are aro almost invariably rendered incapably Incapable of oC appreciating justice jus jus- lice lee or even valuing an anything b by true and proper standards In no phase of life howl however howler er can an any doctrines or or ot rules be universally un ap tip- ap- ap fundamental funda funda- fundamental always alwaYN certain plied piled There here are arc different dif dif- mental principles but with every ory ferent fC condition must even they tho bo be what to sumo some might t bo be O tempered tu for but hul encouragement to others other would I provo prove cl demoralizing and while to some certain punishment would be but Just method would others be bo l try liy that same name y bitterly wounded wound and perhaps cowed into inlo deception l If a u happy medium of gentle genUa Justice cannot be LIe universally employed C pcr- pcr evils Is Indulgence in indulgence In- In of two Il haps pg the lesser rather than continued severity sever seyer- than reason it ity for love c is stronger anti ami anI what It falls fails to teach perhaps emphasize emphasize nothing else can so consistently size or 01 accomplish Holland In his and portrays 11 beautifully the Ibo heart hearl Is la that H states t unreservedly wiser than the Hie Intellect and moves move feet to- to towar toward with wll h stronger hands bands and tad surer war ward wise conclusions If IC theories and bare burc justice prompted ben beneficial ben by hy mere inure Intelligence were a a. more Influence for children than titan situ sim simple pIe m mother other love Io then thon Indeed would mould chaperons companions and anti be more satisfactory guardians for tor torch ch children but then what would become of the little hand that rocks the cradle era era- dle and amI w wat tt ten tender cr memories memo rica In after afterlife life yuld v there thero be b to guide Influence us and govern S uy With experience one olle must Hust necessarily learn leant that 1 our civilization would be he helplessly Imperiled without ul tho the high high- cr ur power of sentiment and nd It Is this Invisible force that ye C need and aa asa as a community strive to encourage c. George Eliot says a s 's th that t tho the eminence J I of people dep depend ld on un unIt and no nobleness a Its It capacity of being stirred by mem mend memories oll odes ories s of striving for lor what w we call p r- r not In ends ends ends-ends ends which consist bu but t inthe In material possession Imme Immediate l to tho the satisfaction of or a great geat g eat fueling f U that at aul animates tho the collective body boy as w with th one ono oho soul and if this living force forc of of national sentiment In common makes a of consciousness the remembrance childhood regulated only by Justice c. c rather than mci-c mci ld H Hardly l Inspire pleasant thoughts much less Jess gratitude s which binds with honor the present and future to lute Ibo past Whether happiness happiness hap hap- lap lap- should ld should como come or 01 not we sho un undoubtedly try an and pr prepare J aro children to do without it but bul when tenderness satisfactorily than thun severity sc can more accomplish the desired result it sec seems ul unnecessary to tu embitter childhood with stern measures measure Can we not all ber her with keen bitterness such chilling as Ah Ah my child you ou will have havo real troubles to fret about by- by with quivering lips and byo b 0 and nd how bow piteously at what we we o sobbed vo wo have ha have felt Celt to be bo a lack of or lovo and path pathy and then In the other extreme comes the remembrance of those gout gout- her ler influences swayed by br affection aldIn and ald andIn andin the tho latter gratitude with In comparing tho the Intensity of the thc one Is forced to award the pul palm to AH life gentler issues Issue and acknowledge e life liCe In Itself necessarily entails dis f. f which may mo be l better overcome overcome over over- over O of tenderness 9 come como by a 1 for more helpful than all nil wise theories s sIs Is a simple draught of encouraging sympathetic love 10 and Iq in the man childhood ld has hits Jn known n cresses caresses no ma gnatt matr tel ter how depraved be he may become iri In after lIf life t there ler Is always 1 a aw r pj p cI memory memol memory that can call be hI touched to gentle and 1 it If childhoods childhood's every pe suro Is to bu lm counter balanced tt by lu luj- luj iLice i- i Lice and disappointments Lull ami their happy ha hate hap little lives U thus cOI converted Int Into a II abare abare tJ p py bare existence c what right have Im yo w to o cl demand of theist anything I Jot r thO little debts have 0 all 1111 been c. 3 as fn tn any other business rans transaction 0 all duo t IC to justice tl e. e b t can canone h hune one une expect ct a U churl child to take tak tI a i nn s of medicine because of If a lo tu their hume l lck k sobs o s no Ito matter malter what principle l. l may bc e c n- n I v l Cd and what reasoning coal cou couey ey compensate t tc thi them m In Ir their sue sut nl ts arguments at and reasons m may maybo may maybe y bo be bl absolutely aJ necessary ary i In ia n a a. a cour of pf appeals but In simpler life ar aro r measures equally appropriate te y 1 |