Show IThe Question of II II I a Proper Introduction I li 1 I ii I Dear Deai Miss MIStS Fairfax I T have read rend with great eat Interest your tilt with C C. B. B A A. on the lie subject sub sub- jeet of or Introductions Cf d. B. B A A. calls you a n. stickler If your repeated advIce advice advice ad ad- constitutes stickling stickling stick stick- vice on this subject ling hIng then lien I say Eay to coin cola a a. phrase stickle sonic some more marl only louder C C. B. B As A.'s case cose Is far fam wl wide e of the marlat marl at which you ou aim I Girls let me say this and amid I sa sait say it from experience and from flom omit i-omit the tho confessions confessions con con- of oC numberless less s men who snake a practice 0 of picking UI up acquaint acquaint- ances They are arc not looking for u a girl Ir to take to Sunday school anti and they do not expect to 10 linda a. a Sunda Sunday school chool girl TIme Tho chances are ale one to lo that tin tilt girl will appear aPPeaL worse than she Is because she do oCt en not wish to be bethought bethought bethought thought alow Io She Site slips slip's little b blittle by little until time the man mann thinks his hiS- first opinion OIllion verified l. l based as a's as It is upon the lie ery very reason that she hc so n rca 1 ly ae to the acquaintance ani Only last night we rea read in the paper paper pa pa- per of a a. young girl who whose c story began be be- gait gan I thought It would be Ie such fun to meet the time stranger and antI ended I was ashamed to to go ge home se so o changed In my name to LO etc ate te She thought that It would be such harmless fun un and If it any anyone one had hael warned her hel she would havo o laughed as all girls do saying Youre arold anold anold an ar old crank Wheres Where's tIme the harm Is there not nota a a er very familiar r ring In these words The Tho lowest dl districts of oC every ever cit city at ate are filled with women who started from Crom rain home of or an evening as innocent as any who read cad this paper HavIng Having Haying Hav Hay ing Ing- met a n stranger good fellowship led letl to eating eating to drinking drinking to oblivion lon Of or course most o of the girls who read lead these column columns would not drink I am um sorry to say sa that quite a number would drink for or fear of being thought slow alow But DUL even 1 if you OU dp sic not dunk drink you ou are H always in danger with a astra stra stranger nger The statements just mad are arc the tIll confessions lons of If tie the majority of oC ivonin whose lives cs are wrecked A Aery very ery small number of oC them innately bad Miss Fairfax states stales that an Introduction introduction Intro intro- Is a sort of a voucher for forthe forthe the part parly Introduces Introduced but I would warn an any girl 1111 to choose these vouchers vouch vouch- ers s with care If It one of girl acquaintances is In a habit of picking pick ing up friends In this a way do not accept item her introduction as a license to continue the acquaintance The Theman man mast she sho would introduce you OU to is pretty prelly sure to be the chum of some someone someone one une whom sh she has picked ed II tip up and of tIme the same sort i You cannot be too careful In spite of our romantic friend fm C. 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A I hope hole l Il Miss Fairfax will stickle some ome more only louder I INTERESTED lI Girls I want y you u to lu read m ever every woes word wOld of uC that letter and the next time line that thaC thata a a. mun tries to lo thrust his acquaintance upon you I want you rou to remember member what Interested has writ ton I know quite well that lint in iii man many cases no Ito harm arises arisen from froni ti-Ie ti friendships ll formed formell In iii such a u wa way but there Is alwa always the risk and amI It Jl is js a rl risk l that there is no necessity It of your running Sometimes a girl gitl writes il that she has fallen desperately In love lo wl wili h i a amnun amun amun mun whom she has da day after da a but has never met That Is perfect nonsense n you know leno for no ito girl i Irl really falls Calls In love lu with a aman amun amun mun man whom she has never nc spoken to She Site may mil have liae laken talen a romantic liking t tl ly t him cause because e he l Is or in interesting Jim Jim- III in appearance but r ah l- l love loveon loveon on such a meagre basis Is out of oC the tho qu question Uon If a man becomes very vry much interested interested inter Inter- ested in a girl he usually fIn finds s some someway someway way n of oC being introduced to her lien It Itma ma may take toke time but If ho lie Is in ca earnest nest he Iw usually succeeds Ask s your men utica asia rb-asia how they feel fee on Oh this question of or Intro introduction I think you yuu will ivill lind that their views are arc very ery similar to those of Interested Inter ested But nut It Is not enough that lint the men should have the propel proper view of th time question The girls are arc the ones ones wimp who wh must take the time right stand stasis and stick to it and Sets ets Ill her Ever Every woman girls r rOWl own OWl standard you rou I know knott no and antl that Is what whal you OU must all do Men Ien will re respect re- re you U In lit exact proportion as to how you ou respect yourself Nearly ever every girl Irl Is s lilies led with the time ambition to be bo well bred an ladylike and la to appear as though she site were cala capable of or filling an any social position to which she might ml-ht be called I can assure you OU dear girls g that no ito thoroughly ladylike girl would ever permit a man to take talie the time liberty of or forcing his acquaintanceship acquaintance acquaintance- ship upon her without a proper intro Intro- |