Show The Marriage l l ge Problem D By MARGARET MARCARET TURNBULL m Carriage Must lust Be He MaJe Ale More Alluring to Woman TO pO Ui IU J. marriage of the tuA fu- fu A tune lure through the eyes ejes of the unmarried Is to be lie Intrigued b by a fascinating problem Naturally l every Improvement ement In to marriage Inu taws laws s tends to 10 make marriage mar ria more Interesting to tl the wary warr Independent spinster The bachelor bach bach- elor has hns always had bad things his WIt way lint Hut now DOW that the curse has been bren I lifted from tram the spinster now that she no lon longer lr need ned dread the chimney chimney chim chim- ney fey corner or the uneasy post of kinsman's handy woman In sonic some household now that she takes her place piece as a useful citizen marriage no longer the one refuge must be made alluring Yet 11 marriage in the lie future ful will Itil nn- nn rIll daub b be uncommonly like marriage marriage mar mar- o of today oday The rules ules o o. o the he game ame mil may change or Jel develop elop differently but bUI that is it all rook Hook back through the ages and marriage whether by club trade capture church or state has been been practically the same It Is true that nowadays divorce Is fairly easy and the womans woman's rights fairly well protected It may maybe maybe maybe be safely ar argued that In the future future fu fu- fu ture these will be even en more carefully carefully care care- full fully looked after arter Divorce need not necessarily entail a hateful hate dragging Ins into Ino court and turning over ore before the curious eyes of the public all oj of othe the thi households household dirty linen It could be quietly and cleanly done and in ill private There should hould be on one marriage law late for lor the whole country Granted that there are still to be considered the results of ot marriage the the children There lies III's the real problem of ot future marriage A procession of three or four different dlf dif ferent fathers or mothers mother as their respective parents lightly change partners Is s scarcely conducive conducive con con- duche of ot respect for tor marriage To the spinster it If seems that lla a little lit tie tle control tel might be practiced b by adults and tough taugh to children with excellent effect on marine manna and mar mar- All of If the rhe Puritan lulian t virtues aleno are ale not no to 0 be despised Jes It Is the good fortune of at the youth of today that they approach marriage with greater frankness with more desire to get all there Is II out nut of at frank friendly comradeshIp comradeship comradeship comrade comrade- ship than did the previous generation genera genera- tion Heady manners and headstrong disregard dis Alt regard for the Ille parental view ma may be condoned if I Ille they really lead to 10 better understanding between men mel and women worn worn- en fOn It ft is i r great greaf thing thins to 0 la lay some ome othe of o the old bogies bogie low ow and to 10 rea realise II that all m men n are ale no not beasts beas nor all women angels The rank and file of ot us are Just men and women with the faults and virtues due to our birth and breeding and ond Improve laws relating relating ing to marriage as we m may y there will always be those who make the married state difficult and unattractive unattractive un attractive Female pies hat to whom marriage is speculation and aad alimony the goal Men to whom marriage Is really a temporary affair no one ono woman sufficient to hold bold them long no home be It ever so 80 cheerful no children however lovely who will make up for the tile Joys of freedom I Men len who exploit marriage as i their sister harpies d do for whom marriage Is always for tor revenue only Though marriage In the future be safeguarded ever so 80 wisely though just and equitable laws may nay he be made to govern It It though church and state unite to protect the children children chil chil- dren and property though men honestly hon estly try their best to make mab the yoke roke light and the burden easy eur still It will be Imperfect at Its best For it i is not marriage rr Itself that ha mattes maker men and women able to fo lit live together in something as a. near neaT happi happi- nest nen as this Ihle world shows or In as at great a misery mittry as IU the he conventional hell could promise It If is it what men and women bring brin to fo their marriage As A. Asman a aman man and woman think of oJ marriage ge so 0 will trill their heir marri marriage e be It If marriage of the future Is la to tobe tobe tobe be greatly different from the mare marriage mar of yesterday and today It will not be because of new laws but because the men and women of the future are more Just and fair toI toward toward to to- I ward one another more kindly and I less leu self centered more liberal and andi i less narrow than we are arc today I And even then It Is will not nOi be perfection per faction rion because men and women art are not and tan cannot not be bt perfect perfect and and nd if II they I were ell how hour deadly uninteresting it would d all l be eI el l This from t the o looking looking in e 0 Public L W NU Service lea |