Show Wise Parent Will Get Childs Child's Point of View n Bj Dy MART MARY KERR KERn National New York The family was getting ready for tor foran foran toran an auto ride Little Lithe George was In Inthe Inthe the back seat of the machine where he usually rode rodl Rut nut there was compan company company com com- pan pany today and one of ot th the guests guest was to sit Kit In his a accustomed place George objected object Id I'd and and as he could not express his objection In words since he could not yet talk he began to squirm and nd fret fret Never mind said the vial visitor tor who was to tit sit In his place as she saw now the worried look on the face of ot hU his mother mOlher who was going to lift lilt him over oer onto the front seat George will be all right he will sit on my lap he Is just anxious not to be left out All An right you can try It perhaps oe tie will sold said his mother The visitor seated Heated herself herselt toot too toot George on her lap aD sod and 1 peace reigned Never was Wart a child more content than little George e all during the ride When the visitors visitor left they were commenting on the good behavior of oC the little fellow tellow and one said I suppose the trouble we have with children often comes because we dont don't understand what they are thinking and the they are too young to tell us Yes said the one who had hac held George If we can just take their point of ot view our problems will be much simplified and after all It Is not hard to see what Is In a childs child's mind If wo we Just consider how we would feel if It we were In la his place It becomes second nature when we weare weare weare are with children much to understand understand under under- stand their thought thoughts and feelings As her companion agreed to this statement she asked Do you remember remember remember re re- member little Charles and how the nurse accused him of crying because of ot temper when be he was only a few weeks old Tb The Thereal real cause was that they had waited too long to give him his bot bottle tle When the nurse left lert and his mother had to prepare his bottle the baby cried while site sire was preparing It he did not know she know she was at work getting ready to satisfy his bis hunger I carried him Into the kitchen where he could see her preparing the bottle and at once his cries ceased Just Imagine how yon you would feel if It you ou were hungry and unable to move a step to get food lood and the per Ier- Ierson person son in charge of ot you had left you apparently Ignoring your jour need I 11 suppose we should cry just as ashard ashard ashard hard as lIS the bab baby did if It not harder said her companion We are always expecting children children chil chil- dren to understand us said the other other oth er woman but we should remember that It la le our place to under understand tand them and to take their point of ot view 1 for tor then we can do the things that will lead them to leave have confidence haus Inus la In laus us to love us and lib obey us as |