Show OOOO THROUGH A WOMANS WOMAN'S EYES By Bt JEAN NEWTON Oo- Oo p. p b br by th tb b. b I DIU 1311 ll i IDOl foal Look Not Upon Hit His Oae One of ot m my young friends friend writes write ra me about bout a problem which though really old Is fa ever new to the one Into lato whose life It comes She hAd hod been undecided between two young men Then suddenly her doubts cleared and she knew The good looking one of of more prepossessing pre pre- prepossessing possessing appearance had revealed himself as selfish elfish and egotistical He lie told her h he loved her but she ahe discovered discovered ered Bred he be could love no one better than he loved himself And this rf revelation helped her she says to appreciate the real value of the other man whose tine fine character and real devotion had earned her admiration ad ad- and respect and now she knew her love She loves him in spite of his hi unimpressive o manner in spite of his bli plainness plainness plain plain- ness In spite of ot the fact tact that he la Is half halt a head shorter than she She knows that lit his modesty cloaks not only an admirable character but buta bute a mental calibre which must moat work Us Its way to success Indeed she says saps he be has already known more success than his Hashing flashing and nail conceited rival Its Iut Its the impression he makes He lie looks so no Insignificant and my friends friend thinking that I hue have not yet let de decided do not hesitate to tell me so 80 Unfortunately I am tall and this makes all the more conspicuous his small mall stature and and It it 1 is II true true him hi Insignificant Insignificant In In- significant cant appearance My family and my friends say lIay if I married him I would always be conscious of ot this and would not be happy Do you think I am am m making a mistake Nol No I With nil alt my heart I say to tt you and to all other girls whose better sense may be waging a like battle with superficiality su su- and false standards standards standards-No No I Your Tour only mistake is la In weighing Inthe in inthe inthe the same acme scales scale with honor manliness worth and true devotion demotion such flim sla- flimflam dam flam as the Impressiveness of a man mans appearance or the manner of ot a cavalier Certainly all other things being equal It U would b be ver very nice If IC we could all ell b be Diana or Apollo Delve Delve- deres Beres But Dut to choose between such and substantial things I l ITon lYou You Yon are not going to live lIe with an nn appearance but with another character character char char- acter actor and heart These are the substance sub stance that will control In to a great measure your future happiness Therefore you yon must meat think of oC them them them- not of ot the shell Good looks would make a poor substitute sub statute for fora a mentality to pal with yours ours If It you are at nt all exacting they would hardly satisfy your longing for tor companionship and as us a steady and exclusive diet they are quite likely to pall A handsome head will not take the place of ot the heart that would cherish you or the character that would provide provide pro pro- vide for you and sustain and comfort you rou In la dark as ns well as In sunn sunny days And when you are married a devoted de de- voted glance from your husband Is la a worth more than his ability to charm other mens men's wives Then It Is ha his tats real self Belf and his attitude to your real self that will count nothing count nothing more You are marrying for tor your happiness happi happl- ness not ness not to Impress your friends blends Take the real man who has Inspired your love little girl and much happiness happi ness to you gout I |