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Show SEPTEMBER gee, tee 16 at 458 east Fourth South e ar are Bene Problem. A reader friend writes me asking me to help him solva problem with which he is wrestling. It is a pleasure to hear from my readers and I am glad to discuss with them any matter which is perplexing them. Even though I may not be able to help, it gives me pleasure to think that perhaps I can be of service to We are all one big family them, and to make the effort. in this world of ours, and to be able to be of use to each other is part of the happiness of living. one. which after all This man has indeed a preblem, But perhaps one can strengthen his vision eetidies but himself can solve. in tegard to certain aspects of it. It seems that. he very truly loves a young woman, and judging from the way he writes, it is no passing-sentimental emotion, but a deep and genuine regard. He seems to have thought down to some of the basic Possibly his past essentials of love and to know what he is doing. One obstacic experience—mentioned in the letter—is responsible for this. is that the young woman is as he expresses it, “above. him.” She moves in a social circle that is considered superior to his own, She is better educated. The two have, however, certain tastes in common. thoroughly congenial. In_. There is one phase of life in which they are it would he addition, he is a divorced man. He wants to know whether right for him to try to win her love. He knows she likes. him. terests they have in common make a string, he thinks, which if harped on sufficiently, would shut out the other inharmonies, if indeed they are really oat thdse other inharmonies. But ought he to do it? And if he did, conditions later raise their heads to cause trouble? it is a problem, isn’t it? If they would come to genuinely love each other, nothing else would | completely dissipates all matter. For a real love makes life happy, and. the seeming elements of discord, basis of genuine But have they, in this seeming congeniality, a real regard for each other; or is it merely: a passing delight in their common tastes, magnified, by reason of its novelty and surprise, to an importance it really does not possess. I think the answer to this would He in the fact as to what phase of living this-is; just how vital it is to the real.things of life. Tf it is a very important part of life, the basis really of a happy life together, then perBut if it is only a haps it is big enough and solid enough to build on. side issue of Hfe, and upon the important things of life they are not cone co then taking it as a basis of marriage would probably bring the two to grief As to the girl's being better educated, that is not an insurmountable Other things being equal, girls are apt to be better educated ‘barrier. ‘Women have more time today than the men they meet as social equals, for reading and study and the pursuft of special branches of education than men. As to the social inequality, unless the girl is fond of society and a great social favorite, social life will not probably figure largely with her in the years to come, Besides, both Snare and social graces a man can acquire if he desires to. As to his divorce, he knows best why that came about and whether he is fit to offer himself to a. fine girl. But if any reader-friend can’ say he honestly believes ths two of them can love each other very sincerely and deeply, that their tastes in common touch the big, fundamental facts of life, I would not think that their social or educational differences need be obstacles to keep them apart. Biaitace PRD Pe maids. Idittle Mildred Dern will be flower girl, and Amos Thomas of Oma~ ha will act as best man. The ushers will be Victor Detz and John Latenser of Omaha, Kenneth Luman, C, . Cotton, Rudolph Orlob, Leland Swaner and Don Homer, A reception will follow at the home of the bride’s parents, Mr. = and Mrs: ‘Abner Duman. - *& « ‘An interesting church wedding of to~ night will be that of Miss Theo Swan and Harold GC. Hendee, at 8t. - {Paul’s church, with Bishop . Spalding and Rev ‘W. Reese officiating. Miss Helen Greenwood and act as “Miss Margaret Merrill will bridesmaids, and Bynum Cash, of Indiana, best man, TdAttle Justine Adele Smith will be flower girl, and Mary Marshall ring bearer. The ushers will oe Paul Burkwalter and Percy Dayre. A reception will follow at the home of ae pride’s parents, Mr. and Mrs. Grant. ev + & Miss Margaret McClure will entertain this evening at a<dinner in honor of Miss Virginia Beatty, J. S.- Selfridge, and the members of their bridal party. it es ee & Miss Mary Cannon, a bride-elect of the month, is guest of honor this afternoon at a Kensington given by Miss Anne Cannon. . Miss Rehan Spencer ane Arch J. West, whose marriage takes place shortly will be guest of honor at a social affair this evening to be given by Mr. and Mrs. Fred Williams. ‘Tomorrow Miss Spencer will, be guest of honor at an afternoon affair to be given by Miss (Ruth Godbe and Miss Frances Clayton, and on Saturday, Mrs. E. Taft Benson will entertain for her. ise Mi pee ng in B. Da: oe Mrs. Miss Elma Darl Wax candelbra present’ in sere candelbra were Mr, and Mrs. Grant ‘ . A. Greenwood, Mr. and Mrs. Hdw and Mrs. W. P. vine = Pittsburgh. fda, Much interest ‘ts being taken ‘by society people in the coming recital at the tabernacle by r David Reese, on the 16th. Several of the~ gentlemen. acting on the committee On arrange-ments will entertain: eee pertics at ithe event. : Miss Rachel oe ee were Mrs mer} Will i. Bllerbeck and ‘ - * Last evening: Miss Flora. McCanne Mrs. John S. Weir entertained yes: and William Howard. Tibballs, were} . terday at a luncheon in honor of Miss married, the ceremony being performVirginia Beatty and the girls of her ed ao re Boas of the bride’s parents, bridal party. The table was beau* Mr, Mrs T. MeCanne. . Rev. tifully decorated in white and green, G. BE. avis. Piatt toa, Miss - Alberta tulle being used with vines and flowMeCanne acted as bridesmaid, little ers in dainty effect. The groom-elect, Gwendolen Hall as psc ea girl. and Mr. John Selfridge, and his brother Ernest Pratt as. best man. Miss, Ethel and best man, 8. W. Selfridge, were Dofflemeyer played the eiSpring Song” and other appropriate bridal music also present, during the ceremony. , rooms were decorated with a profusion of autumn The ushers of shi eaatdy Mettesdace wedding party entertained at an elab- sah aah haethe bridal ‘party standing: unorate dinner last evening at the Hotei der a canopy. of “white asters, ferns Utah for the other membere of. the and smilax with streamers: of' white tulle, and before a bank of palms and party, the hosts including Waldemar ferns. The dining room was in pink Van Cott, Leland Kimball, Shermen Armstrong, Scott Woodward, H. A. and white, the table having for 2 cen~ Selfridge Jr., and James Austin. The terpiece a crystal bowl filled with the affair took ‘place in the president’s flowers, with streamers of tulle in the suite, and the table was beautifully two colors reaching from the dome decorated in white and green, with a above to the corners where candle~ basket of white asters for a center- sticks ‘with pink shades were placed. piece, and streamers of white tulle The bride wore a handsome gown of twined with ferns extending from the white crepe de meteor with overdress basket to each Place and fastened of real lace, and a-long veil of tulle with boquets of the flowers for the bordered with Brussels lace and fastwith lilies of the valley.- Her | ° girla and boutonneires for the men, ened bouquet was a shower of bridesroses Covers were laid for 14. and lilies of the valley. The brideses *® * maid's gown was of old rosé-colored Another interesting affair et fe crepe de meteor combined with ci Hotel Utah yesterday was that given fon, and her bouquet was by Mrs. J. H. Prevol. The table had Chainey roses. The little. flower. girl for a centerpiece a large cluster of wore a dainty white gown with old American “Beauty roses, covers being rose ribbon and carried thePere in laid for 24 guests, Games followed, an American Beauty rose. The Ger‘the thostess being assisted by Mrs. N, trude Malone orchestra furnished Offer, and Mrs, H. Finkelstein. Prizes musie during the evening. rs. Mewere won by Mrs. B: Rosenblum, Canne oo assisted in receiving by Mrs. N. Offer and Mrs. M. Marks. Mrs. Mrs. EH. H. Dorman, and presiding in D. Levy and the guest prize to Mrs. the dining room was Mrs. A. T. Moon, J Green The ests included - Mrs Peon ke by Mrs. H. T. Sappington and Bber W. Hall, who took turns Hf. Finkelstein, Mrs. N. Offer, Mrs. Charles Offer, Mrs, E. Clatschko, Mrs. in tilts at the table and were asfollowing group of A. White, Mrs. J. Garfinkle, Mrs. D. sisted “by the bride: Miss Vivian Bernstein, J Findling, Mrs. A. Zwil- friends of the Klink, Miss Bess Crabtree, Miss Loura ling, Mr8. Baron, Mrs. J. Frumkin, Mrs. M.: Marks, Mrs. Chavies MeGillis, Morrison, Miss Ivy Forrester and Miss co é _ FooD What An ae D, a Learned. A prominent Ganieia physician went through a food experience which he makes The 6 FACTS. and Mrs. William The Apple Tr.ree’s Colebraitin NCE upon a time an apple tree 0 lived in a yard all by itself. Now maybe you think the tree was lone-. some—well maybe it was; but it didn’t know it, so it didn’t matter. For, you see the tree was so busy all the time— making shade and growing apples. that it never once thought of being lone- And then all of-a sudden the tree happened to think of the little green apples hung all over its branches. “TI might color those red and yellow and then I’d-look really gay and 1 could have a celebration all of my own.’ _ some. The tree was very peace about | keeping its leaves green and fresh. For several little children played under the that way learned many of their secrets. and plans for play. One week the ‘children did nothing Mrs. F. B. Eldredge. The After Vacation Péel - re- Your Discolored Skin Country Newspaaper THE SEMI-WEEKLYNEWS~Sreat Social and Personal News An interesting event of this evening ; ‘will be the marriage of Miss Mary Luman of this city.and Charles Louis Meyer of St. Louis at St. Mark’s cathedral, with Bishop F. S. Spalding and Dean Colladay officiating, Mrs. Charles Hdgar Cotton will act as matron of honor, Miss Phyllis Luman as maid of honor, and Miss Margaret McIntyre, Miss Geneva Savage, Miss Marie Odell and Miss Florence Halloran as brides- Mr.. was for. ut a. celebration was evidently a very nice sort of thing for the “children laughed and talked as they planned and were happy as larks all ay. “Never mind,” said the tree. to- itWomen returning from the seaside with browned, reddened: or freckled] self, “I’m, nét sorry—P il just keep on _ “Why you are decked up as if you complexions will be wise in immediatelistening and some time I'll hear what were having a celebration for me ly taking up the mercolized wax treatit is all about.” Weatherbeaten . skin, had best ne sure enough it did. pe prevailing color extended from the}: come off, for no amount of “beautify‘So the old apple tree worked its very One’ day a new. little ap came handeliers. The bride wore a gown 0 \ing”’ will ever make such skin -pretty It drew up rich moisture - to play under the apple tree. He hardest. wale crepe de meteor with. rea] lace to look at.. The .surest, safest, easiest from the ground and sent it flowing trimmings, and carried a shower of heard the talk -about the anne way. to. shed the despoiled cuticle is into the little green apples. It turned white roses and lilies of the valley. with the treatment suggested. celebration and all the plan Put the and twisted the many leaves so that the MANY THREE-QUARTER Her only ornament was a cameo wax on before retiriig, as you would “But what is a celebration?” asked warm sunny rays could kiss every apple. LENGTH MANTLES ARE: lavalliere, the gift .of the groom. cold cream, and rinse it off next mornthe new little neighbor. And then one day Jack Frost came hose assisting fh receelving were} ing with warm water. Minute particles TO BE WORN THIS ALL | “Now this is my chance,” said the (Mrs. F. B. Hildredge, mother, of the of scarf skin will peel off day by day, blowing from the north. “Dear me,’ old: tree gaily. So it listened very he exclaimed to the old apple tree, The military cape is all the rage. In bride; Mr. and Mrs. F. C. Carstensen, gradually showing the healthy, youthcarefully ohile the children explained ; “Why you are decked up as if you One ounce of mercofact, capes of all sorts are to be worn parents of the bridegroom: Mr. and ful-skin beneath. . “why a celebration is,—well it’s fixing H. Lamibert, Mr. ne tee TA. lized wax, obtainable at any drug store, were having a celebration for me.” this winter. A model that is simple H. White, Mr. and. Mrs. B. all up for some special time.” Dauffin. is enough to make any discolored or “Maybe I am,” chuckled the tree enough for general fall wear is illusAssisting in the dining as were spotted complexion ‘clear, white and “Oh, ho,” aid the tree, “T guess’. knowingly. Its action:is so gentle no trated here, It is fashioned of rough Miss Almira Hldredge, uurena Eld- satiny soft. _ if that’s. as a ce lebration is P’ll have And it shook itself in the teria the .face’ shows | _one of my o gray cloth with a round collar of the redge, Miss Leah Eldredge, Theresa injury: is ee ae and every red and —— apple smiled Lambert, Ceci] Carstensen, Arvilla no trace of its u cloth and Satin, i Carstensen and Gertrude Carstensen. So the ae we thought all day and ye smiled all day. Burning heat, ieee winds and it thong 2all ee in the world Punch was served oh the veranda iby dirt are ae wrinkle-makers that the Teen ts a Grasshopper daily use of the following astringentKenia White and Norma McCune, Mrs. S. Klein, Mrs. B. Rosenblum, nieces of the bride. The young couple tonic lotion at this season is highly adMrs, I Siegel, Mrs. J. B Flatow, Mrs. will be at home to their friends af- visable: Powdered sax olite, 1 oz., dis-| - Copyright 1914——Clara ingram Judson. M. Cohn, Mrs. A. Pappe and the hossolved in witch hazel, % pt. sed as a ter. September eg tess. . face bath this is a splendid wrinkle = * & and preventive—Advertise Rabbi ae fe performed. the remover Miss Helen Greenwood and Miss ceremony a yesterday marrying Miss ment. Margaret Merrill entertained the members of the Swan-Hendee: bridal party last evening at the Greenwood home, where a supper was served, The tables were effectively arranged with baskets of old fashioned. flowers. lighted the rooms an dtables. Those mother, ception room was decorated with snapdragons and. verbenas, and -the parlor with pink ana white asters, the bridal couple standing under a canopy of ferns, and flowers. The diningroom was in lavender, the table having a lace cloth over lavender satin, and Miss punch table ene marriage off iast “Shirts. That Are Shirts” rE HAVE. Shirts to suit the man who. daanda. shoulder fit, ample sleeve length, snug-fitting bosom, puckerless at waist line. : a evening was public. that of Miss Marie Clarkand J. How ‘It was my own experience that which’ took place at the first led me to advocate Grape-Nuts ard Wheeler, bride’s parents, Mr. and food and I also know, from: having ‘home of the Clark. ~ The’ Rev = I. Harry ‘Mrs, prescribed it to convalescents and oththe ceremony, Miss performed Goshen er-weak patients, that the food is a Mrs. Herman + Ocean! and Miss Sy- wonderful. rebuilder and restorer of Rena Paschall acting as owe Th, bil Walker entertained yesterday at nerve and brain tissue, as well as and Frank Richards as best man. rooms were beautifully decorated, this the former’s country home, Idlewild, in muscle. It improves the digestion and honor of Mrs. Hdgar Newhouse, about sick patients gain very rapidly, just parlor with red dahlias and hearts and 25 being present. The rooms were decpalms, the hall and stairway with evergreens, and the diningroom with pink orated with beautiful autumn flowers as I did in strength and weight. “J was in such a low state that I had ‘and white asters, the table having a gathered from the gardens. Tea was reed on the veranda from a table to give up my work entirely, and went basket of the flowers. for a centerpiece decorated in Japanese style including to the mountains of this state, but two tied with pink tulle, and a Cluny lace The lawn was a Japanese cloth, and baskets filled months there did not improve me; in eloth over pink satin with flowers, with trailing wistaria fact I was not quite as well as when I % pright with electric: globes and colored left home. lanterns, and refreshments were served vine. “My food did not sustain me and from small tables:decorated with as~‘ * * ¥ ters of various shades. The bride wore Mrs. Joseph Nibley entertained at a it became plain that I must change luncheon at the Country club yesterday} |Then I began to use Grape-Nuts food a gown of charmeuse satin in. lemon trimmed with lace and pearls, in honor of Miss Mary Luman, the ta- and in two weeks I could walk a mile shades ble being decorated with pink, white. without fatigue, and in five weeks re- and a pearl ornament in her hair. She turned to my home and practice, tak- carried a bouquet of bridesroses and and lavender asters and the place cards The bridesmaid’s ‘ing up. hard. work again. Since that lilies of the valley. having sketches e brides. time I have felt as well and strong.as Pore was of white crepe de chene and her bouquet, pink carnations, Mrs. Last night the veateihe elub was the T-ever did in my lfe“Ags a physician who seeks to help Clark was assisted in receiving by. her scene of a: delightful dancing party given by Miss Jane Darling in honor all sufferers, I consider it a duty to sister, ee D, W. Heaston, and niece, gents Punch was served Name given] irs. T. of her cousin, Miss Carolyn Bache, of make these facts public.” in an Sots adjoining the diningroom, by Postum Co.,* Battle Creek Mich, os Angeles, and Miss Mary Luman white- asters, Trial 10 days of Grape-Nuts, when decorated in pink and and Miss Lucile Purefoy. The rooms were decorated with autumn flowers, regular food does not seem to sustain Miss Mattie Clark and Miss Ludlow, Miss Retta Hathaway and ee works wonders. ‘“There’s a presiding. the diningroom being especially attrac- the Miss Jennie Gibson presided on the Reas tive with its prevailing golden shades, Musical selections were renLo ae in pkgs. for the famous little lawn. Mancing:- was enjoyed indoors and also dered during the evening by Miss Retta book,” “The ‘Road to Wellville. on the lawn, the Troubadours furnishHathaway and Miss Lucy Budd, the iver read the above letter? A new ing music. Punch was served on the one appears from time to time. They latter singing “The Rosary’ and ‘‘Oh veranda, with the following sister and Promise Me,” during the ceremony. nine, true, and full of buman cousins of the hostess presiding: Miss ar Mr, and Mra, Wheeler will beat home : Grace Darling, Miss Rosella Eilerbeck, interest.— Advertisement Friday $1.00 Shirts, 65c and Saturday HE next two days will be shirt days in the men’s furnishings When we marked these shirts for this’ sale “we closed our eyes to former prices. They come in ‘all: the popular colors, figures and stripe effects, and are made of the best quality percale and madras. | department. a 25 and.192 50 Shirts, ‘$1. 5 ANY men hold to the notion that a first-class shirt cannot be bought in a department | store: Banish that thought! Our shirts are equal in quality, fit and appearance to any on the market. You may buy cheaper shirts, but better shirts for equal or less money you Keith- O'Brien ‘cannot buy. This is the last of concessions on the following numbers Just inside State and Broadway The discounts here offered, considering in white goods. that the fall season is not yet fairly begun, are so liberal that it will pay you to buy now for future use— ‘INDIA LINENS—27 inches wide; regular . 15¢ quality; special tomorrow, ‘yard oes] 15¢ quality; special tomorrow, PERSIAN LAWNS—45 .50e quality; special OIG inches tomorrow, yard 25 e+ »- 29c¢ Aa cess wide; Friday ities Floor. 29¢ Large with turkish towels, stamped stitch design; regular 50c grade— and 1 ith scallop and cross- with. scallop and 35c Each 22%c and 35c Individual Underwear Fabrics Entrance September Stamped Goods 10c | PERSIAN LAWNS—32 inches wide; regular Co.+-Main’ Bargain Siete Plain White Cocds’ was pre-~ Beesley Kreb Tibballs Tett last evening "For a pridal trip and will be at home upon their ei after October 1 at 33 S. ‘Twelfth Another pa Opening Fall Sale of Men’s Shirts Turkish Towels, sitions cross-stitch design; suitable for baby bath towel. Regular 85¢ value— NAINSOOK—This is one of our well-known, dependable ‘ underwear fabrics, 36 inches wide, 12 yards to a piece; regular $1.50 value; special, ee Fe TE OR Oe e tomorrow, piece . .-...+ White pillow covers, stamped with floral and cross-stitch NAINSOOK—Soft design—easy for children to work. Regular -50c¢ value— 95c \ Pah finish, 86 inches wide, a bolt; regular $2.00 value;os ‘tomorrow, by the bolt one 12 yards tee Keith-O’Brien Co. eae | him parents, S S | & el: Sy), — =p confronts geescesscsssseeseess that bride’s BS a See ee ees caret a One Man’s Matrimonial 1914 Miss Eleanor Crawforea and John F, Wolff. The rooms. were bright with). Fitzpatrick were married | yesterday the fall: flowers, the diningroom being morning at St. Mary’s cathedral, Rev. especially attractive with its pink and d. J. MeNally officiating. The bride white asters, and tulle. The bride: wore ‘| Was attended. by Miss Annie Fitza going-away gown. of blue broadcloth patrick and Miss Ruth Killen, and the with hat to match, and carried a bougroom ‘by Martin Brennan. Miss Nora quet of pink roses. She was attended Gleason presided at the organ and -by her sister, Mrs. Alfred Oppenheim, Miss Cassandra Wood sang a nuptial who: wore a gown of pale*green charhymn. The bride wore a going-away meuse and, carried pink roses. Miss costume of blue cloth and hat of blue Elva Wolff another sister was bridesvelvet, and carried a shower ‘bouquet maid, and her gown was of white voile. of lilies of the valley and orange blos- She carried white asters. Alfred Opsoms, the latter sent by an aunt from penheim was best man, and the FitzCalifornia, for the (bride. Miss Fitz- gerald orchestra furnished music. Mr. patrick wore a gown of pale yellow}: and Mrs. Jacobs leave today for erepe de chene, with lace trimming ee where they will make their and a hat of the same.color. . Mis ome Killen wore a costume of blue silk se &8 # jcrepe de chene and a black velvet The official board of the Woman's + hat. Both bridesmaids carried bouquets Home Ind association met this the ceremony 4 morning to discuss the proposition of jof pink roses. After wedding breakfast was served at the joining the state federation, and also home Pie the bride’s parents, Mr. and | to plan for the year’s wor k. The presiMrs..T. C. Crawford, the five: small dent, Mrs. Olive Havens, presided. .tables having baskets of pink and es * & white nis and: the pride’s table Mr. and Mrs. David H. Cannon and having streamers of pink and , left Mr. Munn Cannon will leave this week white doe the bridal couple later for an eastern trip and will re- for Washington, where the latter and also Mr. David Cannon will enter colturn here to make their home. lege. They will previously visit Miss Leone idence and Hyrum | New York. et a Carstenson were among yesterday's being]: Mrs. W. W. Armstrong has returned bridal couples, the Seperagate, ; performed in the temple by Prest. A. from an eastern trip. . Lund; and a reception held in the evening at the home of the bride’s | y oe 10 Jeanette: Wolff and Solomon Jacobs, the affair taking place at the home of the 20 to Floor. 23c Each 23c Each See display in State Street Window. 01 DO |