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Show + Rape Savvy: 14 Pointers to Take into the Spring Break Arena Bonnie Shiffler / HEX Writer It's Spring Break in Utah, not Hunger Games, and the odds are not in your favor. With parties up, and inhibitions and vigilance down, it's important to be aware of your personal safety. Rape is the only violent crime that occurs at a higher rate in Utah than anywhere else in the nation, and most assaults—over 80 percent—go unreported. Statistics put one in five women at risk for rape in Utah during her lifetime. In a culture predominated by ideals of sexual purity, many young men and young women are completely unprepared to protect themselves from assault. Those who are assaulted frequently blame themselves, and are plagued by major depression. First, what is sexual assault? According to the Utah Health Department, it is defined as "unwanted sexual contact or attention resulting from force, threats, bribes, manipulation, pressure, or violence... [these include] rape, attempted rape, domestic and dating violence." Next, what can you do to protect yourself? These are the things I teach my teen daughters. They are the things I wish my mother had taught me. 1. The Rape and Sexual Assault Crisis 8. It CAN happen to you, regardless of Line in Utah is 1-888-421-1100. Put it who you are or how you live. in your phone. Now. 9. If it happens, say "No!" This may seem 2. Rapists are rarely strangers. Between like a no-brainer, but many victims don't. 80-93% of victims in Utah know their Even if you don't fight back (which may attackers. be best for your safety) saying no means you did not consent. Obviously, for those 3. Alcohol and other drugs are often who are assaulted under the influence of used to incapacitate victims into drugs or alcohol this isn't always an submission. If you plan to drink over option, and to those victims, you Spring Break, pour your own beverages shouldn't feel responsible when you don't and maintain awareness of your drink object. Unwanted assault is still rape. at all times. Limit your consumption, and never accept a drink from someone else, 10. Once you can, go to a safe place. even if you know the person. 11. Even though you will want to, DON'T 4. Drinking games put you at distinct risk shower. Crucial evidence against your for being assaulted. assailant may be washed away. 5. Stay in groups. If you begin to feel 12. Call 9-1-1. It's hard, but reporting uncomfortable from the attention of one an assault is the first step in regaining or more individuals, let others in your control of your life. company know. Then leave in the company of one or more trusted friends. 13. Remember, it is NOT your fault if you are assaulted. It doesn't matter how 6. Jogging or walking alone leaves you vulnerable. you are dressed, or how you act. Rape is an act of aggression and control over another person. Victims do nothing to 7. Don't listen to your iPod while you are warrant sexual attack out alone. Now that you know, go, and have the time of your life this Spring Break. Keep your wits about you, stay focused on your safety, and bring the balance of the odds back into your favor. HEX / VI + |