Show i ri I I I I r h i ti y t "Sorry—you'll have to wait — today is the day the week I put Drum in all the drains " of Jink’s best friend is Drano— when it comes to getting rid of dangerous sewer germs that lurk in every drain Those germs breed in muck that liquid disinfectants can’t budge But Drano’s churning boiling action dissolves the muck keeps drains Some husbands and wives count a quarrel as a definite gain if it resolves their differences and helps to keep the same disagreement from happening again and Make one day a week Drano day Put Drano in every drain for about a penny a drain Won’t harm septic tanks Makes ’em work even better Get Drano now at any grocery drug or hardware store here or in ' Canada germ-fre- e free-runni- Tkn’i Mtyng ng Etc Drano fa ItMp Quarrolo 4 I I: n Mat fri numlwj I and Military I 1 nOMICTI or TMK DKACKKTT COMPANY CINCINNATI OHIO u “And tell them always use Windex Spray" dust-collati- ed “Maybe I’m not the easiest man in the world to live with But in the last year I’ve had to do a quieje change from lone wolf to house dog and the house dog still howls But howling is better than snarl- ng oz S upkfc r :r n K -- rv trif 80T NrN & oaty thrifty It ing and sulking isn’t it?” They see It differently ail afkac gtati donnore aaMatdl A Everybodys crazy about when Amy refuses to talk all her anger and mine too' just keep on boiling inside “Last month Amy wouldn’t go to the company party with me I couldn’t figure out why and felt foolish going without her A week later she told me I was selfish and inconsiderate How could I expect her to go to the party in the same dress she’d worn every time we’d gone out since we were first engaged? Now couldn’t she have told me she needed a new dress? I don’t think she’ kept quiet because she was afraid I’d get mad She just likes to make me feel like a heel “Take this baseball business I’d much rather have her come right out and say she’s tired of ball games instead of having her suffer through the game like a martyr window-cleanin- g Who wants drudgery when you can do the job in half the time with Wfndex Spray! Swish! Spray it on! Whish! Wipe it off! Windows mirrors all glass surfaces shine sparkling bright in a jiffy They stay bright longer too— it leaves no waxy film— no streaks ! Windex Spray’s so thrifty in the handy 6-size Even more economical in the big 20-o- z refill size Get Windex Spray today at your grocery drug or hardware store Also sold in Canada old-fashion- dazy New DAZY Spray Ak Freshener banishes household odors insumly Makes i home air fresh as a daisy! Costs only 49c with reuseable sprayer at your grocery it drug or hardware store Made by the makers of Drano and Windex - !t The Ferrises’ problem lies more in the way they handle their difficulties than in the difficulties themselves One of their major troubles is that angry words have such different meanings for them They could come close to resolving their conflict by discussing at a peaceful time their attitudes toward arguing Both the Ferrises need to recognize that while Will’s J u v 6 famxt wroar magazine novemee tVlajy Moira I 27 1935 Your Marriarjo ! quick temper is a hindrance to constructive solutions Amy’s silent sulking is even more of a stumbling block Facing their shortcomings honestly together would help this couple settle their angry differences Will could help Amy see why her withdrawn behavior doesn’t honestly help things and perhaps he could see why his anger so alarms her Like many other young couples today they may find help in discussing their problems with a qualified marriage counselor if their own efforts don’t improve matters Will’s violent outbursts are not the answer to differences of opinion but they may be less costly to his emotions and his marriage than Amy’s tight rein on her feelings And Amy’s headaches her forgetfulness of small chores that would increase her husband’s comfort are a subconscious expression of the anger she fears to vent in words Of course the amount of quarreling a marriage can stand varies from couple to couple Some marital relationships seem none the worse for frequent spats while others are endangered Luckily many spouses accommodate themselves to the needs or desires of their partners when interests clash hoses is yosr quarrels When a quarrel is inevitable at least try to make it a fair one Be honest about Be the point you are trying to make It’s not justifiable to put your spouse in the wrong just to humiliate him (When (Continued) Ferris refuses to be frank about her own wishes or insists on a six o’clock dinner she is doing just that) If you must quarrel stick to the point and don’t bring up accumulated grievances your spouse’s background or Amy previous mistakes Some couples consider quarrels a gain if through them they resolve their conflict and can plan to avoid similar trouble in the future That old advice about never letting the sun set on a quarrel has much to recommend it You can resume your usual friendly relationship if you don’t let pride stand in the way of your making the first advance A good marriage isn’t built merely by avoiding quarrels A general atmosphere of companionship devotion and love can stand occasional strain If you truly care for your marriage partner you will try to help him be his best self and you will have courage to be yourself and face disagreements honestly Then you will not be afraid of occasional conflicts for you’ll know that there are worse things in marriage than quarrels Your union will be able to rise above them If you pay more attention to strengthening your marriage than to proving yourself right your quarrels will be less frequent less sharp and less important And even when they are unavoidable you can turn them to good account in smoothing your future course together along life’s highway I |