Show Love Is Art THE OGDEN (UTAH) STANDARD-EXAMINEWEDNESDAY EVENING APRIL 21 1948 6A Training in Youth Urged lee-tuer- es Paula G aged 28 has Case two young children "Dr Crane I worry a great deal because I feel I am not a successful wife and mother" she announced t the beginning of our interview "For I don't seem to be as affectionate as other women One of my neighbors has criticized me because I don't even kiss my children goodnight nor farewell when they leave for school "And I'm not affectionate with and my husband either I love him also my two children but I Just don't show my affection the way other wives do "Our marital relationship has never been enjoyable to me either so I avoid it I don't know whether this would have anything to do with my disposition but I don't think so for I was never affectionate before marriaasv "Dr Crane is it possible for me in Miltivate affection so that I can become a more satisfactory wife and motherT Train Tone Emotioaa Affectionateness is largely a matter of habit Even the act of kissing is an innovation which human be to courtship ings have added Animals and some primitive races of mankind Just rub noses as a sign of mutual interest but the kiss is a human invention Much of our sexual behavior is also a product of social custom and convention A woman of normal health can "be a frigid wife or a most affectionate one depending chiefly upon how she has been educated Moreover this training in affection far antedates her wedding For example if she grew up in a home where there were few evidences of nhvsical affection such as kisses between parents or between parents and their children men sne may De educated to a lack of these external evidences of love Were Indians Affectionate? 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The best needlecraft catalog ever published with 101 Illustrations of the finest embroidery crochet knitting home decoration toys accessories Printed in this book are FREE instructions for weaving on huck toweling — the newest hobby! hit-or-mi- ss Old-Fashion- ed be a very abrupt routine process devoid of much coquetry and courtship or it may be a very complex affair consisting of formal introductions billets-dou- x candy and flowers theater dates and the like In like manner some people are trained to gulp down their food in wolfish fashion with little attention to the formalties of dinner etiquette Others are connoisseurs of good foods They admire and relish the appearance of the tasty dishes then inhale the pleasant aromas and finally taste each dish in an appreciative manner It all depends largely on how we are trained including our early childhood attitudes A frigid wife may thus be one who as a child had her interest in men reduced by tales of a soured divorcee or a fearful spinister aunt Affection ia a Habit "Act the way you'd like to be and soon you'll be the way you act" is a precept I have presented in provious case records It is very true regarding affection and lovt If you will go through the motions and recite the lines which are expected of you then you ultimately become caught up in the emotions which are thereby induced This is one reason why movie actors fall in love with the actresses playing opposite them They have gone through the love making until they actually feel the mood and attraction of the heroine If a mother trains herself to show some affection to her children as by kissing them goodnight and goodbye she not only will ultimately enjoy the process but will thereby prepare them for their later adult emotional life For all children should have some external symbols of maternal affection Send for my "Test for Good Par ents" enclosing a stamped envelope plus a dime (Copyright by the Hopkins Syndicate Inc) SO GREYHOUND TO HELLDORaDO LAS VEGAS MAY iays 13-1- Rtaa the article with tbii title Corvmtt magazine F R HOLDEN 2501 965 ft Grant Ave fer UNION PACIFIC 6 M April Aqeer Phone 5573 STAGES Highway Mishaps Cost $4010650 SALT LAKE CITY April 21 AP) — The Utah Safety council reported yesterday that Utah residents suffered losses totaling as42 the results of the state s D do: £ i i li dun: auuiucms ij 0000 in inin The estimated loss includes wages losses medical hospital burial expenses insurance charges and actual property damage ahjew SW The woman who fails to respond to friendly overtures from people seems old no matter how young she is Don't allow any tendency to repel friendliness develop into a trait which can rob your personality of its youthful appeal as well as one of its liveliest attractions The trouble with many women who give out with a tepid response or actually freeze up when amiable overtures are made to them is they they don't know how to respond Yet any woman can learn how She can force herself to respond She can learn to obey natural instincts She can begin by forgetting g a very man and one a million for his goodness and in kindness He is now 55 years old and his full week's pay is $85 I love him very much and we are very happy together except for this one thing: I have a lady friend living with me who thinks I feed my husband too well She says if she were married to him she would cut down on the amount of butter and eggs and other expensive food that he eats She thinks he is a R-28- 7: Wk ML NBA Staff Writer By Dorothy Dix Dear Miss Dix: My husband is By Dr George W Crane 50 ANNOUNCEMENT NEW UTAH ICE DELIVERY t I don't feel that way about him He is six feet two and a perfect rail and I feel that he needs nourishing food Don't you think I am right in giving my wonderfully good kind husband all the butter he wants and at least a dozen eggs a week for his breakfast? — Anxious Wife Answer: Indeed I do Evidently your lady friend who believes in keeping a man on a starvation diet has had little experience with the masculine sex' or else she would know that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach The old adage that says that the best way to retain a husband's affection ia to feed the brute is truth founded on Every man who gets married expects his wife to feed him on beef steak and onions and pies like Mother used to make just as much as he expects her to show him tenderness and love If you will think of the happy homes you have known you will recognize that all founded on the same they were formula — the husband was a good provider and the wife a cracker-jac- k cook Marital Mistake The wives who are too lazy and to give their husbands good trifling or who pinch the grocery meals money to buy themselves finery make a fatal mistake They are literally killing the goose that lays the golden egg because for one thing it cuts down a man's earnd ing capacity for him to be half-feand for another thing a hungry man is always cross and surly and hard to live with So don't begrudge your husband his butter and eggs and pork chops or whatever The laborer is worthy of his hire Dear Miss Dix: I am married to a good man who works hard and is very kind to me and I have been very happy But a problem has come up in our lives that I do not know how to solve I have a young sister who seems to have fallen violently in love with my husband She smothers him with kisses when she comes to visit us She sits on his lap and kisses him over and over again and throws her arms around him when sheem-is which is very leaving All of me for barrassing I am not Jealous but I think if my husband was half the man I have always thought he was he would not encourage her What can — Bewildered Sister I do about it? is Answer: Brother-in-lawita common complaint among quitebobby-soxeI get many letthe ters from wives whose homes have been broken up by little sisters' pursuit of their husbands And the tragedy is the result of a mixture of propinquity and the ages of the girl and the man which make them both vulnerable The girl is at the age when she is just sloshing over with romance and when she must have something masculine to vent her affections upon All the boys she knows are still kids and so in looking about for somebody to love she hits on brother-in-laHe is youngish and g and there is more kick in having a crush on him than there is on Tommy or Johnny who is at And brother-in-lathe age when he thought he was done with being a wolf is surprised and delighted to find that he has not lost his sex appeal and before he knows it they have cooked up a pretty mess of scandal The wise play in the situation Is for the wife never to let her husband find out that her suspicions have been aroused but to go to her parents with the story and get them to send little sister off to some boarding school the farther the better She will get over her infatuation when she meets an older group of boys than she has been runthe pipsqueaks brother-in-lawill ning with And recover his sanitv when he is no longer fed on sultry kisses Dear Dorothy Dix: I am a young man of 22 in the midst of my education I want to marry a nice amount young lady who has s large of money Please advise — J Y D Answer: What price tag do you a put upon yourself? Naturally girl who was buying a husband would like to know how much he would cost her and whether he was a bargain or not (Released by Bell Syndicate Inc) rock-botto- m is rs w good-lookin- many of the stuffy rules of be havior which govern her reactions Here's a good test of your ability to respond Suppose some impulsive friend or person who would like to be friendly calls you up on a nice spring day whan you are busily engaged in housework and suggests joining her for a stroll in the park Is there enough spirit of youthful adventure dormant in your personality to be sparked into activity 'by this suggestion? Or are you so hedged in by routine or concepts of conventional behavior that you respond with a polite "No thank you"? If you refuse such an invitation you can be sure that your impulsive friend won't be inclined to ask you again That in itself may not be cause for worry But what should be cause for worry is that you may be proving your inability to respond by such a reaction There is something to worry about Is Age Symptom Feed Hubby Good Foods Woman Told Saving Ways George W Crane's are featured ever KL at eleven --thirty a m dally Please address Dr George W Crane Hopkins Syndicate Mel-lo- tt Indiana Dr They're Preparing lor Parts in School Play R SERVICE AVAILABLE TO OGDEN USERS n in the Washington school will present "The Little Shepherd of Kingdom Come" tonight at school auditorium Above are four students who will take part Don Parker Darrell Nilson Shirley Barnhart and Bonnie Jean Starr "Little Shepherd of Kingdom Come" will be presented by the speech department of Washington n school tonight at in school auditorium the to pertaining Signed letters not more than one page or 100 words or Directing the play will be Mrs treatment Portia not to disease diagnosis H Douglas personal health and hygiene envelope will be answered by Dr Brady it a stamped cast includes Don Parker The Is enclosed etc Mall to: Dr William Brady 26& El Camino South Bob Critchlow Julia Liddell Darrell Nilson Shirley Beverly Hills California r Barnhart Aron Thedel Bonnie Jean Starr Shari Roberts Uvonne The Perplexing Problem of Madsen Douglas Holmes Elaine Pruritus is a medical term for refuse to specify what too fre-th- e Straw and Francis Barrett skin without ver--! quent means — you can't snoot me itching of the custom of liv to worry about Mother is all right sible lesions such as rash rough- about it) nlus climate of — it would be foolish to waste the ing in the Sahara-lik- e ening inflammation or weeping as the in eczema for example great American indoors most food just because the glass is Millions of the best people have of the time plus the coddling of the broken some of them "try" one body with excessive clothing most Enlarged Tonsils in Young Children pruritus Advised to have my or another suggested by a cas- of the time contribute to a great thing ual remark a testimonial or may- deal of general pruritis such as son's tonsils removed immediately Plelse inform me which doctor in winter itch hap a newspaper health column bath prurituscauses removes them by the electroof regional genSome of them actually consult a Frequent or a eral or casual pruritus are the coagulation (diathermy) method physician —not a curbstone medicines the sufferer is (Mrs A C) lapel consultation or one staged ina in the of habit Answer — That method is not ap of using — such as an informal way at the club but acetani-lid- e plicable in children under six or ofbarbiturates the in one aspirin doctors the $10 regular in numerous seven years of age I would not (the pain-killfice — and being by now accustomed to blind guesswork they nostrums the dumb layman takes recommend the major operation even accept for their money the for "colds" headache fatigue or (tonsilectomy) for merely enlargedI tonsils and or adenoids Instead the spieler suggests) doctor's guess as to the nature whatever A pamphlet on Pruritus will be would recommend either radium and cause of the trouble and what y if you ask for it in writing or tonsillotomy if the conthey should do although the doc- sent tor has not bothered the patient inclose a stamped envelope bearing dition obstructs breathing oris imthe or himself to make an examina- your address and omit clippings pairs hearing Tonsillotomy On instantaneous clipping off of the A few of the millions of or other extraneous matter tion Rasuffereres eventually steel the same conditions you may obtain obstructing portion of tonsil pruritus treatment is slower If you dium or themselves to it and obtain medi- a pamphlet on Foot-Itc- h for both pamphlets inclose ten but painless and safe— it causes cal treatment That is they choose ask shrinking of the enlarged tonsils a physician and then remain under cents and or adenoids the physician's treatment until Questions & Answers reA or the relief physician Dog for Every Boy Mother insists on they get up the fers them elsewhere or asks for contents after a glassscooping We of food has plan to get our jar counsel been broken andf feeding the food to son a dog (S M R) waste a is In the first place it us from another jar How serious Answer — Do not get him a dog of good money whether the fee could broken glass You be if any of it until his seventh birthday use to or cents ten berries is fifty is swallowed in food? ask what kind of dog Is best Any or follow any line a medicament kind the boy prefers (M L E) of treatment prescribed by a doctor Answer — Too remote a possibility (Copyright 1948 John F Dille Co) who has not given the sufferer a thorough examination A common cause of regional becomes most anpruritus which noying after the individual retires at night is pinworm infestation which occurs in adults as well as in children Another common cause of re- gional pruritus is the fungus that iivn commonly causes iuut athlete's foot ringworm — the fungus being transferred from the feet by the fingers or nails of eight-fiftee- Dr Brady's Health Column self-address- eight-fiftee- B BKR iSHrkjH A ObsbBbW J"$p8SB dg tni BBS ebmSBbT ed Peg-Mol- as Pruritus five-year-o- ice in the state has been For years the finest distill manufactured by the Utah lee and Storage Co at Ogden new delivery tracks Now we are offering s new service courteous drivers regular deliveries to grocery stores commercial and home customers assures even size and weight Each UTAH SCORED ICE block ia carefully marked before leaving the plant ed-wa- ter ld - method separates oar Ice making it extra fine suitable for commercial vegetable and store Icing medium exactly sized for founThis is tain use: coarse or mixed water-propackaged in sanitary b 25 and packed In 12'2-l- b bags Can be carried in available car Special packs your for hotels and night clubs ° TRUCK ICING EITHER BLOCK OR CRUSHED ICE AT OUR DOCKS 50-l- leak-pro- of of er X-ra- X-r- UTAH ICE CUBES crystal clear exactly the right size for summer Also drinks cooling NEW UTAH CRUSHED ICE side-effec- ts d deliveries in any quantity absolutely guaranteed because we have supplemental ice manufacturing facilities tat Salt Lake and Provo making a total daily capacity of 455 tons WE WON'T RUN OUT OF ICE! call for UTAH ICE New methods of When you need ice handling and packing keep it absolutely clean Year-roun- ay OGDEN 8531 three-year-o- ld UTAH ICE AND STORAGE CO fm—mm —— mm inn OGDEN UTAH i— — —— Mrr-i- ueimu-tophytos- is the patient A third common cause of regional hemorrhoids pruritus is internal (blind piles) fistula fissue or inflammation or constant irritation of crypts or tags within the rectum Excessive bathing especially the habit of daily wallowing in hot water and the too frequent application of soap to the body (I w GRIFFIN SELF-POLISHI- NG LIQUID WAX w quick and easy shines BUCK TAN BMHVN UK riipi IB Myjf mm You are assured tp? 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