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' And o the mother had ina thousand ways throughher voice her hidden grief her tense efforts to be brave sy Jap snipers and they're deader than anything" mother might say in horror "J Oinior how can you play such blood- child can handle terrifying facts about this war better than we can What he cannot handle at all is our unspoken fears and evasions when we do not Jell him the truth Far from hiding anything from him we are merely- telling him that something so unspeakably menacing is in the offing that we can't even talk about it Remember sex in the twenties? 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They have never seen any The American child too knows exactly how his mother stands on these questions He has seen the way she talks to the delivery boy Does she become a totally different person when she entertains her husbands boss? Does she treat her child one way when she is alone with him and another a friend comes to call? When he knows all that and a thou- sand other things about' what makes his m6ther tick tnen a child knows she feels about the basic issues of thoiksv war She doesn't have to tell him Hasn't he heard her say: "That's not fair! Pick on solneone your ONVII size" Or: !!Stand up for yourself! He hit you first" Without saying a word 'about war his mother has already taught him all he needs to know about fair play noncase of aggression and attack - thirsty games!" A wiser mother her 'What he is trying to son's xvords tell her is that Daddy may he gone but another hero is here inthe back yard capable of taking his place So when Junior knifes two Jap snipers she may say "Well done Sergeant!" or she may burst into tears But she w'ill not at this stage of our civilization- - insult his manhood by s calling it a game is what probably the THIS brings up m t baffling of all war problems to many parents: a new twist on how to love the sinner while hating the sin In other words how to praic Daddy's function in the xvar and still teach the children that war is 'Nvrong If war is wrong how can Daddy be right? But this problem turns out to te another problem Of words which evaporates as soon as we really accept and understand the fact that children do learn by our words- but by our un'1)"k" altitudes' For example how is the young gen7 eration of fascists beingsbrought up in Japan and Germany? Little Hans and " back" come got two I ry day-nurse- "bravery" concealinr fears and resentments - tight-lippe- 1 mind-readin- "Well fella you are a brat and I'm plenty sick of washing your diapers and boiling your bottles but you're sort of nice" iI The object of this address smiles and gurgles happily not being concerned with his mother's wdrds but only with her tone of voice her facial expression and a hundred other little clews to her state of mind If you doubt the plausibility of this reaction try advancing fiercelyl upon an infant and shouting "You adorable baby!" Unless you are a very poor actor the baby addressed in such loving voids will puckerup his face and get ready for a loud argument 1 1 4 d maternal Overabundance of silent of a mother produces jitters and fears in a child but a war victim nonetheless ENOUGH TO FIGHT OLT1 ' weo look How will this affect them? NVell British experience has shown that the children can take it if you can While a father is a pleasant and valuah:e addtion to a baby's life his absence daes not react directly on the baby but reacts on him through the attitude If she is constantly worried and upset that will upset him If she is secretly resentful at being left aione with a baby on her hands even though she is not aware cf it herself that resentment Nvil I be translated int') a certain roughness a certain impatience in hcr handling of him that an infant 'senses with uncanny For a child that is the perception of insecurity beg:nning 4 little paradox may seem aim- but actually It is one of the sic tenets of child care constantly bain danger of being forgotten Particurememlarly in wartime it iis ber that children under live 'do not hear your words they sense your feelings By the time a child is 10 he has been trained end educated tto respond to words apart from the emotion behind them but in the process he usually has to give up his original g Too priceless gift of much of this type of frankness would of course make him rather unpopular The impossibility of deceiving children by words about war or anything else is neatly illustrated in a story from Anna Freticl's A work in England girl had been "spared" the news of her father's death by being told that he was in Scotland The mother then proceeded to keep a very stilt upper lip about the whole thine which naturally frightened the child But sne finally confronted her mother with the truth: "I know all about my father tie has been killed and he will never ay day-to-d- Nor T IIIS pie rs old-fashio- crop AMEIIICA its biggest Some five - g i - -- I I - :- s ' - : - 1 '1 - a I - x ' e' ' r - '''' - J - ' ' 1- " - i - - OP - 1 I ! 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