Show EkU 4j -1 4 V k k ill rAi ro lel I 47- ki 77 l'''' i 1 t: '''‘t1 1n It ' 34 a 1- 1 - There are countless reasons and usually money is found not to be one of these s mak 1 e4 : Fo lace ' Li' i f f 7 1 ! 0 - k ''''') L N) c" 1 - ty I egrt of at I - '011tt ting part b: gue iya01 Ver a t N ra tht 005 11 W ' '' ! 4 '''' ' 'k - it i e ' ! i f r' -- 4- ' 'II - ' (1 ' ' 'i V HOI L Si SU DC ' ' i i 7 :1 ' 1 ' ' '1'1' I 1 trj- N Llftt '11- - ' 1 - IN T L MY 'Oft BIE IT "' II mothers realize the damage they are doing to their sons' lives" MANY bachelors want -- to marry but keep on postponing it until they the desire for marriage The gi eat Se freedom that exists between the sexes today has much to do vitith this state of a ff a Ira 7 ) - -- - - r '' I ' s e77 '' - men have a strong need to get settled and make a borne" continued the psychologist "It is tho most driving instinct of the animal and the man It is always because something happens which retards that normal development which causet a man to remain single" In order to change this situation several things are necessary in Dr Daniels' opinion First there must be much more contact in the adolescent years between fathers and their sons There must also be more male This will teachers in the schools bring about a more normal adjustment between the sexes The schools and colleges hould also pay much attention to the social and emotional development of bur boys and girls The education of the girl in particular should be so planned that itdoreosienoitndliisfteractthhateroffroamwhiefo i ----e- t - '4 t 0 I -- 4 1 4110-- )° ''''''07 - ' g') - 445647 s - "0 ( 0 er ''4 - ' 4 ev e 1 ' I il - 0 "- ' vr' r 1 146744i Lpaót 11 ' t "7 il - $001 encourage '''( --- Ae 4 A' r e i eatrz----- er - 1 0 ' ' ) 7ie-'''- ' 'I t 't - t ') 1 ' t l- ' - 1 I '''' ' ' -- - ' 4 4 ''''"1" '' r - -- - - e - - 00 a " a o r '' ' - - '4-A-- - ge r - - r ' 'N '' is - - ' ! 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' 11 (- 1 : - i - ' f I ' a 'A 10111ln 'itito change in their relahomhip has roused rowatetahle havoc In the flI roles where place the and WOMen thp thy 1111111rd fonowed the linen that nature decteed It is how the lave girw and strengthened "We see the SMYle ritteril in the animal and bird kingdom It's the female who darts asvay and the male ‘kho follows In swift pursuit Among savage tribes the young males undergo trials and- - compete fin-- the females The latter then accept or reject them "It's nature's plan that the man does the courting The woman makes the choice based on his fitness as a lover and mate Shes the one who is respomible for the welfare and continuation of the race Until she makes her choice she 'shyly retreats ao that the man is more sticreil to show his love for hen" 'y - - ' 1 '- - i b - I b 1) - et)- 41 t ‘t ost :- - -- 1 4'17 k t k '0 '14 ' A - t‘t oe - -r--- 4ft 476 it' 4::A1‘"?' d - 4 - i ‘1t N 44t - 04-11A ?- - - t- -tt atut in business is sisn'to blame ily Ile wants to feel he's the rghter thia every day" for msn's deet eased intereq in multi "I have eases mony Tills has led to a degtsdation pointed out Dr Daniels': "A typical an wants to one is that of a young lawyer who met of trwculine ptide A 1)elieve bitmelf the head of thts jam I woman with a good Income Ile (EvaryWrok liingmittne—Printad In U It A ) ITICI) 1 !::' ' 1 competition betwecn nun THE A - ' ' 'WHATEVER we think rif this arrangement there's no doubt that law it follows a deep psychological which satisfies the instincts of both the man and the woman "When a Woman Rums pursuer thelefore she's at a great disadvantage She's not in her normal sphere and she doesn't know how to t act or how to choose - She usually edoks her own g(iose by being ton ag In the sione way when the grussive MITI is the hunted one he becomes awkward alid timid anA tends to run 'The fact that the modern girl doesn't keep herself aloof and is gen rrous dh her charms hiss made her lose much of her allure for torn "Her name is tossed about and there's a great deal of maseulme gos- t man doesn't i sip about her Naturally le1 she would make a faithful wife or have any great loyalty to him "Even in this modern age a man still judges women by the old double standard Ile has no hiiih opinion or feeling of obligation to the girl who is flee Ile wants one who is chaste" i ! fp! I - COMA : ''' - The reason for altar shyness' may go back to childhood when boys are taught and disciplined almost entirely by women When they grow up they are willing to make love but not vs Mina to get Itas any situation where they may have to obey "In order to perpetuate du institu4 bon of marriage" explained Dr Daniels "two actors are necessary And the woman isn't doing herpatt in the play "Today wonwn go after the man and bombard him with invitations and attentions They call for tom in their ears and bring hini Mane and even foot the bills This Man no longer finds it hecessary to exert himself 10 ' it 7 X ifI ' V t 1- self-contr- ol -- i ' ' 44 - -- - te " ''‘-- - ''--4- s ' ' 1 " - - as I 1 ' 4"--- ti - -- - 4 N I' ' - 0 -- - ' 1 - LA '1 14 :' 4 - 4 4- ' 1 1411:::: ''i v nt - -- i it:'' k i '' i t 1 4 i r ' 1 ' ' te40'"6-r- ' ' ' 11' r ‘'':' ' ' ' 4iNIEN must secapture their role of 41 i leadership particularly- in their contacts with women Only in that way will both be satisfied "Women should see to it that they don't usurp any of men's prerogatives Unless a man exerts himself no matter what the cost may be to him art essential- part of his manhood Is destroyed For this reason a man should welcome the tasks of life and never allow a woman to court him or support him "Young men and women should also in their relations exercise with each other Today they are cheapening love so that it has no meaning There's no inspiration no spur for marriage "When a man has a high sense of the value of a woman complementing his life he'll want to seek her out and marry her The happiest lives are led by men and women In some kind of intimate companionship where their existence is on a high level of correlated give and take "Men and Women must learn to co operate and not compete Each fulfills the attributes of the other A growing interweaving psychological and physiological relationship is the Ideal state " ' k' ''- - i ' ' " - - - - - - -- - '1 - - S c -- e ' - --- ' 1 )i married" - 0 v--'' it - -- - : t 3:1''f: ii 'I' ri ' r - I 08 ' - r i if' k 1 ' ' - par young people to marry" said Dr Daniels "The deferment of marriage means that they are wasting their natural courtship years in irresponsible affairs "The enforced celibacy is the cause of many of our social ills In the last few years there has been a high rate of nervous breakdowns neuroticism insanity and suicides among the un- l 11 -' 'i ': it ‘ - If tt 1 4 - ' t ' 1k Le t t 'MOST -- '' ' ' : 11 r - '' I I -- ' - break up the marriage ''He needed to be strong And he could only be so by learning to stand on his own feet There couldn't be any happiness In their relationship Its very basis was irritating to each partner It robbed each of his instinc- tive role 1"' j ''' - ' wlei:: I ahnityntnignietohedro e bthliittlgtso srliffieereto i 11 - c -- — - ' - - - ' A- ' - '41----- ' i thebenenosnmanadrribeedgetnortotwbo k' yfr A i - :- ' ( 11 - o ' t 4 4r- -- — 1 '14 ' ri1 v 4 t 4fr 00' : is the reason ON the other hand this close association between mother and on ha 5 caused many men to develop a mother fixation There are all grades and degrees of the men but they all have a certain emotional attachment to the mother which prevents them from marrying any ether woman The men aren't aware of this of course But you will often have sucti a man complain that he can't find the ideal girl No one he meets is suitbble ''t had the case of one man In his Jute forties who owns a chain of moUnit picture 'rs I I Is mother died a year befote While she lived he had never spent one night away from home If he had to he awav for the day he'd always drive back no matter how late to order to be with her lle was engaged several thiles but each time he hroke tii engagement svanted to be flee (if his mother but found he could not Ile needed her pampering and idolatry "There are any number of women who take pride in being the companions of their sons They may be divorced or wddowed and they tranNfer all their love and devotion to the son It l lmost ilnitosible to make these k:ket - -- ') IT -- -' fr 1 3 z i ct '':i ( - de - - ' -- : 1 1'1 -' i' 4 ' t N r1 48:10 --01 o''' - 4 ') '''- o - years sullen His law work was no longer important to h imw He had a strong a s constantly being male ego that injured by his wife "He then began to spend money on other women—her money It was his way of getting back at the woman who done for him what he should hhaative done for himself "The wife began to resent supplying so much without getting a proper return She had a strong feminine de- - i It ' I- - g 4 ' tli RIG' t - J TE"' - ewYheilnaci 1 ) J a - why we have Sc) much exaggeration in sports It cooks up the fighting spirit and gives a man a 'chance to show his masculine strength "Men have always been afraid of strong women In the past two generations due to their greater leisure the mother has dominated too much In the home And she has been the one to discipline her children "Added to that our schools have a preponderance of women teachers Our boys are being taught and disciplined almost entirely by women "Naturally the boy feels that woman ts the overlord and he has an unconscious fear of her As he grows up he is ruled by this unconscious pattern formed in childhood which influences his attitude toivar'd marriage "The result Is that he's willing to make Jove to a woman but he's not going to get into a situation where he must obey her" It's for this reason pointed out Dr Daniels that the word "wife" conjures up a distinctly unpleasant feeling In many men It suggests the yoke of a relationship with a dominant woman Fo the man runs from marriage like a frightened hare 6brIIIIIS )i1 v i Ki '' 1 4 - p - soft-spoke- n of -- ( 0 ' "There are several reasons why men have become bridal shy" said this woman charming "In the first place women have gone much too far in their search for freedom They have assumed too many responsibilities and deprived men of many of their masculine functions With women 'so dominant the men have been displaced from their normal sphere of activity "The men aro very much dissatisfied with this situation The male characteristics which had full play in the old days now lave no means of expression There's no way in which a roan can take the initiative and demonstrate his mastery in our present American civilization His basic fighting instinct is being thwarted you ' ' ) 4- N 44 ? -O- Li -4 - - ' 1- A i women ck kt' ) i e - ti - brought about this was discussed with Dr Margaret Daniels New York consulting psychologist who has devoted many years to the problems of young people in modern complex society She has studied in Berlin and Vienna lectures widely and is the author of a new book on the emotional life of Ex( ' - t g orfrir'l 1 13 — 4 - -- - likely goes back to a domineering woman in the rise: '( : what has J 11ST state of affairs ful c kL: 4 tfI - : - '''t 4 14 iie: ) i ! xc 7 bt ':: I i' HY the rising tide of ach- - elorhood? America has approximately 17000000 men who have not joined the matrimonial ranks Certainly at no time in the history of this country has there been such a large percentage of bachelors Many of the younger men may yet heed the call of Cupid But there will still be a large number who will continue to cling to their single state In most cases economics is not the reason why they are evading marriage For you will find they are quite capa wife and family able They live in good bachelor apartments they have cars and go off on week-end- s to country clubs and South Sea cruises They flit from affair to affair spending money generously Not even the threat of America's Involvement in war or a stiff tax to be imposed on bachelors is making them weaken Authorities declare that society must take a hand since as such a large number of unmarried people Is creating an unhappy situation and giving rise to many psychic problems A' - 4 lir The trouble most 114 i- 1 e-- -' t By Lillian G Genn mg I be 1- t '14 :1 71 ''' :: ' ‘ (N-1- s 13 4 A 1 f her - rl a 1 IT) k i ( ge ''''- ':3 ) 4 I '' t r c' IL:i r ti N ' ' i it: "' for r0 I 4 V it i rr :1 ''' ! Rol 7 r----- ? i A 'm r tio4000 I laug 'Pa: ! 4 0 Anr ) Pa an I- - -- n -1 ff it ii 1i— N11 V IS I March 31t 1910 (Mt a5alt gake Uributtt --- nunday Morning 1Vben way a woman turns pursuer she's at a great disadvantage In the same when the man is bunted be becomes awkward timid rung sway found it easier to let her invite him nut to accept her proposal of marriage She helped him start his career Both had the best motives in the Otd "We necd a healthy attitude Iowani maturity and Its responsibilitics the totalitarian elate this Is forced on the people But It should come from the people themsrlvcs" 4 - - ' I |