Show 't X THE SALT LAKE TRIBUNE Dorothy Dix No Mother Has the Right to Stand in the Way When Her Children Are Ready to Be Married— If She Do?s She Is Selfish in Extreme — Should Marry Anyway : i Dear Miss Dix: A splendid young man of my acquaintance has been engaged for years to one ‘of the finest girls in the world They are desperately in love with each other and would have married long Ago except that the boy’ ' mother has gone Into hysterics every death Tour marrying Isn’t going to kill her nor even make her time he mentioned marriage and permanently unhappy so call her declared that if he left her it would bluff and hie away to the parson kill her They have waited hoping with the girl or man of your that the mother would come to take choice a reasonable view of the subject and to have pity on them Instead of Dear Miss Dix—I was married to r that she has become more violent a good man and had a nice home and now has wrung a promise from and a car but because we argued her son that he will not marry as and quarreled I was fool enough tp long as she livea The couple are leave him Since then I have had to broken-hearte- d and In despair earn my own living I realize now What do you think they should do? what a man has to go through to A FRIEND keep up a home and I don’t wonder that he was sometimes cross and Answer: irritable Believe me if my husband The thing to be done is to say would take me back I would be willno more to the mother but for ing to overlook a lot of his short the young man to take his girl by comings that I made such a fuss the hand and stop around to the about I have had my lesson Would parson and get married forthwith you tell him so and ask for another 1 BELLE" Of course there will be a pretty trial? cene The mothe will rage and Answer: have hysterica She will accuse her I certainly would Belle PerSon of ingratitude and tell him how much she has done for him and that haps he has had his lesson too he has rewarded her by breaking You both will have learned the her heart and so on and so on folly of arguing over things and how to make concessions Probablyshe will tell him that he know has killed her and that she is going and you will put as much thought to die but she won’t Ip a little while and work into trying to make the storm will blow over She will your marriage a success as you would into trying to make a sucdry her eyes and accept the sltua tion since she cannot change it cess ef any other job you tackled and by the time there are grandIt can be done you know There children she wjll be thinking she would e mighty few divorces if the made the match husband would tsy to ‘‘sell” himself There Is really no other more to his wife as he does to his best despicable figure in the world than customer and if the wife would ‘the woman who is so utterly self- handle her husband as tactfully and ish that she is willing to ruin her put up with as much nerves and children’s lives in order to gratify crankiness in him as she does from her morbid mother passion Her her boss in an office or store love for her children is not a beauYou say that you have tried tiful wholesome natural affec-tlo-n It is a neurotic emotion making your own living that you something dark and sinister that realize what a man has to go curses instead of blesses through and how when he comes home tired and nerve-racke- d at A real mother is a woman who is night he has simply reached the filled with tenderness and devotion limit of his endurance and any to her children She gives herself chance word or little misadvenwithout stint to them She watches ture is the straw that breaks the over them night and day during camel’s back He is ready to fight their infancy but she realizes that at the drop of a hat and likely to sthey must grow up and become men drop it if you don’t and women and fulfill the destinies -- I often think that the old proverb ‘One-ha- lf of the world doesn’t know how tie other half lives” is truer in matrimony than anywhere else If husbands and wives could only change places now and then and know the trials and difficulties of The real mother does not try to each other’s lot they would have stunt her children and keep them much more sympathy and patience perpetual babies dependent upon with each other The exchange would her Instead she teaches them to correct many of the abuses of matstand upon their own feet She rimony develops them into intelligent men If a woman had wrestled all day and women capable of using their with unreasonable patrons if her own brains and judgment Her soul had been torn with anxlove does not cause her to make very and she had seen ruin staring iety morons of them Nor does the real her In the face If she was scared mother make herself an “oM woblue when she thought of what man of the sea” around her chilthe future might hold not only for dren’s necks She tries to be as her but also for those dependent little of a burden to them as poson her she wouldn’t wonder if a sible and to leave them free to do man similarly situated wafits to their own life work sit silent of an evening nor But unfortunately there are a would she mistake this silence for surliness large number of mothers who do not grouchiness and And if any man had ever had the take this big broad view of motherhood They make of it a graft They experience of going the round of the enslave their children to them They domestic treadmill of cooking and bind their sons and daughters so sewing washing and baby tending he would never wontightly to them with the bonds of day after daywoman needs a bit pf filial duty that the poor bewildered der that a her up and take her youngsters are afraid to break them gayety to cheernew channels lest they commit a mortal sin These thoughts into A fellow feeling makes us won’mothers use any weapon however Unfair with which to beat their drous kind and if only husbands and wives could swap places occhildren into submission casionally it would bring about a With tears with reproaches domes titc millennium I DOROTHY DDL with ill health with' age with threats of dying they bow the Copyright Ledger Syndicate poor wretched son or daughter Wh asserts some right to his or her own life into submission I have known families who have" waited for 40 years for mother to die so that they could do wliat “TAURUS” they Wanted to do and have a litIf April 24 is your birthday the t a tle liberty Every grown man and woman best hours for you on this date are must recognize the utter from 10:30 a m to 12:30 p m from that makes a mother un- - 3:30 to 5:30 p m and from 8:30 to willing for her children to marry 10:30 p m The danger periods are and they are weak and foolish to from 8:30 to 10:30 a m from 5:30 I sacrifice their own lives and that of to 7:30 p m and from 10:30 p m the men and women who love them until midnight I to an old woman’s whim If a woman and April 24 is your f you are prohahly very ver— So I say to all such: Don’t de- birthday satile rather proud and inclined to bate the question with mother an- be sociable You dislike stupid peoother time Don’t let her bample and probably lionize clever boozle you with her threats of ones If you refrain from being too much of a stickler for formality your popularity will increase You ought to concentrate all your efforts upon doing one thing well if more than mediocre success Is to be the result of your work Without enthusiasm it is difficult to accomplish anything worthwhile so let the spirit of optimism stimulate your interest As a composer playwright short story writer artist or actress you might become famous Througr marriage you can create a realm of happiness for yourself The child born on April 24 as a rule runs the danger of being i spoiled during its Infancy ' Do not let love be a hindrance to this youngster's future through the impairing of its disposition If a man and April 24 is your natal day good manners and good humor are what you will need to be You ought to make a successful good contact man real estate or insurance broker actor plumber builder or journalist Successful People Born on SATURDAY MORNING Bride’s Negligee May Be—— — FrjVolous or Dramatic APRIL 24 1937 Shirt Slack Combine Finds Florida” Favor — Frothy and frivolous or sleek andfexaggerated lapels The negligee is however merely dramatic the negligee in the bride’s a part of the business trousseau Is an Important item The fashion show This season there is such a wide of a trousseau selection in the matter of style as recognized this fact by showing two well as material the spring bride complete wardrobes one designed will have no difficulty in finding for a southern honeymoon and the one which expresses her personality other for a ridal trip to be spent the north The Interest aroused 'In a fashion show designed espe- in by the southern wardrobe indicated cially to interpret the needs of a that spring brldfes are planspring bride held by a smart New ning many to spend their honeymoon in York shop two wholly different the south types of negligees were featured A wardrobe ''suggested for the One o gray chiffon was obviously for the softly feminine type pf bride who seeks the flamboyant bride Fashioned of 15 yards of beauty of Miami’s tropical setting moonlight gray chiffon over a slip aa a glamorous background for her of shell-pin- k satin this one sug- honeymoon days included a group gested the ethereal stuff of which of shirtwaist and print frocks and dreams are made The sleeves were an unusually smart traveling ouclose fitting until they reached the tfit The latter costume was of elbow where they flared into a black bengaline the coat fashioned wide ruffle that stopped just short with a perky peplum that suggested of the wrist gardenia served a bustle and the skirt having the as a buckle for a belt made of new silhouette twisted cords of gray chiffon and Shown for wear wih the suit were a blouse pf violet net another of pink satin The other negligee was designed apple-gree- n chiffon and a third of for the sleekly groomed more tai- peach blossom organza There was lored type of girl This one was of a hat of shiny black straw with satin cut on lines that the inevitable veil for wear with emphasized the figure and having the suit the flower trimming so Jlared-at-the-botto- m sea-gre- 23 Crochet Chic Horseradish Sauce Tvo-Som- e' Household Arts NEW YORK UP) — From the south and west stylists report the linen combination sport had an amazing run in Florida and the Pacific coast and will be the east’s leading style this season The hand-mad- e shirt has two pleated pockets and a center Inverted back pleat and two shoulder pleats Sharp gains in popularity were registered by knitted bathing shorts at the southern resorts in March Cross ribs and stitching were the hallmark of the latest model in these shorts In the woven-Jabri- c swim trunks cotton gabardine was still a much-wor- n material navy by far the leading color in both types of swim shorts And plain white is stronger than for several seasons Shirtlessness is almost universal both at the public beach and private pooL hr shlrt-aud-sla- Alice ' Brooks Horseradish sauce increases the tastiness of bakedf ham and cold cuts It may be made by adding 2 tablespoonsful of grated horseradish (it comes in bottles) to 3 cup of whipped cream and then adding Yt teaspoon salt !4 teaspoon pepper and X tablespoon of vinegar 2-- Blue Linen Frock Wear New Gilet A good friend to the plain frock with matching bolero is the gilet of printed silk in gay patterns that has its own sash these decorative accessories make Motif your suit your newest frock (and you) the J'last word” in chic! In Heightens pattern' 5670 you will find complete instructions for making the set Chic of shown an illustration of it and of 'Smart Pair all stitches used material requirements To obtain this pattern tend 10 ing them in yarn their raised flow- cents in stamps or coin (coin preers crocheted right in then outlined ferred) to The Tribune-TelegraHome Service Bureau Salt Lake with contrasting wool or floss City Utah Be sure to write plainly' Flower centers are done in satin your name address and pattern stitch Friends are sure to agree number - arranged that it could be detached and made to repeat the color of the blouse PATTERN 5670 Another smart outfit in the trous"two-some- ” sure to seau consisted of a sports suit of A crocheted sailor’s blue flannel bound in white win every conquest is this saucy " flannel having an extra skirt of and bag white flannel bound in sailor’s blue You’ll have no end of fun crochet- "pill-box- fan-shap- Raised-Flow- er m month old ourlv blondo m Ir bluo ml Found in MoIn Parkin a bluo lumboryard blanket Think of a IUIM for this adorable foundling and you may win $S00 cash! Soa details below I WSV t r April 24: lVPFULLEH AlOfjohn ' 0 SALT LAKE C1TV and OGDEN Utsh I FAINT— WALLPAPER— GLASS A - John Trumbull poet and Jurist Thomas Addis Emmett lawyer and Irish patriot A Alexander t Orientalist and linguist Copyright 1937 by Consolidated News Features Inc CTATJ3B TEEMS What Woman Cap’t Name An Adorable Baby Girl Like This? A Housewife Has A DADV 3Dm§ Better Chance Than A College Professor! GRAND FIRST PRIZE in Horoscope it A ©SlrD 702 OTHER CASH PRIZES Contest Closes Midnight April 30 Purpose Of Contest Quickly- - Induce You Far Faster-Washi- More to Try This “To Whiter-Washi- ng ng 1937 soap has done before Oxydol doe9 these 4 amazing things: (1) Soaks out dirt in 15 minutes without scrubbing or boiling Even grimy collar bands come white with a gentle mb between the fingers Soap That’s Safe As Can Be For Colors Hands “No-Scru- b” (2) Gets white clothes 4 to 5 shades whiter than other soaps proved by scientific Tintom- Think of it! $5000 Grand First Prize for a eter tests first name for this adorable baby girl! It’s so (3) Cuts washing time 25 to 40 in tub or machine easy so sihiple that even a college professor has no better chance than you Don’t wait! Read on (4) Yet so safe that every washable color comes this page the circumstances surrounding the dis- out sparkling and fresh— your hands stay soft covery of the baby and send your entry in right -- - and white Even sheer cotton prints have been away! If you don’t win the $5000 First Prize washed 100 consecutive times m Oxydol suds you have 702 other chances—fof there are 703 without perceptible 6ign of fading cash prizes in alii In addition to its marvelous results is The reason we offer these large cash prizes is to economical too Tests show it will go Oxydol to ji again induce more women to try Oxydol the Ivory as far as the latest soap chips on the market ir soap people’s latest amazing “no-scru-b Don’t miss this chance to win yourself $5000 in laundry soap Oxydol is often called the “miracle soap of modern science” because of its great cash just for naming this adorable baby girl 1 All difference in action and results you do is follow instructions printed on the blank at the right Get busy right away— entry What It Does send in your choice for a name and be sure to send Combining speed and safety in a way no single your entry on or before midnight April 30 1937 " CASH PRIZES 703 This Fascinating Contest In X” PRIZE 5000 -- no-bo- CONTEST RULES-Re- 1 Resd esrefklly the facta turroundmg the mysterious discovery of the baby girl ahown above Then choc? a name for the little girl ana write that name in the entry blank at the right (The entry blank only for your convenience you may use sny piece of paper that you wnh) 2 Buy a package of Gxthol tear off the top of the hoi and pm the entry Wank to the bo top (or facsimile) Then put them both in an envelope and mail them to Oxydol Department N Poet Office I to 668 Cincinnati Ohio All entnea must be poetmarked before midnight April 30 1937 t Send in a many entriee aa you wnh providing each one is accompanied by one Oxydol box top any aim (or facsimile) 4 Judging will be under the direction of Mias Eljae M Rush- 1 ad Carefully man Coolest Consultant and her associates Decisions of the judges will be final The judges will make their decisions on pines uniqueness suitability Duplicate prfces will be awarded in case of tie A complete list of winners will be published m the July 3 issue of the Saturday Evening I’ost appearing on the newsstands June 29 ( Anyone may enter this contest except employees of Procter Gamble their advertising agencies or members of their S ffamilipg This contest applies only to the United States Canada and Hawau and is subject to all laws and regulations All ntns and content thereto become the property of Procter Gamble No entry will be returned 7- - T ' Guaranteed to make a success of your spring- - week-end- s is a navy blue linen dress over which is buttoned a beige linen jacket with brass buttons A glrll about C ‘ r'-w-A 3° pfelZE 2"“ PRIZE 7 750 250 5 Prizes $100 a 50 Prizes $10 sa 50 ea 100 Prizes 15 Prizes Ssa 30 Prizes 25 ea 500 Prizes 2ea TOTAL $10000 i A ENTRY BLANK 1 This sensations! offer is mads bv Ms Perkijns famous radio I Ji kdl 10 4 Failure to Enter May Coat You $5000 Even I College Professor hat no better chance than you Entries must bo mailed on or I before midnight April 30 1937 choose the following name for the baby (First name only) character Ms Perkins Is known to mill ions of listeners In her program of heart throbs thrills Don’t mlie UufKs hearing the story of this beautiful baby girl by tuning In to ' Ms Perkins any day from Monday through Friday Ms Perkins can bo hoard in all of the U S and Canada parts Nottcw Familiarity with the day to day epiaoriraof the Ma Perkin pro necessary in choosing a I ram la not name You have just aa winning Emd a chascc aa the moat frequent Please Print Mail promptly to: Oxydol Dept N Box 668 Cincinnati Ohio I have printed on this entry blank the name I choose for the foundling baby girl Also enclosed is a box top (or facsimile) from a package of Oxydol Your Mams Address City 5fafe -- |