Show THE SALT LAKE TRIBUNE Dorothy Dix WEDNESDAY Learn About Women —By CARL KUHN- - Not Run to Mothers With All Their Troubles the Husbands Must Gome First A mother whose daughter was recently married took the girl aside on her wedding eve and gave her this advice: “My dear” she said “face the fact that your marriage definitely and forever closes one phase of your life It' Is the ending of your playtime and the beginning of the serious business of life Your father and I have petted you spoiled you Indulged i you and tried to make everything as easy for you as we could but your husband isn’t going to soft-pa- d the world for you He is going to expect you to stand up and take things on the chin You are going to be on your own now Your fate is In your own hands and it is going to be what you make it — --J- j Ka n 'Says -- fc “Of course you are going to have disappointments and you are going to get the surprise of your life in finding out that marriage isn’t in the least like what a girl thinke It is going to be Every girl is sure no matter what other people’s marriages are hers g is going to be a orgy of romance and a perpetual petting party coupled with a good meal ticket and a steady date It Jars her back teeth loose she learns ‘thitthcrhus-ban- d has dropped all at the altar that he wants to stay at home at night instead of stepping out and that he expects her to take his affection for granted Which latter is a grand compliment or a cause for tears according to the way you take it love-maki- “You know that you have always been the very center of my heart and that nothing in my life has ever given me the happiness that has Nevertheless when you get married you must cut Mother’s apron string Mother musn’t be the one you love best the one you turn to for advice and counsel If you are to be happy and make your husband happy you must wean yourself away from Mother “There is no other person on earth of whom a young husband can be so Jealous as he can be of his wife’s mother He wants to be first in her life He wants to be her oracle And when he finds he Is running a bad second to Mother and that his bride is forever throwing Mother in his teeth and quoting what Mother says and what Mother thinks about this and that he simply can’t stand it If you want John to like us and be on go6d terms with us don’t feed him up too much on Mamma and Papa “Cultivate Make your Just as great an effort to win the as heart of your mother-in-layou did to win that of her son Every"motheF"i3 scared pea green when her son marries for fear his wife is going to take him away from her and when this doesn’t happen she is ready to falldown in gratitude before her marvelous your love Temperament sete your tempo fat and and thin and jumpy are qualities which pair jolly together Thin people almost invariably walk fast talk faster and are always two jumps ahead of the easygoing overweights who are geared to a more ’comfortable pace Fat people have a reputation for good nature and usually live up to it Their nerves are nicely Insulated which allows for a sense of humor In fact many of the humorists carry avoirdupois with a laugh while the cynics are Inclined to be thin and tense The beauty salon operators who ought to know find weight an almost infallible clue to temperament The thin nervous woman pops in always right on the dot and the service is speeded up for she has neither the time nor the patience to wait She wants to t in and out and on her way in a hurry But not so with the overweight who has all the time in the world and the happy gift of relaxing ' in the first available easy chair She curls up as cozy as a kitten and is perfectly content to have the treatment go on for hours -- w -- i- The thin nervous woman is al- way in a hurry even in a beauty parlor Slow movements are economical of calories and thatv is one reason placid people have enough left over to store They are not built for speed ' Haste makes waste motion and thin people use up every last The calorie in rushing around thinner you are the faster you go and the more calories you burn You can understand the relation of speed to weight when you consider that fast movements burn three times as many calories as slow movements Very fast walking at the rate of five miles per hour uses 422 calories per pound of body weight whereas walking slowly at cherry peaceful home a good dinner to come to and a pleasant wife you’ve got him forcompanyand nailed to hia own fireside finally my dear never forget you have married a man not a and be as blind to his faults as you hope he will be to yours And bear always in mind that It takes tact as well as love to make a marriage' a success that it is the wives who yes-ytheir husbands and who gum“When nature made men’s stom- shoe their peculiarities Instead of their than times achs many bigger fighting with them who never hearts she handed out a tip to wives have to buy tickets to Reno”" " on how to manage the brutes Feed DOROTHY DIX tem Make’em comfortable - Turn man on the lights Give a a bright Copyright 1936 “And el es r v McClura Ida is both masculine and feminine in the Teutonic language and is used bv the Germans and the English It comes originally from the Greek and means “happy” The name in the Erse and Kelt means “thirsty” There are many superetitione and beliefs concerning moles Most moles are regarded as foretelling wealth and “ s f it is said that a mole on your forehead or chin brings good luck Do you know what your name means? Is it the proper name for you? In choosing a name for a child it is very important to remember that he or she will bear it during a long life Be modern up to date authentic and “know your name” By MARY FENTRESS Tembroidered with spangles gold and PARIS (UP)— Newest clothes for silver beads The jackets—patterned winter sports are made of a cotton after a short Spanish bolero have three-quartg gabardine that is waterproof wind-prolength warmer and lighter in weight sleeves the shoulders of which are than the heavy woolens formerly likewise trimmed with spangles or used The new gabardines come in beading attractive light shades — slate blue Shoe manufacturers are entering moss green rosy brown cocoa and into the new enthusiasm for smart mustard yellow shades Light In winter sports clothes Besides the weight these trousers and jackets heavy leather skiing boots they are are worn over woolly underwear and making softer and more pliant leather shoes for dancing at night a tailored woolen sports shirt or These ehoes usually ankle length knitted sweater When light shades and close fitting are slipped on acceswool stockr over silk or of gabardine are used the sories of socks sweaters- - mittens ings after the wet- - heavy ski boots and caps usually are in deeper tones are put near the fire to dry of the same color- Belts for winter sports are shown d ski clothes at sports coats are with the hand-kn- it Special used for extra warmth for winter Anny Blatt’s new midseason collecsports Scotch tweeds are the most tion These leather belts are empopular materials for the full swag- bossed with colored designs depictger coats that are usually lined in ing different types of winter sports muskrat or some other inexpensive Skates skis bobsleds and snowshoes fur The coats frequently are fin- are applied in leather and gilt as ished with a warm hood instead of trimming to a simple brown or a collar eo that the head can be black leather belt The same house sweaters in protected on cold windy bobsleigh makes heavy hand-kn- it - - — - - crimson to be worn with havy blue rjdes Evening dances are not forgotten woolen ski pants that are pressed in this year’s preparation for winter into creases just like a man’s trousports Smart pajama trousers of sers velvet are used by Schiaparelli for -- Heavy chains of leather or rope dinner wear and these are accom- twine with a compact comb and panied by chic little jackets of lipstick attached to either end can tweed— the latter usually heavily be tied about the waist as a belt or slung over the shoulders with the about-tw- o miles an compact ahd other complexion aids and one-hacrammed into the pockets of the sjel hour takes only 130 calories Light exercises consumes 110 cal- jacket ories per pound of body weight and very severe exercise uses 390 cal Red Lanterns Dance Away ories Yet as a rule thin people PASADENA Cal (UP)— The pogo at exercise with a vim while the lice department has notified the stouts go through merely stylish public that if It sees a red lantern the motions in the street to stop However if must thin the person Usually the lantern is moving they are instructed to call the police The reason is small boys who are stealing — Send —for the leaflets most of the city’s danger signals “Weight Gaining Menus’' and “General Exercises— To Keep You Trim and Fit as a Fiddle” to The Tribune-TelegraHome Service bureau for three cents each by mail one cent If you call close-fittin- very name wemidwztand thatihe symptom is not constant But the few seconds it persists may seem a lifetime to the patient— so Incapacitating is its nature Of course there are numerous graduations of the affliction The disturbance may be confined to a tiny filamfent of the nerve or it may affect one or more main divisions There is no loss of feeling and the patient is quite normal between attacks If sensation is lost this is proof positive that true tic douloureux does not exist The onset occurs more frequently between autumn and winter as the weather becomes colder Sometimes it is associated with a fall in the barometric pressure preceding a storm The symptom— it is not a true disease — rarely makes its advent before the age of 30 and is more common in the fourth and fifth decades of life treatment is so Important waporied-P- rt inhaled will “handkerchief' and give temporary relief Inasmuch as the cause is unknown every effort should be made to build the patient's resistance and some reports indicate the electric heat (diathermy) has been helpful It Is Impossible Mrs B writes: My brother has pulmonarytnberculosls and has been in a sanitarium for over a year He has been on a bland diet most of this time because his condition is complicated -- with —tuberculosis of the intestine The doctor attending him says that about 65 percent of all people with consumption arc also affected in some part of the digestive tract Can you tell me if this is true and if the use of the bland diet la important in hastening a cure? REPLY The gtrointestinal tract may come 'Infected as a result of lung m of the intestine is desirable Bushfulness D disease? M writes: Is bashfulness a of it? How can one be rid REPLY It is not a disease but is due to self consciousness or ter a sense of interiority The cure depends upon the restoration of confidence- - Your friends can help by well deserved compliments - emphasizing-- ' your good points The White Plague W B A writes:-Why-- is tuberculosis referred to as "“the great white plague”? REPLY Tuberculosis is known popularly by this name The designation has no scientific" basis although swellings of points caused by tuberculosis are - known wellings” - aswhite Horoscope If your birthday Is December 16 ths best hours for you on this date are from 8 to 10 a m from 1 to 8 p‘ m and from 6 to 8 p m The danger periods are from 8 to 8 a m from from 4 to to 11 ju m 6 m 1 p m and f Practice discretion today It might be well to give any person against whom aspersions have been whispered the benefit of the doubt By no means enter any arguments today for It will end In certain tragedy! 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New Winter Sports Clothes Made of Cotton Caba rd i ne siloes) Fali-Napth- ' ndcal Newspaper Mm Batter U pat Coffee 1 tap cream 1 rounded neu iUGHES AT 17 IS THE ONLY AMERICAN TO VNlN iAWORUO TABLE TENNIS TITLE whole TIME CUTTER tuberculosis Ths figure' given in my opinion is too hlgh although it is true that whenever the disease appears in the intestine — In 95 per cent of the cases— it will be found to be present in the lungs It la probably true also that if the illness is long drawn out that is has existed for years In an acute form sooner or later other parts of the body will become involved— chiefly the intestine Competent au30 to thorities believe that-fro40 per cent of those who have puwill show lmonary tuberculosis lesions In the digestive tract In certain groupa of cases it is entirely possible that the figure — 65 per cent— is not too high The attack upon the condition cannot be made with a rough-Irritatin4iet hence a bland menu is advised The use of ultraviolet light has been" found to be helpful and some experts believe that surgical removal of the diseased portions fur-iine- w w fSrtl light-weig- daughter-in-la- in-la- -- of in-la- “So play up to Mother-in-laDon’t flaunt John’s adoration of you in her face Don’t monopolize him Make him pay hie mother more attention than he has eyer done before Doq’t always go along when he pays a visit to his mother Let them have long sessions of talk alone together “There is nothing that pays a woman better than making friends because in the with her first place nothing endears a wife to --her husband more than getting along peaceably with his mother And in the second place if a mother-in-law likes her she has always a friend at court who will buck her up in any domestic argument instead of an enemy who will always If be stabbing her in the back mother-in-lasings your praises you will be tops with John but if shq has always got out her hammer for you he will wonder what ever made him marry you "Don’t be silly enough to think — beauty of charm or dieting to keep young and slim will take the place of good housekeeping in holding a husband's love There isn’t a man living who won’t see a dirty floor before a pretty face if he marries a lazy sloven and who doesn’t feel more romantic and tender after a good meal than a bad one S of ’ never-endin- 13 NEURALGIA careful differentiation must be We just cannot get along without made between ' the condition and nerves They control our muscles— painful nerves due to circulatory disturbances or pressure If there govern all our movements— and is a dull ache or a throbbing pain warn us of danger through the sense that manifest itself gradually and of pain But when they become in- proceeds to increase in severity we flamed or unduly sensitive we may recognize a neuralgia but not may individually doubt their Value of the “tic” variety N The trigeminal nerve is a peculiar Proposed Remedies affair with three main branches Numerous remedies have been supplying the face When it becomes unruly it exhibits that fact proposed such as Injecting the by torturing its owner— not with an nerve with alcohol or severing one ordinary sort of pain but a shoo- or more branches outsld the skull ting flashing Intense agony like the Either plan may be followed by restab of a hot needle So sudden lief for a while but the cut nerve may be Its appearance that the vic- will reform and sooner or later- - the tim will stop dead ih his tracks trouble will return The only method of treatment with the face distorted the eyes which is efficient Is the operation fixed and the speech paralyzed Although the condition has been perfected by Cushing and Frazier cutting the sensory recognized since the time of the which involves Arabian physician Avicenna (1000 portion of the structure within the This avoids the undesirable A D) It was not described ac- skull curately until Samuel Fothergll re- consequences of facial paralysis although eye symptoms may ensue ported a number of cases in 1804 The part which controls the mus— Seizure Brief cles hFeserved and there is no As a rule the seizures are brief of the face on the affected and usually follow such simple ma- drooping side neuvers as swallowing touching the The operation itself la a triumph face brushing the teeth washing nerve surgery and the improvwith cold water orpermittingacold ement observed is in these to strike the skin The dura- remarkable While the patients draft procedure is tion rarely longer than a few secappear formidable and require onds and may cease abruptly Re- may a highly trained eye and hand on peated paroxysms may come on the of the surgeon neverthehowever at relatively short Inter- less part we may apply Mark Twain’s vals so that the patient may com- remark about Wagner’s music “It’s plain for some time of a "boring not as bad as it sounds” agonizing distress that There seems to be no The word "tic” means a spasm will offer permanent aid drug although and “douloureux” pain— so from its 10 to IS drops of trlchlorethylene ‘ i 1936 TIC He-Me- n - 16 By DR’ IRVING That They Married and Not Angels They Should r DECEMBER How to Keep Well Young Wives Should Remember ‘ v MORNING a |