| Show THE SALT LAKE TRIBUNE SUNDAY-MORNIN- SEPTEMBER 10 G Marital Problems This Jimjriy Mattern Is One Great Guy Declares Will BY KATHLEEN NORRIS Is Divorce a Way to Happiness? Writer Nine Out of Ten Only Increase and Multiply the Troubles - of Life f i got backfrwnjuflt about the greatest adventure that any aviator ever had They have all had some pretty queer ones and are a great-gan- wi wSt only e them ii evidences that there Is no escape from the net that la life it s dullness Its dw&lusion its bur-jtten and borrows t No e©c®p that i AV AH about Hi 12 until ' we discover the kingdom that is arnTfO within? And when a women finds’ that I she is apt also to do cover that her reel happiness lies In being true to her first marriage vow no matter how hard hoW'duH hdw apparently wasted that fidelity may be Difficult as this course is it does lead somewhere 'The other course the' count Kathleen Norri childishly tn search of running iwmjr childishly In search of ready-madhappiness leads nowhere There Is aomeithlng trejnendouall kv aplrirg in following a steep rough rood faithfully because your honor points that way And there is a sense of failure of being smirched of acknowledging weakness when you fling down all once assumed end flit you off restlessly in search of new love and freedom No one in this world ever found real love and freedom that way Thousands of women ere apt to discover ruefully that the trials and disappointments of the second - while not exactly- - the same eemarriage'' thoae of the first era Just as difficult to beer The divorced women discovers to- her pained surprise that Don wasn't such complete devil after all that Alan isn’t that Wkil she fondly Imagined They are both human men' with the stupidities nd fault and pettlneasee and selfishness and Jealousies of human men and with goodness generosity a desire to be vn J 3 e - t of thing that afterwards his fatigue and dopinees made him do He paid a fine compliment to little Wiley post He says “Wiley plenty tough He has got the endurance of a "anddpneaJot happy too Not one man tn one million rally loves or even likes the children of hie wtfa'a first marriage or really feeds theft she had a bad husband to Don and deserves a new deal and a better chance Alan marries her after her divorce because her beauty or charm appeal to him he doesn't REALLY think ah Is an abused Kttte unfortunate angel It takes her no tone at ah to discover that ho doesn’t like her mother’ visits her passionate adoration of Don't little son nor pretty extravagances and Indolence one bft better than Don did Her rude awakening from the dream makes the second marriage even less fortunate than the first It ha computation that the’ final naturally didn’t have the women's tense of having tailed the child or oven the children on both rides Everything ia difficult for her and whereas la warned to be everybody' bustoaa to make the finft merrier nobody earte much what happen the second time She he too agony of her children’ bewilderment and pain to welch they don’t understand why they art shifted about artificially entertained by Daddy when they are with him and warned by Mummy’s whisper when they tra with her not to disturb her when she I with 'Uncle Alan he love Mummy so much he went to be with her ail toe timet If there are no children ana no remarriage still there does not seem to exist for her tout paradise of freedom and happiness of which hg dreamed One doesn’t think of one’s ’divorced friends a to happy women of the world So that to all honesty and quite aside from any of the religious or conventional fixations that may influence me I do advise women not to consider divorce at ll to frying to elve their Individual marltot problems It aeema to me that where one divorce actually bring freedom and happiness nine completely fail to do anything but Increase too difficulties and multiply the troubles of life The alternative may be dull and even hitter and heartbreaking but 1ft genet ' v 1 burro" And he is too I tell you I met him after he and Gatty made their wonderful trip and he is tough as a boot and as determined as a bull ?hysicsflly guy along with an adven- s turous spirit has got some internal there that are not all just “Tripe” But toe best part of Jimmys trip was after he landed and joined the Esqul-mo- s His oil feed line froze on him His plane he said we never going better and he had plenty of oil and gas but len-tal- Unhappy moments in their hot-blood- twenties and thirties and forties ed ally work out better R He deter along the line of the only good advice that ever we given u to this world lines that have to do with losing your life to gain 11 and loving them that despiteful um you and finding toe kingdom of heaven within your own soul for even the dullest and most die- ( appointing marriage ha an odd way of changing aa the yearn go by Its values shift the thing that made Don a husband a few unsatisfactory year ago disappear from his habits or character be drink leas and "doesn't gamble any more hie difficult old mother goes to way of difficult odd mothers toe children grow up and there is no longer need for oontrovsny over their manner or their achooling Oddly almost Shyly to early middle age Don and Sally begin to find again the love that flxit drew them together end oddly Shyly they discover ahead of them toe pocubiUty of serene autumn years of peace of travel of respect and in tost companionship that is one of toe most wonderful thing of life e com-plef- ly Styles of Curtains Change? for Season Believe me thousand of the adored Grans and Gramps who accept so complacently in the sixties the homage of admiring friends who keep a silver wedding — a golden wedding anniversary with such dignity and beauty went ' through it all to THEIR twenties and thirties and forties THEY were sure that they couldn’t stand it another minute too they were tremblingly tearfully certain that toe only wise and decent thing to do was to end 11 and get a divorce and forget each other I But something or an accidental combination of many somethings held them together and here they are today such a darling old couple and still so fond of each other! Thank to an opportune illness or an inopportune baby or a prayer at the right moment or a heroic gentle word that might have been hot and angry or money difficulties— for after all divorces are expensive— they were carried past toe rapid safely and emerged into saner end wiser days wearied disillusioned older- but still miraculously - together One Way You Can Assure Marital Bliss By WINIFRED BLACK of Omaha believes to honeymoons He mad quits a talk about honeymoons the other day and all tot newspapers printed what he said Dr Neuhaus it a psychiatrist— and he ought to know what he means when he saya what" he does say about honey ’ moons “If you can’t afford a real honaymoon" lays Dr Neuhaus “have aa imitation on Disconnect the telephone don’t answer to door bell get a book of poems or turn on the radio when tot sentimental singers begin to ting Havo strawberries and cream for breakfast and (how your husband that you can make a real strawberry shortcake that will maka him wonder how men who have to eat in restaurants manage to live at all “Look your prettiest and be your Dr Ncuhaua ‘ - s sweetest “Go up on tot roof and watch tha moon “Don’t sea people don’t road letters from inquiring friends just sort of retire from to world for a whlls and get acquainted— and you’ll have something - ‘ r ' — - -- on your room Drk organdies are the newest offerings and wUl b available in such rich hues aa deap blue vermilion brown bright green and even a You’ll be delighted tawny orange shad when your ator shows you too new ' autumn and winter organdies ' For formal treatment and rooms ther art lovely curtain of lace tailored and dyed rather darker than the familiar ivory and cream tintThese are very new and ever ao smart and are shown so far la olrcla vino and allover Of course all the old leaf patterns atandbya will be available at your fastore vorite but the items described are that among to outstanding noveltie should soon become as popular as toe standbys (Copyright 1933 King Feature Syndicate Ine) ft - jf w to remember when you get a little tired of each other and begin to wonder what on earth mad you think you could be happy together These are not to exact words of the good psychiatrist but they are just about what they appeared to mean to plain English I think ha’ right— don’t you? This “com on kid let’s see the preacher" kind of wedding doesn’t seem to' be a real wedding at all Ther la no tense to marriage unless there’ some sentiment about If you’re going to act as if you were Just signing a contract or buying a ticket to motion picture or laving’ a nickel to pay a street ear fare— what’s the us of getting married at all? “Sensible?"— there’s nothing "sensible" about love If there was it wouldn’t be love Don’t tell me tost a “sensible" young man having all he can do to feed and shelter and cloth himself on hla twenty a week would ever think of persuading a “sensible" girl to leave her comfortable home with her devoted father and mother and follow him to a cheap rooming house and delicatessen meals— unless he was just a little bit crazy and the girl was crazy too Love ia a kind of madness— sometimes it lasts and sometimes it wean out and aometimes it turns into a good honest deep hearted unselfish devotion that is perfectly sane and perfectly reason- able but try to talk common sense to a lover or his lass and see them laugh at you And they’re right to laugh You are toe One that is foolish— not the lovers Love is the one beautiful Illusion that Is left to us to this vale of teas Love is moonlight and starlight love Is music love la to song of the wind in the trees and to rhythm of the waves upon the shore— don’t try to turn it into a plain “sensible" affair of dollars and cents Love Is love and nothing you can do r say or think will change it Hav a honeymoon even if it’s only it y o o McIntyre A friend irritated now and then by my vocabulary chastizes tne with a bit" of tall writing himself Sir: You behave Ilk an lnpetigi-nou- s acroyll — like those inquinate orosacrolest who envious of my moral celaituda carry their mugaolty to toe height of creating sympostcally the fecund word which my polymathlc genius uses with uberify to abilgat toe tongues of the weightless You hav ©orassly parodied my own pet words as though they were I will not conceroate reI would obduce a veil over proaches th altamental ingratitude which has chamlered over my undlscepttbl heart I am silent on the (oscillation which my eoadful fancy must have given you when I offered to become ybur fanton and adminicle I will not apeak of toe Uptitudt toe ablepsy you have ahown in exacerbating me: on who genius you should have approached with mental discalceation So I tell you syncophlcally and without aupervwcsnou words nothing will render lgnoeclble your conduct I warn you I will vellkate your nose If I thought your moral diathesis could If I thought b thereby performed that I should not lmpigorate my reputaGo tion by such a dagladatlon your ones Inquinate draws oblectttlon from tha greatest writer since Milton and draws upon ybur head this letter which will drive you not only to Webster but probably Every marriage that lasts ha passed just as surely as every marriage that breaks has gone down under them If the contented honored fine old wives would tell ue the truth it would always be a story of difficulties mastered rather than of married lives free from difficulties Life holds happiness for every one of us but it Isn’t done up in cellophane packages and sold over the counter It has to be won fought for planted in our scheme like toe yeast a woman hid to a measure of meal It is a thing of alow growth— happiness There is a happiness in this life that no husband no poverty no misfortune or humiliation can touch The joy a spiritthese dangers tan-gra- ually developed woman possesses deep within herself cannot be touched by anything any mere man can do be he father brother husband employer son When I reed of most divorces I know that toe mm and women involved in them still have something to learn about true living (Copyright 1933 Bell Syndicate Inc) Reaching a Man Through Stomach By ALICE LYNN BARRY If the man of the bouse wants to run away without sating any breakfast during the warm weather please don’t let him do so If he is used to a reel breakfast he will speedily becofne a hot weather grouch if he switches to a slim breakfast We need food in the warm weather a well as on brisk days And since many men are inclined to go easy on their lunches when the sun rides high in a cloudless sky it is well to insist that they make up for this by partaking of a nourishing breakfast Switch around a bit Serve things that are different Take pains with the breakfast table so that everything served looks inviting A bowl of flowers a brightly colored peasant cloth with matching napkins cool glass plates or bright hued pottery will make breakfast a delight Think up new dishes Eating the same' tort of food day after day isn’t going to act as a spur to toe reluctant appetit which should be coaxed with new dishes tempting tasty With toe thought that all I have said here applies’to the whole family I am giving a recipe thet will yield six portions of a fluffy cheese omelet It la light yet very substantial and wUl “stick to you u the saying has it so that a light lunch will be quit all ' right If to day is warm Separate the yolks of four egg ands beat until lemon colored Pour of a cup of hot milk ‘over eight flaked crackers rolled fine—sod crackers are nice Beat until creamy Season add quarter of a cup of grated American cheese and combine with beaten egg yolks Beat egg whites stiffly and fold in Heat two tablespoons butter in a heavy frying pan Pour in omelet mixture and cook covered over a very low flame until barely aet Fold sprinkle with mpr cheese slip onto a hot platter and serve at once three-quarter- an Imitation honeymoon have one season in your life when you don’t have to think about common sense and reason and practical things'at all (Copyght 1933 K F S "Its about two miles down to a river and he went down there and built him a kind of brush hut He stayed there 14 days on three chocolate Bara not only quite an accomplishment but the best add I ever heard-o- f for chocolate I suppose along with Jimmy and Ms other luck it was some Russian t brand chocolate and he cant get anything but of the add Wall then some Esquimoe oome fleeting down the river picked him up and dident ‘seem the least interested Jn how he got there what he was or anything They spent the next two weeks doing nothing day andjiigbt but playing with th "Zippers" on his flying suit Laying in the hut or igloo at night they would be zipping em up and down his legs and arms In fart it looked Ilk they had saved him entirely for his zippers They would have preferred saving toe rippers and letting him go Then he had some rubber bands around some maps Well when they 'saw those hands what little interest nwy had previously showed in hint was olf They snapped bands and pulled zippers for two weeks steady Sounds silly dont it? Just about as silly as spending toe seme time on bridge and golf Then they took him down toe river to Anadir (thats the only town in Russia wilth a short name) Sixty1 White people there that is if you want to be lenient and call Russians white According to their constitution now they ars supposed to be “Red" None could talk Engllrii so they started playing with the zippers Se Siberia is just a zipping and spep-- ‘ ping and having the time of their lives Nobody ever asked how he got there or why or when they Just figured he was an advance agent for zippers and rubber bands So If you go to see the Esquimoe dont Jtakegum drops thatsold stuflTakz!pv per and rubber bands and you con come back with all the white fox skins In the Behring Sea area Their-windare just as simple as ousts You wold think they would get civilized and learn to sit all day working a cross word puzzle Something ought to be done about these “Primitative" people who live In Various parts of the- - world and dont know a thing but to live off what nature provides You would think they would get civilized and learn to live off eeeh other like us civilized folks do y -- A - s (Copyright v 1933 by the McNaughl Syndicate Ine) Here Are Few Reasons Why Webster Wrote That Book Believe me thousands of the adored Grans and Gratnps who accept so cortf placently in the sixties the homage of admiring friends had their disputes their amw By ELEANOR ROSS Everything get It chance to appear before the publle now that exhibition are ao popular And o w weren’t suran prised to receive pn invitation to arexhibit of curtains and draperie ranged on behalf of to various manufacturer of theo important furnishing Item It wu well worth a visit not to new offering but to only to how btuUIully oxport hang oven too simplest curtain The draperies were particularly exDamask 1 still popular but citing woolen fabrics look ilka being to thing next season They were shown to im-pie but rich colors depending mainly on texturo and weave for decorative ‘ effect For formal room toare are the satins molrct and taffetas while for atmple room there are cotton repa waffle weave cottons monotone linen and a grand new matelass that ought to become popular Wo wert rather pleased to observe that chintses are veering away- - from 11 W wer floral pattern and motif beginning to be a bit tired of these it seems because so much of It wu left in So stock at toe ond of the season often embelchintzes to ‘solid color lished by small unobtrusive motifs and new lease patterns look like giving of life to chintx drapes These were shown in several new style of rod ind draping Ther are vary few curtain novelties The biggest change wu that most of to windows showed curtains hung perfectly straight Which will do sway with the much beruflled type of curtain which by the way is good for very few rooms For simple rooms ther are rough meshes in linen and cotton yarns Marquisette continues to be popular and Is shown to ' many new versions One ia a woven effect which in marquisette £Ingham ever ao attractive Soma have appU- -' qua borders with posies laurel leaf star and similar simple but picturesque motifs ‘ Dark Organdie Popular ’ If you have grown to love your or- grin die framed windows don't despair dwhen it comes to putting winter clothe jury g - - “happy and to'makrtheirwive ' these aviators Just about the most fellows Interesting WWMi to talk too of any of bunch man I ever Poet Hawkes Doolittle A1 Williams Roecoe Turner and dozens of others that have really done things Well this Maitenvnow boy If he dident have some time when he set that old Lockheed down in Siberia Just about a drive and two n'bllck shots from the North Pole That twice he has started on a round the world trip and been grounded in Russia If I was Jimmy the next time I made a trip around the world I would go round Russia but Russia k just about as tough to go round as It is to go through Weil he said one of toe things that got him oft to a bad start was toe rough weather crossing the Atlantic The first trip 'crossing the Atlantic he and hi pardner had a joy ride so he just figured the old Atlantic was duck soup and- toats just what it’ was this trip duck soup Just as thick all the way across he couldent see to sky and he eouldeht see th ocean His altimeter showed nothing so he must-havbeen flying right on to water But he never saw it when he went up his wings coated with ice So he had to stay low Well h claim he took such beating that he was really all in from then on He never did really recover his strength He claim that to whole thing of making a record around the world is a case of physical endurance: Well that" was new because most of us had come to look on it as t ease of mechanical luck But h says Jta mostly physical endurance He claims tost if he had been lucky enough to have had a fair trip across toe Atlantic he would not have been so tired t Jk here was this oil stopped coming and be had the Behring Sea to cross to make Nome "Alaska Well for thousands oi miles ft was this “Tundra" bumpy mossy growth So he did quite a stunt I claim he put on full - power and brought it close to the ground and knocked his undercarriage off That is he did that purposely When he felt the crash back against the body of hds plane h took her up off the ground again and then brought' her down 'with no wheel to hinder him In that way when he tended he dident nose over Now I claim that was pretty hot aviating Spraining his ankle' tolandirg was his worst in- By WILL SOGERS Well all I know is just what I read in to papers or what 1 rutunUo her and there Not long ago when I was back in n Chicago to see the West clean the East t polo I run onto Jimmy Mattern ‘I " had met him before he made this last round toe world flight but tois was the first time I had met him since he De-plar- es n 1933 Inc) tagy-graph- nuts I’m sorry Joe Cook changed the name of his new ahow "Hunky Dory" It may b a little mystifying to city dwellers but out yonder when “Everything was hunky dory" It meant things were perfect ‘ It has struck me a young American going to Oxford must have much character to return without 4 lot of British Oxford mannerisms and snobbishness But toIs noted for turning out snobs day I heard o( an ambitious business woman who sent two sans there - They have returned a little ashamed that their “mother is in trade" Fawncyi Gilbert Seidel had a big part In building "The March of Time" too non fiction of our country alnce 1917 recently don in th movies Th film is composed of actualities historical records Industrial shots and news reels and like everything that has a Seldei touch shows forethought a Someone for more than a month has been sending me a daily postcard printed thusly: “Sound currency A aound currency is to be preserved at all hazards”— From to Democratic Platform 1932 e A group of wer discussing their biggest spree They were the usual citations— on a bender and waking But there was one quite up In Europe different He had been doing tall champagne drinking aboard a yacht in Florida waters and ter sleeping eight At his hours went on a hunting trip first shot the kick of the gun Jolted him into the biggest drunk he was ever on It took him two days to sober The passing of Eddie Dillon several weeks ago removes one of th earlier clowns of the screen solemn He might hsv been one of th best remembered comic had he not gone in for directing Shortly after a brief stretch Hs had a ridicuat Keystone lous sense of buffoonery and among was regarded a loyal friend owl-eye- d cop-pin- g s Short Shavings Rub Goldberg was Jack La Rue born on the 4th of July movie heart thumper carriei a tooth Gilbert brush in his vest pocket Miller has netted a small fortune in They currency speculation in London have written a play about One Eye ConWhen nelly called “Gate Crasher" Major Edward Bowes was foreman of a San Francisco grand jury ha had the king of Chinatown kidnaped to secure information that broke up a famous ring John Davey famous" tree surgeon did pot go to school until after 20 Greta Garbo now wean a green To see if it will attract in public as much attention as her colored glasses Spain is axtremely discourteous to American visitors tourists report More than five billions worth of New Much York real estate is fax exempt of the exemption is by political pull The first flut was made out of a sheep’s Katherine Hepburn is thighbon Walt Whit“Katie" to ber intimate man a pronounced pacifist liked to “Mirrors write of battles and drum of Wall Street” says Of Rockefeller Jr: “His complete happiness could only be realized by fellow Mortals denuding themselves of all weaknesses frivolities and aspirations associated with human A cougar or mountain lion beings" never daws with Ms back feet Vina A Delmar writes in pajamas great howl is being made about barring poor children from Gramercy park It ia a brand of snobbishness that does not go with the times “Bank President” by Lewi Graham is a story of modern bank president that tells slri nd "Congo Solo” by Emily Hahn ) is a grand story of Africa Americans are the best air pilots Japanese the worst Luclua Boomer pf the Waldorf is- directing to management of Chicagolargest hotel toe The sits of tha Chicago Cen- Stevens tury of Progress will become on of toe largest airports in tha world Tammany bankrupting Naw York has tried ' to pass toe buck to the state Alfonso wear a bright red handkerchief jn the breast pocket of his dinner coat Chanel Paris dressmaker plans to open a perfume parlor on toe avenue this fall The old Palais Royal now a comeehop suey place ia to attempt back as a class spot soon It is where Paul Whiteman started ha New York eye-sha- d i (Bobba-Merrill- career (Copyright 1933 by McNaught Syndi- cate Inc) 1 |
