| Show sat SALT LAKE TRIBUNE I Fjrst-Bo- Is Always King in Household nd Draws Ac claim but Sam Homage Should Be Paid m Succeeding Arrivals i' Mother Should She If That much (witmnt and Mis Pi— Why 1 It that ther t 19 parade mad evee ths flrit child whit th yscond third and 0 on tr alway accepted a It matter of course? Before my first child wa bom bd the spotlight turned on me by my family and husband and was the object of U thslr attention and solicitations Rut new that I am going to hav another baby It M just "one of those things" and nobody la much interested In It except ms I m not complaining! am just wondering about it and tannot understand why there Is suoh ft difference In people’s treatment of the mother when the ordeal is so much harder the second time and It requires so much more courage to bear the second baby than It did the first 'Thera if no ignorance to veil th cruel truth from her as with ths first baby and she has much to think about other than tho glorious illusion of motherhood Can you solve this puzzling Dorothy JDix thing for me? I think it would make it easier for A PUZZLED MOTHER me if I understood? Answer! I aupposa the roasen that the in distant city among her people first baby rates the most atten That means that I -should bays to start aU evir again3 tion has the moat fuse mad ever YQUNG POCTOR It and gets the most presents g 1 because every first thing In Ajjsww I Mnli you would bo both thq nature of ft mrcip ft I weak and foolish to saorifloo lour be t and wonderful something future t gratify your wife’s whim marveled over because It ha You would b weak to let hop never happened before pull you around by tho nose and Th young mother is cherished make yen do thing that yon with a peculiar tenderness by hsr know will jeopardise your entire family and friends because the career just because stie want te (railing clouds of glory of her girl-ho- be near Mamma and the girls and still hang about hey and be- yon would be foolish because your cause there is something so touching sacrifice would be made In vein - and so brave In th thought of the For when She found out that creature hardly more than yon were not making as mueh d herself going down Into a money in the new environment as did la the old she would bo hell of suffering to bring back n- other life that it gripstho hearts Klt as disgruntled and unhappy over that as she Is about having of all who know and lovo her to live away from her old home ff But tho feat once accomplished BOW become commonplace that call Women alway wont to have their for no heading on the drum oako and at it too They want Drama doesn't bear repetition their hwshwds to go and live where - Tho surprise and tensene and they want to live but they wont excitement cose out of It t a eeo them to mke just as much money as they did befor And if they end performance Lindbergh we don’t they never admit that it is the first man te cress the ocean their fault They just wonder why In a nonstop flight and tho whole husbands can’t get along ilk other world acclaimed hie daring Now men I’ve known Tnanjrmen who across the come and ge aviators good Jobs and good pros- up gavf seas end wo pay little attention pect to- - Ao t live their to them And It Is the same way WlVM1 people but I among have never bout children The first baby Is known a single ease where the a miracle The second one Is an sacrifice was appreciated' by achievement After that they are v his wife pr brought them any haphabit Pear ucH ChildVFirst Teacher Most Important THURSDAY MORNING SEPTEMBER 8 1038 Quality Is Style Queen forAutumn my f ii (jBSH Remember Imtruc-to- r Of rayon crepe ih aoft dull finish this frock is iut on ghnpJest lines with ft ghirrad leVf top attached to slightly widened shoulder line and a high standing neckline finished with a tailored bow of green black and silver braid The same braid band two patch pockets on the skirt A Mary Queen of Scot tamoshanter Inspired the black hat trimmed wifi) a woo) pompon and a black and green feather Th bar gloves and ihocft are black doeskin the fur silver fpx bfgh-ln-fro- nt By ANQELQ PATRJ The child’s first teacher I tho most Influential in hi Ilf Mother la that teacher £h gives him his first lossona and they stay with i 4 hlnTM Jong ash uives weighing v 1 j every thought and action helping him or hindering him according to I tho amount of un-- vole is tho first vnI child loarno to hear it will modify bio and - - ed kf voice fsklff was drawn almost under water Holder kept ft knif ready t eut the IV— THE HAMMERHEAD line if necessary but after sounding One of th ocean’s curious gra- bottom th fish beggU to swim toturea l th hammerhead shark It ward th open sea For a mil it broad lobe pulled th kiff Pari wer not f head U formed Intowhich may remind one of the head much us to halt th outward course of a hammer or croquet mallei but ftt last Holder Sh4 hi omrad Tbil Strange shark usually swims were able to pull in the line n little about ths warmer seas but is found Then it was let out- and hauled in ths north Atlantic and north again Holder found that ha could Sometimes it visit the halt the shark even when It lunged Pacifio Below the New England shore d mouth strange head Is a with row of small sharp teeth Charles Holder a noted fisher-mawas one angling for whitefish in a hay on the California coast Suddenly th bait wa seized and th fishliu wa broken A moment later th fin of a shark appeared alongside th small boat which contained Holder and a companion New hooks were put on th Un three times but each tim the shark snapped off bait and hook A it came near th surface it was seen to be a large hammerhead Two Other men fishing near by landed ft small fish and placed it pn line which dangled in the water The -A hammerhead after being hammerhead awam toward it but brought Mhori it wa jerked to the boat Just in time but ther seemed no hoj of capturHolder went ashore ofetglned ing the big fellow with ft single skiff heavy cod line and baited large Luckily other boat cam to th‘ hook with a fish A ft rescu They wr tief t Holder1 rowed back h aw that th ham- kjff and by tb untied fore pf merhead wa swimming amid all tb rower tb hammerhead group of mai boat and that men shark wa dragged back into th were trking ft it with ear and bay and wa landed cn tb bob-rboat hooks Th hammerhead (For natur section of your scrapeeemed not to mind this treatment book) and seized the bait gs ‘‘Cities of Europe” will be mailed toon ar it fell Into the water without charg to rder who en4 The line became taut and Holder m stamped return enwas dragged to his knees H let velop UNCLE RAY out the reel and the shark pulled Tomorrow! The Octopus th hook toward bottom Jw feet Copyright i93 Publisher beneath- - The Un ran put and the Syndicate Strange Fish good-size- deretandlngthftt went intonem T h mother's 1 With Uncle Ry Day-by-D- ay hie speech and the manner of them Her hands art tho hands k learns 0 love or dread according to their deftness their gentleness their sura ness As ho has boon handled in babyhood ho will tend to handle Other people and things Mother’s sods becomes the child’s cods and shapes his character From her the child learns the ways pf Industry friendliness honor duty What he learns during the first few years When mother is his only teacher and his closest friend if what duips him for lle Teacher Jmportont After he goes to school the first teacher he has is the most important of bis school life If she is well experienced In the sere and management of little children if (Ttt Registered U 8 Patent Office) she has ft motherly Attitude along rt With the teftcher's viewpoint she By BARBARA VQRSE 8y JOSEPH McCORD will lay ft foundation for the child’s education that will stand ' or I didn’t think they did unfil last? "Didn’t he offer to help you? INSTALMENT 38 poor choice of location or 'wrong PJgnt Lilies of the through the years an underlying want you to under- Deed inquired grimly I a night ol conditions mustered Deeds nearly very will strength that give the child smile of stand He was willing to free me "Yes som of these h have would aa If bis you contempt plan put Your Garden in Valley courage certainty and hope “We as well kip it” he an- But I shrank from th publicity whit blooms In your gar Mothers are mothers and first into execution Quietly he slipped swered may In many a protected spot about exquisite "What difference couldn’t see any way to avoid it den next spring took about yoqr heavily side to th th out door leading teachers by the grace of God but of doe few clump it make? That or anything So I just drifted hoped Tor th horn ground yard for ft place ia which to plant teachers are appointed by school porch vaulted file railing and gained else" lilies of th valley will thrive lux- them Enrich th o(i and get them something to happen- - I guess boards Teacher can bo selected the rest road Out In front John “Just tbi much difference Mac£ never let myself think what it could uriantly te bring you joy with their la soon and became they are Imposed upon EUsdg must b waiting to see if Joan explained quietly “It mean be” sweet scented dainty blpssoms in anyone followed Joan otherwise he little children and have such "There must have been some other April and tyy Lille Pf th valley A railroad now runs to go a lot to a woman to know that she influence upon their fu- would hav been pretty aurs toown has earned the love of a good man reason” Deeds persisted hould be planted any tm from Churchill oft Hudson pay tures they ought to b selected waddling along her trail on hie or it should It does to me "Yea ther was” Joan ad- now on during th ml)d autumn with the utmost care The teacher account If he did show up just Why shouldn’t I tell you that your mitted “The idea of lovs and mar- weather Do not wait until late Indigestion I Ottsn due to pyt bad Of the first grade ought to bs se- it wa going to be Just-topiness love is dearer to ms than anything when wa Tb empty highway riage sickened me I went to work fall because they like to get their lected after fasting and prayer for And curiously enough you will that ever cam into my life tikes days when It takes so In eand to the took It before very frosty Deeds and left to earn a living and tried to forget roots established upon her the greater part of the find that you will take exactly the — even if I can't keep it? Would you t alt I never dreamed that I would long to get started in any professoar gras When he took days and- nights j game attitude yourself toward your sion and where success is so dif- - Children’s success in school must de- and it not rather know?” la a Choose that shadowed ever in be — — intereatad another ftCflutjQUgpeepj¥eri theJop ofjhe spot — Joan!" tonTiThan7houId Wnff pend man And I think there was some by the branches of trsss or shrubs Too often thi is disregarded The outer dune he found that he bad not "Joan dren you have there will never be Tlcuif "I know Mao aci time he threw you're before away a up going and notion that I had bound my protected from cold north U school teacher Is carefullytse-lecte- d calculated tbt distance quite one like the firstborn No other child a long I was afraid perhaps you would go crazy for a chance some- High and Joan The southwest side of the C ijrately winds had He a contract certainty to meant self that wasn't passed to seem well marvel such a ever you where else It Is a wife’s very paid Dignity yill without to bs broken If I couldn’t live up house is usually a good position peeing me place to with th position of the high Sht was alone Sitting in the without ms as your first Tou will never get follow to adapt goes this chance to be hon- to it giving and husband her sand it didn't change matters Lilies of the valley prefer a moist Cs school teacher The teachanother such thrill as you felt when herself to whatever to primary place in which He made bis way back along the est" She still was speaking in that And there was ths certainty as time rich loam in which to grow if th your first baby’s tiny fingers eurlsd he finds hi opportunity and ft er especially the teacher of the fiat voice "You went on that Gene felt himself 8ii on your property intrudexpressionless lookout a a fpr heavy keeping ridge "baby class” get ft email aalary around yours Most mothers I wife ftnd one who love her and Then directly behind Joan were good to come It will always bound I may be mistaken But it’s clay or gravelly in content mix with a tolerant smile Education In er Be think love their youngest child bet good be easier to remember now true that he never tried to free him- it a good husband doe so I wonder what school under aueh of leaf mold and ha a condition is uppaused and looked at her ter than they do any of th others Tv told you the truth I'm not self Qh I know It doesn’t make peat mos quantity that would think side down We a mother ur Rh 1 Whit wa with build should This pioneer it up today create poor scholarbut their first child gave them a of th wives who cannot stand the brown scarf about her ahoulders It sorry I learned it I don’t want you sense I just drifted and to the proper condition conducive triumph and an excitement that hardship of living a few miles ship in the beginning and then try was to be Not ever” so sorry flower this In breeze the bf the It ihay WAVE you donf whftt ypq' fo drifted Ad now growth blowing to patch it up in school It Done of the other ever brought to “Joan dear do you b necessary in some instance to away from their own families and cannot be patched high "You would do something?” leaning back up Childreh’s was her hair Nhe was them as a birthday gift mean thnuphl yod wouid--an?” ” friends "It's all so confused Joan change th zoU entirely In order (o minds do not let go what they Jparn supporting herself on hsr two hands "That I never loved Gena? No answered thoughtfully "But you hava auccesjB wer ur you could? Ar you " out across th tumbling looking the start at to but hold to it Fortunately a mother’s heart is the DEAR MISS DIX— I am engaged !” Sh faced can’t know how it s happy as you desarvs )o be? told Deeds that I never did Oh helps to talk to After lilies of the valley hav esbig enough to take in all the to be married to ft man whom I end facts inaccurate wages Something Deeds with a startled look In her someone even if I don’t know the tablished themselves in situation would be In hsr the eyes of expression babies that come no matter how have deceived about use educational tools like readft any Pt the? thing i so am I my age some- answers eyes "I thought to their liking they increase very Do you mind?" it never would be brown many they be but she will never four years older than he is hut I ing tables handwork stay inaccu- different th chance ar ft fault Uei how I would serene So you same and to calm thought the should be left to want "I We've another of wait for the coming you got t got rapidly They believe that I was rate and worry the student in insufficient understanding we never lived to- tb th bottom of airthla" ' with Just tho same thoughts and have made himolder Wbat would they tell him when she know I spread in their own way where In Teachers For Babies and now I feel ’ only inof yourself Make that underhis the cnejrear gether” will make ft splendid naked first into time face want to up "Then tell Dr about I dreams as she did while she sewed that I you they Deeds’ jaw set in a determined Give ths baby class the finest stant of their meeting ought to tell him my actual Dr was He on little garments for the first John with Elledge showing standing clear and oundnd dark type and teacher that can bo found &h fashion do? What would sh say Rome gardener have met with one Nor will her prayers be file age I am the small dad on th porch when I eaip out i setstart He clear-headlook going places Red--rnfor must age “That’s be young my different Joan It means I'm just ft little a afraid ha might disappointment in attempting to and healthy For a long minute he stood watchsame for she will not bo praying tled — looka old for hi and I be- vigorous She needs a good disuss BO THIS IS YOU? to bs and there’s a ” way out There has to be walk down hors ing Thia was th one picture he for herself but that her life may lieve th difference In grow Idle of th valley In mot age would position and ft sense Of humor hi heart a way out” He spoke in a masterwould alway b in to these beginning case laid is he enc "This failures won’t may published be spared for the little ones who make no differene in cur Deeds stay” kepthe water happi- dash of mothcrlincs and a lifeJoan done ful tone ’T want to know every- interrupted “Go on” need her and who would be so for- ness How d think feels a man time’s worth ef teaching power yon wind blowing he’s boon unpleas- slble to tell tbe truth Tm afraid lorn if they were motherless thing dear You’ve given me the "Well ! ' about suoh ft situation? Shall I tell She has to take the baby just as He drew a deep breath and began right nowf’ ' DOROTHY DIX SUNDAY attentive And he won’t be I’m pretty much of ft coward- - But antly E TWENTY-NINor not? he comes from his mother’s hands the descent uncertain how to aneeem to trap me" snubbed He's never asked me for everything Joan Explains SEPTEMBER f and without friction or loss nounce his presence But Joan DEAR DOROTHY DIX— My wife Answer I anything or given me a chance to "Tm beginning to understand” me to know "You had would have school home with married for education been five 1 have and either sensed it or heard the scuff turn him down you Deed said quietly "But there reasonable man I merge If b I then” Joan’s really training It is an artist’s job and of his feet in the sand She turned Mac as I was years and we arc happy together don’t think he will give it secknow wbat I mean I told you there something more About Gene” nervous was a tracing forefinger of honor and high salary her head to look at him- - Her face worthy hut for this problem: I am a young ond was “Yes” wa the reluctant answer between him and thought but If yen nr ever The primary grades are important and eyes were grace there was no pattern in the sand "I wasn’t dad something doctor I am settled in the city in don’t know what Dad keeps "There le I wa surprised when I tell to do before him it going are most the brought up girl way throughout The fundamentals of sign of surprise Which I was born and have spent almost begging me I saw Gene He had changed 0” tap you marry Nobody take ft woMy father and mother telling to guess "In what way?" b nice to him It’s been Joan Catches Deeds iy life and I have built up a prac- man’s lying about bar age seri- learning must be acquired accurate-l- y about tice that Is good and getting betthoroughly and as pleasantly as ’’Sneaking up on you" he offered were pretty strict 1938 by Joseph MoCord-’Tme for wretched Copyright perfectly do It ail W ously beaus you know I never had any made it possible but they must be acquired ter every day The future looks be continued mere imposthat much DOROTHY DIX just gruffly You’d hardly understand the shell or th high school might as well bright for me here My wife howdown won’t "I Sit heard ” you I lived in close Mor attention to the first ever feels that she can no Joner Copyright 1986 Tee I can I discovered long teachers will result in greater suc- you?" bear to b oway from her family vole wa as untroubled as Her nd friends and he demands that I Fireproof wood pulp le n process cess throughout ths educational her brown eyes Deed found him- ago that you can be a sort of There wa no Intended scheme give up my practice and go to Uy of p erfeetion self thinking that they might have dam” I n Deeds’ word "I can unhumor strolled out here together as far derstand wbat happened” Mr Fatri will glv personal aa her demeanor wa concerned "Do you think you can? Gene attention to inquiries from He dropped down beside her and was her WAYS-we that summer parent and cboo! teacher met for eom time It was on the car and development Joan had turned her face to the hadn't my fault as much aa his I know of children Write him In eare lea again We both lost our heads now pf this paper enclosing a 8 A Deed watched her h knew it Mac W thought we were wildly in cent stamped all and old the bitterness fear that and scared all wa leaving him In it place a fierce love I was happy envelope for reply same time at the TRUE trying to EXPERIENCE No 889 He’s take longing was mounting folk from the any idea getting keep hie her in arm if bride A something tee beg dream crumbling young Copyright J938 by Tb Bell gyndl-oa- ta didn’t happen He couldn’t stand of what wa happening They would to a it hav Ino then enough atop put quickly ft good friend steps in this ” Daily to 9 P M—SEPT 3 to 13 "Got your note” he beard him- If only they bad "Ho Gene talked you Into marryol Girls 903 Military mvMEiHE'ws'umMmlifflM self saying (9th So and 17th East) YES SOMETHIN " IS WR0NS I JIMfc SO ’'Ann I thank you for coming ing him THINKS HE MMUNI CARELESS HES out hold didn’t afraid t very I Tro SORRY fM UTS JIM! MV VWFE'd OlVORCl fcvi'S Muit Tako Exerciie Mac” She wa facing him now hard I DO LOVE HIM BUT I CANV STAND Mae It seemed uch a roME IF I DIDNY 6ET MY LIFEBUOY BATHl 'T wanted just this on chanc to excitIT MUCH LONGER to do IT SURE KNOCKS aof honest I want to tell manticH thing hi first car 10A little 'V It’ hack te school again for many be fair had S0THATS WHAT YOU ing I'm TERRIBLY SORRY) fM young ladle After week of lolling you After ft lot of begging we 60IN) USE i'll HAVg TO "You don't have to tell me any- roadster i on the beach swimming golfing TO SEE I? JOHN CANT HELP got mother' consent for Gen to TRY f canoeing biking riding horseback thing” Deed interrupted harshly take m up to Virginia Beach juet US OUT 'Y know p ”1 enough” or bicycling th grcwlng-uyoung for th day W started arly and yr Gen Is Joan’s Husband lady I likely to find school wail drove fast crossed over to Cape quit confining who Charles and got into Maryland 'Td rather you knew Lessons will p learned mora easi- It le It's Geno” ft "Who would marry a ccupl of ly and school will b mor pleasant Deeds MoCun heard that name kid UK you?” j if som after-chohour ar spent in dao "W lied to th clerk got by with in axercls Waiting for the athletic-mindeJoan Kendall was married to It unfortunately” ar both indoor and out- Gene Gaston Married to he "But yoji go on" door swimming pools long lane for was her husband) It was almost "W wer pretty late getting cycling bridle paths for riding golf as difficult to comprehend aa bbr home That wa th on thing I've courses and courts for badminton confession of tho night befor that been thankful for since I did get ps Or yon might join a she wa married and tenni & home After that the whole thing basketball team Deed had managed in ft fashion was ft nightmare I couldn't look lather 20 milder Don’t expect a healthy bqdy that to bring himself to the realization Gene In th fao realized that I I ha been active every day for weeks that Joan belonged t another man didn't love him second and It wa (ontsici t specie) purifying honeymoon IIFEBUOY tp be content to settle down to But he had persuaded himself by too late He wa kind H went yip arp privileged lo offer for your Inspection th heme (hut weft mn’fpnd i any uhtrpop-nU- tr SOMETIMES I THINK THAT WAS A of form some Get daily routine this time that it was no on he knew totUfmPl When it is carried dtp into first prise ih lb recent General Electric 21000 architects eempe-titieI never aaw him again until RUNUP JOB WEUANYHOW I'M CRA2Y exercise even If it’s only standing Now it wa that fellow Gaston He away a month ego If I had known pores by Lifebuoy’s Izther it ttops your LIFEBUOY'S ABOUT AND 8 th many new innovations for modern living LIFEBUOY befor an open window and bending had iten hint almost every day But I suppose I might have” CRAZY "jlQ" (WyedlyJlItsclcaoCentrinstswyl YOU MADE at tb waistline saten at the table with him ant "Tell m the rest Joan Why This same ingredient insures lifebuoy’ ABOUT ME AGAIN Completely Furnished Equipped and not do didn’t last something night you Built-u- p heel eonfinua to invade mildness— it’s kind te teqdesest btbv skin I h repeated me- go on this way?" Decorated th province of eemidressy shoes for "Gens Gaston”must "Patch” testj op have said the He Family Strict afternoon wear Long associated chanically theskinscfhuu to Joan do I was aloud in wa answered name "Ther ft for nothing BUILT AND FOB SALE BY with the sports and spectator sport dull dreds pfwomea too mueh afraid You don't know littj vote type of footwear many of th new"Yes Gens and I were prove it’s 20 my father Mac J never would hav CO est model are mad in black to married four years agq Al- been able to mak him understand milder thin complement black suede pumps and most five nov!" I was not really Gene’ wife Mother many bwufy O! classic a as well trottsurs tnt SAIT LAIY'S OLDEST REALTOR Deeds found himself almost blurt- wouldn't have been so difficult It baby Soaps brown sport ho of he was Instead ail repression managed thpss years ing “Why?” 77 State— Cor 1st So Wasatch 2040 I If I had loved Gene it killing many South Af- "Were you?” It waa nearly aa bad suppose different” would "Yes Nobody here knows it hav been rican cattle ten-pou- ten-pou- od n The Return of Joan Through the Carden Cate bus-band- ’s -- “fr Your Uk You Used What Dream 1 It Would d Half-learn- ed ' -- -- SALT LAKE TRIBUNE THOUGHT WE'D COME TO THE PARTING OF THE 1 New American Home On Display aucf tfcet My — Back-tO’Scho- r fV L gi ol Wgone jl a n- EB WICKS Dsep-deanzi- ng Jt ’ Fvr |
