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Show How to say love you by Dr. John Meld Sally and I were discussing our recollection of the time before we were together. That was a lonely time. She told me because of the marriage and family orientation of our culture she felt left out. Holiday seasons including Valentines Day were unpleasant because it seemed everyone else had relationships. She assumed she was a member of a society of rejects. We are often asked how we met and how we have maintained what seems to be an ideal relationship. We clarify the questions to mean how can 1 find a perfect person to love and marry? Mr. Anonymous said: "Marriage is not so much finding the right person as it is being the right person. I think confidence is a major component in building relationships. If you dont have faith in yourself how can others? Encouraging people have confidence in self and in those with whom they associate. Believe in yourself like you believe in God. Belief in God is independent of evidence. There is no conclusive evidence for either the substantiality or nonexistence of a Supreme Being. We take a position and the shore up the evidence to strengthen the viewpoint. If a person believes in God, no proof is necessary if one doesnt believe no proof will discouragement chocolate or roses or jewelry seems to go together. Many cards are shared, some romantic, some amusing. One of the fastest ways to destroy a relationship is with the misuse of humor. I have seen couples pulled apart by one person using the other as a target of a joke. This is As his wife was serving sandwiches, he announced: "Look at my wifes body, she once had an hour glass figure now she looks like a celery stalk." The male guests laughed. I could not believe the insensitivity. I interrupted the laughing with this question, "How do you think your remark made her feel?" A serious attitude fol- with the priceless charms of positive memories. We all have the power to actualize those positive influences. Deep in that jewel box prowls discouragement of the past. Each morning we choose which pendant to wear. When 1 recognized Sally was wearing a pendant from her past relating associating it with my expressions of love, I decided to write a letter containing some of the reasons why I love her. I If we were together in a small times when we have felt used or group setting I would ask the manipulated by such terms of group how many have spent a endearment. Although we may not realize lonely Valentines Day and every hand would go up. it, every morning we awaken a And now! Valentines Day? winner. Within every one of us Love is in the air. Romance and there exists a jewel box filled self-estee- m 11th annual Bull Sale GELBVIEH Friday February 22 Noon POT-OF-GO- LD penham Maiteting Center Montrose, CO 100 BULLS Rads Backs PoAad PAP. Fatttty and Tdcfc Tuted 8Mt Combmafen of aMng mm, growth, matsmnl Irate, arfy pUbarty and eaacas bate For more Worroataa col 53 870-249-- 1 iWHYl PAY RETAIL? 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You will find the expecting it. At another time I said, "Honproof to support it; you will stop I sure do love you!" seeking proof and just accept the ey, She replied, "What do you fact that you are okay. want?" Occasionally I think it would That response can also get to be nice to have actress Roma Downey suddenly appear with a you. I believe that the above scelight shining over her head and say, "I am an angel sent from nario has occurred in a majority God with a message. God loves of relationships. In a moment of VJ we can recall you. Gates Fences Panels Build Your Own - Save $$ Steel Square Tube Vo" - 190 1"- - 420 it IL 1" - 240 1 - 35 ft. 2" - 580 3" - 980 ft. 20' 24' lengths vary 1200 E. 181 S.LEHI.UT visa, mc, disc still wondering where die bottom is. A victim of British colonialism, Ireland languished for hundreds of years as one of Europes poorest countries, which explains why there are more people of Irish decent in the United States than there are in Ireland. Like Spain, Portugal and Greece, Ireland was a recipient of generous subsidies from the European Union during the 1980s due to its high poverty levels. However, in the early 1990s, Ireland decided to cut corporate taxes and government expenditures while the rest of EU decided to maintain high sales, income and payroll taxes. Consequently, the rest of the EU experienced only modes economic growth while Irelands unemployment decreased from 14 to 5.5 and real GDP grew more than 8 annually. Long an exporter of workers, Ireland was importing laborers by the late 1990s. The issue should not be whether or not taxes should be cut but rather which taxes should be cut and by how much. A great place to start would be indexing state income tax brackets for inflation. Lawmakers in Washington, DC addressed this issue ore than twenty years ago with federal taxes, and it is time that lawmakers in Salt Lake City did the same with state income taxes. A second area for tax reduction should be capital gains. The current recession is the result of decreased capital investment, not decreased consumer activity. In fact, consumer spending is one area of the economy that has held up. Capital investment, on the other hand, began a rapid decrease in March 2000 that precipitated the recession one year later. The federal tax code correctly makes a distinction between ordinary income and capital gains. The economic expansion of the 1990s was driven by increases in productivity. A fourth area for tax reduction would be expanding manufacturing sales tax exemption to parts and equipment with a life of three years or less. February 22, 2002 - The Eureka Reporter - Page Three spent extra time with the wording and phrasing of "Twenty-fiv- e Reasons I love You." 1. Because you are my BEST FRIEND. I can talk to you about anything without fear of being put down or made fun of. I feel confident and secure in my heart and mind and I enjoy kisses and embraces each morning and night. I am proud to hold hands when we go on our surprise dates. 2. Because loving you has VARIETY. You are so creative and 1 never know what to expect because of your winning sense of humor. I cannot be in a rut because you create an adventure for me. You keep me young. You are spontaneous and facilitate me in discovering new places. 3. Because you always COMPLIMENT me. It seems you have a built-i- n radar system tuned to what you genuinely appreciate, whether it is physical, emotional or intellectual. Every day, you express admiration in words and gestures. Honey, you express heartfelt sentiment and warmth that I feel. I continued through number twenty-fiv- e. My synopsis was adapted from Mr. Anonymous, "It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, as I did with you, and an hour to like someone, as 1 did with you, and a day to love it someone, as I did with you-b- ut takes a lifetime to forget someone." Honey, with you I have already experienced an unforgettable lifetime of love and we have only just begun. placed this document in an envelope to mail. I was home when she received and read the letter. Tears filled her eyes. She excused herself to go to her keepsake file. When she returned, she kissed me on the cheek and gave me a hug. Her lips were quivering and she seemed to be holding back emotion. She could only utter the words "thank you." A week later I walked up behind her, kissed her on the back of the neck and said, "I love you. Honey." She said, "Why?" I was prepared and said, "Number seven." We both laughed. One day when she said, "I love you, John." I said, with a smile on my face, "Why?" Sally beamed and said, "Don't think I am going to write all the reasons I love you and mail them to you." "I love you just because I do," she concluded. Hey! That was good enough for me. I (http: www. DRencourageme-nt.com- ) The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen nor touched but are felt in the heart. The Christian on his knees sees more than the philosopher on tiptoe. Nothing costs so much as what is bought by prayers. It is better to suffer wrong than to do it, and happier to sometimes be cheated than not to trust. CLAIMS DEADLINE FEN-PHE- N n A Federal Court has approved a compensation plan for former users. Call us for an information kit and a case evaluation form. related "hidden', but serious heart damage is available. Testing for Fen-PhFen-Phe- en OHHaHnilllft II Mils The Johnson HI QSB' O ODOHO CALL NOW! 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